PSA about ADHD
โฆADHD is not a personality quirk
- some things that tag along with ADHD are:
ย ย ย ย ~sensory processing disorder
ย ย ย ย ~executive dysfunction
ย ย ย ย ~poor fine motor skills
ย ย ย ย ~sensory overloads (that lead to meltdowns)
ย ย ย ย ~sensory seeking (self stimming)
ย ย ย ย ~hyperfixations
ย ย ย ย ~moderate to severe memory problems
ย ย ย ย ~Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria- is an extreme emotional sensitivity and emotional pain triggered by the perception that one is being rejected, teased, or criticized. The emotional response is complete with suicidal ideation and people suffering from RSD often get misdiagnosed with serious personality disorders. RSD is only seen in people with ADHD and the emotional sensitivity/reaction is much more severe than that of a neurotypical person.
โฆSome other โfunโ ADHD things!ย
ย ย ย ย ย ~inability to regulate emotions
ย ย ย ย ย ~no concept of time
ย ย ย ย ย ~noticeable public stimming (resulting in stares from neurotypicals)ย
ย ย ย ย ย ~no impulse control
ย ย ย ย ย ~insomnia
ย ย ย ย ย ~listen but cannot absorb what is being saidย
ย ย ย ย ย ~no volume controlย
ย ย ย ย ย ~increased inability to focus when emotional
ย ย ย ย ย ~difficulty stopping a task and transitioning to the nextย
ย ย ย ย ย ~social anxiety
ย ย ย ย ย ~higher levels on generalized anxiety
ย ย ย ย ย ~extremely forgetfulย
ย ย ย ย ย ~โall or nothingโ mentalityย ย
@ neurotypicals- some things to be aware of:ย
- you cannotย hyperfixate. only people who are neurodivergent can hyperfixate. please donโt use that word when describing your latest obsession :-)
- please donโt stare at neurodivergent people who are stimming in public
- be respectful of those who actually need fidget toys so they can subtly stim in publicย
- if we forget something you tell us it is not because we donโt care, we just have a million other thoughts racing through our mind and no way to filter through them.ย
- please be gentle with us. no donโt tip toe around us and treat us like we arenโt human, but be aware that even offhand comments can trigger RSD. no we arenโt being too sensitive, our brains are wired differently than yours.ย
never forget that ADHD is a real disability and it affects our everyday lives in ways that often we donโt even realize
