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I wish I could trust a man enough whilst having a CONSISTENT source of good dicking

Don’t even need it to be a full-on relationship

Casual dating makes sex such a turn-off for me if I ain’t fucking on the regular because I’m just reminded men will fuck anything and it’s never about good connection or chemistry with them

Sure some will wanna fuck u regularly but it’s always on their terms. And it’salso because you’re the most accessible pussy at the current moment — not because they feel connected

When I think about all that, i just can’t even enjoy sex to its full potential anymore

I just enjoy my fantasies and basically I’m obsessed with myself and my creativity. Really dreaming up men that do not exist 🤣

At the same time I think the avg redditor is just that — avg in all areas of life. And avg people kind of live life in that sweet spot where they have just enough, and will date for love/stability or need a man/roommate to reduce cost of living, so the chances of them settling for a dude is very high.

When that whole soft girl era bs came about i knew that was a game id lose, then i discovered decentering men and felt i could relax in my big dawg self

The truth is i am more of a man any of these losers will ever be, and im not dumbing myself down for them unless its an opportunity to weaponize incompetence and/or scam them

Always going on and on with their self-pity as if they’re the only ones who have trauma. it’s always a trauma Olympic w them. BPD is just failed narcissism due to the instability

they don’t “feel more deeply” like it’s a superpower, they are deeply dysregulated, and will latch onto anyone to soothe them, anyone but a therapist. they want to be a victim, so they are not looking for solutions. And always in crisis

Then they become hard to cut off because you know how unstable and unhinged they can be in the face of rejection — even though they’ve done nothing but take and drain.

sexualization of young girls can be seen in what was marketed to us back then thru music and clothing

but i caught on early that men were fucking creepy when I turned 9. everywhere me and my friends went to hang out, older men would stare at us in such a predatory way like they were either lusting over us or wanting to snatch us

who cares if you’ll be labelled a villain or whatever

lot of women seem to have difficulty saying “I hate men” and they’ll say it in the most PC way possible

we’re so conditioned to fear being labelled a feminist or misandrist — well I don’t fear it but I know others do. y’all gotta stop worrying about labels and how you’re perceived

you feel what you feel. prioritizing being pc over your beliefs is not good for your nervous system :) u don’t want autoimmune diseases do u ??!:?.)/

actually what I really mean is… prioritizing men’s feelings over your feelings is not good for your health at all