Local Area Mom

YES but also I stumbled across the Tumblr post where I saw it, which explains a bit of why I misremembered the line:

@disregardenedgnostic Oh I've experienced men's temper tantrums numerous times over the years because I never put a "not all men" disclaimer on my posts, and they clearly could not handle it lol. It's so telling that these guys want women to appease their fragile feelings and give them a little pat on the head like "uwu not u, special boi <3" before we talk about our systemic oppression. I also think that, if you’re getting mad at a woman for not putting “not all men” on a post about misogyny…okay not all men, but clearly you are misogynistic lmao. You might not be doing the specific behavior being criticized in the post, but if you’re whining because a woman online didn’t go out of her way to coddle your feelings on her post about men being shitty to women, then yeah that’s misogyny

I see people calling others terfs (largely associated exclusively with women) for plain and simple transphobia that has nothing to do with terf ideology. I see people seething about female celebrities for shit that DOES suck while not even mentioning male celebrities who have done so much worse. the whole "karen" caricature despite men also frequently being difficult or entitled customers.

repeating this to myself as a list of daily affirmations

UPDATE: as of Sunday morning, we've sold 271 shirts. To fully fund our fall mural series we need to sell 1100. Each mural costs about 330 shirts (this is a goofy way to fund good projects, but hey, that's life in the 2026 hellscape babbyyy).

and if you are like me and white is not your color.... can I interest you in a plant native plants

Update to the update: 12 more shirts to go to fund mural #1

Just did inventory on all shirts!

Went outside in Chicago just now and the air quality is "chewable".