26 / UK / feminist / lesbian / cat lover

The joke about women ruining men's happiness is such a huge projection because men literally go out of their way to shit on everything women love and make women and girls as miserable as possible

u can tell half this website has a porn addiction when the current discourse is to whether or not its ok to show your genitals in public

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aileen wournos being grouped together with people like ted bundy is insane to me. a woman who killed rapists and a rapist who killed women are not at the same level of evil.

He ate

A woman would not be allowed to even speak of it. If she managed to, she'd be threatened with rape and death. Yet we must spread what he says because he has the ability to say it with facing minor consequences.

I find it so ironic when men make statements like ‘we fought the wars’, ‘we gave you rights’, ‘we invented the phone you’re using’ etc like.. so when it’s something you want to take credit for it’s fine to generalise men as a whole group but as soon as someone brings up rape, murder, assault etc and how men commit majority of those crimes it’s suddenly ‘not all men’ ? Right okay so now you’re individuals and can’t take credit for the entirety of your demographic?

I think there’s a really unfortunate trend in people’s thinking that like, belonging to a marginalized or oppressed group makes you an ethically better person (either generally or individually) and like that sort of moralism is really unhelpful to any discussion and also doesn’t track into reality. It also results in like, someone’s status as an oppressed person being revoked by their individual moral failings, which obviously makes no actual sense

put up a statue of this woman actually

is she my role model or am i in love

its always "unions are good" until the women get unionized 😔

was on an airport train shuttle and a man sat next to me like this and i put my hand between our legs and was like uh can you give me my space? he looked at me like i called him a slur and fucking got up and stood and i was like “sir?? uh okay” and my dad and husband kept lowkey laughing at him like what the fuck man is this how yall live on public transportation?

When men are checking if you're the mean kind of feminist or not they'll bring up manspreading or some other memeified tumblr feminist thing expecting me to say nooo I'm #notliketheothergirls those tumblr feminists sure were crazy but I loooove to be like no actually, gender differences in entitlement to physical spaces do matter and reflect a bigger problem I'm not gonna be your pickme sorry

i just pretend to be so confused like “yeah it’s so ridiculous they made up a whole word to be offended at women wanting their personal space haha. wait what? so like you think you deserve extra space? wow… uh okay haha”

on one hand feminism does help men but on the other hand i want men to finally get it through their heads that a social movement doesn’t have to be aimed at benefiting them to be worthwhile

Oh 2013 we’re really in it now

feminism isn’t supposed to be popular. it’s supposed to attack deeply ingrained social structures that, obviously, people are going to want to cling to. if the only stances you ever take are the ones that you know everyone’s going to agree with you are. not. changing. the. world.