An Australian Queer

When I hear "tumblr sexyman," I think of Cecil Night Vale being constantly depicted as a skinny white man instead of literally anything else. I think of the background character white men who get elevated over protagonists that are women, people of color, or otherwise not the white man power fantasy.

Cecil Night Vale, as previously mentioned.

Oncelercest, because if there aren't two skinny white men to ship, tumblr fandom will start shipping the skinny white man with himself.

Bill Cipher inexplicably being fanon'd as a white twink despite being a fucking triangle.

Everyone fawning over Marvel Loki while shoving every woman and Black person in the MCU aside.

The way nearly every single character in Hazbin Hotel has the same "tall and skinny" body type, along with all the criticisms Black audience members have made about the issues with Alastor's design.

No I will fucking not teach trans masc youth your creepy terf version of original sin

No I won't teach trans masc youth that they need to apologise for being trans, for being masc or for being young men

Sue Tilley was 35 years old and working in a London employment office when she disrobed and let British artist Lucian Freud paint her in the nude. On Wednesday, one of Freud’s four nude portraits of her sold at Sotheby’s London for $39 million, the third-highest auction price for the artist.

“Mona Lisa wasn’t alive when she became famous—but I am,” Tilley said of the interest in her 1995-96 portrait, “Sleeping by the Lion Carpet.”

Yeah so this is lolcowing and fucked up and if you do this stay away from me like this is just weird and of course their taking sourceless ass ask about trans woman at their word and shaming people for kinks

There is no way this is genuine, as anyone who actually cares about sexual violence listens to all kinds of victims, and targets all kinds of perpetrators.

Her extremely binarist use of the terms TME and TMA is also at least concerning to us as an intersex person.

On top of that, the majority of sex crimes are committed by pericis people, usually either straight or living as such. And majority of victims knew their rapist already really well before they were raped. This "study" doesn't address this fact at all.

Plus we are worried about conversion therapy being seen as the only road to recovery for both victims and abusers here. Maybe even no longer being disabled and assimilating to mainstream whiteness would be required for the recovery to be considered valid as well. TERFs did shit like this before and they will do it again.

Also, this seems like a good place to bring up the fact that JK Rowling is encouraging gender criticals to sue Amnesty International for calling out her ideology as "anti human rights". (link) But of course she isn't going to sue herself, and we are almost certain her radfem legal fund will suddenly run dry or otherwise become unavailable for these lawsuits. She claims she will pay the legal fees (link), but we all know she won't.

Mrs. Galbraith also posted panty shots of a trans woman and called her a sexual predator. (link)

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

A person can go from no symptoms at all to being profoundly debilitated all in one day.

Some have baseline symptoms so low and flares so high, that things can go from 1 to 10 very quickly.