i have too much joie de vivre for this
iâm so serious when i say excessive fear of being annoying/creepy/taking up peopleâs energy etc holds us back. it seems like itâs just little things but they add up. over the past month iâve ordered food and drinks almost exclusively by asking âdo you have a favorite?â and i know if i said that on twitter or wherever ppl would dogpile me for demanding emotional labor of servers or w/e but every single person iâve asked has seemed genuinely psyched to answer! i donât ask if itâs busy obvi, and use a phrasing that gives them the easy out of âi donât have oneââ but no one has taken it! the girl at the cafe confessed to me with something like conspiracy in her voice how everybody raves about the gluten free chocolate chip cookies and sure, theyâre great, but the delicious, fluffy homemade waffles are RIGHT THERE. the barbera the bartender recommended was actually kind of awful but it broke the ice and we ended up talking for like 45 minutes. the bodega guy declared that he usually makes himself a burger but tonight was âa breakfast sandwich nightâ and tbh he was totally right. it WAS a breakfast sandwich night
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