magister weenie wizard

at some point in your life you are going to do or say something racist, sexist, or otherwise bigoted. Your goal is not perfection, your goal is to be the kind of person that the people you've hurt feel safe being honest with when that happens.

since people keep adding this kind of stuff in the notes: no, self-flagellating and making a big show of apologizing and "doing better" is extremely not the same thing as making people feel safe about telling you when you've been shitty. in fact, doing so is in many ways anathema to it.

Dahling you simply must read this book! It’s all about this devious little caterpillar who simply gorges himself on all manner of divine things

mymusician... oughh my little bug [remembers parasocial relationships are bad] [remembers infantilization is bad] this complete stranger is their own huge bug

you really do turn thirty and everything is different and sometimes better. if you're in line for thirty stay in line bro

Sorry I Spent all mY spoons this week already and it's fucking Tuesday. We're heading to the knives

fuck. okay my original goal was hit (thank you all SO MUCH for the help btw it means so much) but my job just revoked my health insurance and a bill autopaid so i have like two days to raise the $600 i am now short. i am sorry to continue asking but i am truly without other options. please help me.

i hate responsibilities i should be having gay sex instead