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The most obvious example is the use of insults and violent language to describe the woman's role in heterosexual sex: 'fuck you', 'get fucked', 'suck my dick', 'smashed', 'nailed', 'banged', etc.

They don't. Weirdly, the comments from dudes are really shitty. Telling her whatever she cooked isn't good enough, telling her to cook more next time, tactless criticism "Meh, more meat next time. Easy on the cheese. And get my beer."

It really shows that trying to cater to men only makes them lose all respect for you. They see tradwives and submissive women as defeated things, conquered enemies to be mocked and degraded.

Those women will never receive a thank you, and the men will instantly drop all fake decency and speak in the most demanding way, barking orders happily.

she could literally be the worst woman in the world, but if she were male, you wouldn’t have called her a bitch. there is no “i don’t normally call women this but she’s being a bitch”. you wanted to target and insult her femaleness specifically. her sex is inherently linked with your insult. that makes you misogynistic, flinging an insult based on someone’s sex.

also, if you call a man a bitch, you are degrading him on the basis of being comparable to a woman. it implies to be [female-aimed slur] is particularly degrading. you are also a misogynist for that.

Don't let people try to fool you and use "kink" as an excuse for male violence. Men hate women and sexually humiliate them all the time.

have you ever seen someone get hurt by an object they were using, who then used it more aggressively, as if out of spite? or as if they were trying to punish it, so that it “learned its place”? that’s where the “hatefuck” concept comes from. they don’t see you as human. they don’t see you as an individual, with your own feelings. you’re right about that. but they don’t see women that they aren’t attracted to as human, either. they see them as useless. they see them as less than trash. to men, women’s only purpose is to be of use to men. our aesthetics are for them, our actions are for them, and our bodies are for them--so an attractive woman is a functional tool, and an unattractive woman is a functionless tool.

i cant post TikToks on other peoples posts for some reason but here are screenshots

(she replied with sources)

and from this presentation by Jessica Rey, on the same topic:

Princeton University had conducted a study of how male brains react to seeing people in different amounts of clothing, and brains scans had revealed when men were shown pictures of scantily-clad women, the region of the brain associated with tools, such as screwdrivers and hammers, lit up. Some men showed zero brain activity in the medial prefrontal cortex, which is the part of the brain that lights up when one ponders another’s thoughts, feelings, and intentions [...] researchers found this shocking because they almost never see this part of the brain shut down in this way, and a Princeton professor said “It’s as if they were reacting to these women as if they are not fully human; it’s consistent with the idea that they are responding to these photographs as if they were responding to objects, not people.”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJVHRJbgLz8

Men weaponize suicide so much you couldn't pay me to give af about male suicidality.

Literally one of my first ever boyfriends constantly threatened suicide. And was sad that I was skipping a grade so he talked the principal into letting him skip a grade too (even though he was low key illiterate and in no way qualified for advancement and actually NEEDED extra time to study).

Thinking back on that situation now is kinda crazy. Lmao Like I skipped a grade because I was top 3 in class and he skipped a grade despite having horrible grades because he threw a tantrum??