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Reblogging for the neck pain ones⌠whoa Nelly, do I ever get the most killer neck pains.
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mental health tip: save this video. watch it when youâre sad. itâs the best goddamn thing on the internet
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i was re-reading âhow to talk so little kids will listenâ earlier today, and it reminded me of how much of our culture is so thoroughly punitive â every facet of the way we behave, and expect others to behave, is connected by the concept of punishment. there has been a rise in respectful parenting theory in the past 40-ish years that goes directly against this punitive parenting style.
i have some books that have helped me with respectful parenting here:
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something i was thinking in my re-read of this book earlier today is how my first impulse while parenting tends to be a reactionary, punitive impulse. sure, you might be patient when the kid is being cute and you have lots of energy. but on an off day? you have to fight against what youâve learned. even if the kid does something incredibly naughty.
i was reminded of a time when my kid was left alone with the cat, and she started rubbing lotion all over the cat. i think she thought she was doing something nice for her; she was only 2.5 at the time. when i saw the cat, my anxiety spiked. i spoke to her sternly and had her help me clean up the cat, but i was wracked with fear and nervousness â âoh no, what if the cat licks herself and gets sick? what if the cat dies? what if the cat dies because of what my kid did?â i started to feel like just talking to my kid about it wasnât enough⌠should we say, âtime outâ? no dessert? no more cat? no more trips to the bakery? i promised myself i would never spank, but inside, there was a part of me that felt like spanking!! thatâs what my parents did!
but after i stewed for a while, i came to my senses. my kid was just being a kid. little kids have no impulse control! but me? iâm an adult, i should have known better! it was really my fault for leaving the kid and the lotion and the cat all together, unsupervised. in a way, my strong reaction to her behavior was just myself projecting the guilt at having a bad parenting moment onto her.Â
how effective is punitive speech, and punitive acts?
do you think she would have learned something if i had hit her? or locked her in her room? or took away her snacks? (these are not what those in the respectful parenting community would call natural consequences â these are just unconnected punishments, things that have nothing to do with the cat.)
no. i still would have had a lotioned cat.
what if i had lectured? yelled? gone on at length about how terribly naughty it was, and what a bad girl she was?
no. i still would have had a lotioned cat.
the actual consequence in this instance was for me. because i messed up. the natural consequence: now i have to clean up the damn cat and put the lotion where my kid canât reach it⌠and supervise the kid more closely, because sheâs only a toddler.
my kid felt bad as soon as she saw how bad i felt. she didnât show it at the moment â just nervous laughter. but i could tell she felt bad, and sure enough, later that night, she cried about it, and we got to talk more about how the lotion was not good for the cat, and how i was going to put it out of her reach for now.
and thatâsâŚ. enough.
it really is.
and itâs so fucking hard to wrap your mind around it. because our entire culture revolves around law and order, crime and punishment! if people mess up, hurt them! lock them away! demolish their self-esteem!
none of that shit helps anyone. it only feels good as a short-term solution.
in the long-term? we have to start believing in the inherent preciousness of every life. it will be hard as fuck to change our collective mindset. but we have to do it. because everything is connected to it, from huge things like climate change, all the way down to a little toddler learning how to interact with a cat.
once you see it, youâll see the punitive attitude in everything. youâll see how little it actually fixes. and hopefully youâll become an abolitionist too.
This is Sally...She's the sweetest girl you'll ever meet...a decade ago I was in a car on my street around 11pm and she showed up in a pink puff jacket with no tag and no collar but the friendliest smile you ever saw. I said hello and she immediately came to me and asked me to pet her. I brought her home and gave her some food. She ate and drank to her hearts content. She looked me straight in the eye and told me that she's was gonna live here now...I said cool. After that we were inseparable. She showed me loving kindness everyday without fail. If I came home in a bad mood (which was more often than I care to admit), she would immediately rest her head on my chest and smile telling me everything was going to be ok. She would always be there. If I ate at the table she sat by me, if I went outside for a walk, she walked beside me, if I had to go potty, she was there sitting in my foot for some weird reason lol. All she ever asked in return was a hug, a smile and a treat. It was more than I deserved. Today I have to let her go... It's one of the hardest things I've ever had to do because I love her more than life itself but the thing about being a fur parent as someone reminded me today is that...no matter how much you wanna protect them and take care of them and love them....one day you have to let go...and as much as I've been dreading this ...today is my turn. I will always love you my sweet gordita.â¤ď¸ (at Cudahy, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAOhbWjDw_0QeGBmMqkzAfEhuu9vyq6a3uGBnQ0/?igshid=k38z8xl7bihr
It's like this all day, I go on break and that line is either that way or much longer. Y'all need to stop (at Long Beach, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-NxYoMD0uBLW1GR98gwDkwob0-QWkbkUfU4lk0/?igshid=147p914p27a2o
I'm rolling out of here đ¤¤đ¤¤đ¤¤ #fatass (at Orochon Ramen) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8nGotoAd9X9VdFPTQOJziySipx9SNLaRhKpn80/?igshid=1tofeqozaw63o

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