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maybe this is too woke but i really hate the trope of naked older women = scary or vomit inducing or gross or whatever. like you even see it used in horror on occasion like oooooo so scary theres a woman with saggy boobs and wrinkles. There is something to be said for unconsensual veiwing of nudity. sure. it’s uncomfortable and violating for someone to be nude in front of you that you don’t want to see. but rarely that’s seen as the issue and instead the real ‘horror’ or gross out joke is the very idea of a woman who does not have a body that is sexually desirable to men. The very idea of an older woman’s body is treated like it’s something that we should all know is gross, sick and wrong. It’s just something that really bothers me

#its been in horror a lot more recently and its like. ENOUGH

I'm gonna say it, I do think that even the laziest person imaginable should have a roof over their head, food in their stomach, and access to healthcare

I don't do "art studies," i draw "wrong" until I get an epiphany from god

“help” is my favorite way to say that something is funny. like hey i laughed at this post can you save me

[ID: an oil painting of a scene portrayed from the ground, as if the viewer is an insect looking up. Surrounded by tall flowers, a small beetle flies above with wings splayed. The view also includes leafed branches from a nearby tree and the sun shining down on the scene. End ID]

[ID: A digital illustration of a moth with eye spots on its wings in black and white. The background is a bright red rectangle with black stars near each corner and a white border. The artist's signature reads: "maggotmuncher" in the top left. End ID]

[ID: A colorful digital painting of a centipede curled around an upright vodka bottle with a straw in it, as though drinking the vodka. The background is transparent. End ID]

makes me so sad when my friends refuse to pirate things and insist on paying for a streaming service EVEN when i offer to do it for them or teach them. like pleaseeee i have a vpn i have a plex server i can get you whatever you want. don't buy disney+ i can be your little poob i have it for you.

[description: a sixteen second video of a duck laying on its back in shallow water, slapping its feet on the water repeatedly and making plap plap plap sounds. end description.]

Are we friends.... Are we cutes.... Are we yay....

what they say about leading a horse to water but not being able to force them to drink is so true. like i can make a whole post explicitly about how it is bad awful wrong to be ableist. and people in the notes will be like "yeah fuck those stupid idiots who do this. i hate those brain rotted people with no empathy. people without empathy are monsters we should ostracize everyone like this until they get the point. these bigots are just lazy and unwilling to change. imagine not being able to understand such simple concepts? haha couldn't be me." hey the call is coming from inside the house. shut up

you know what, "because i'm in pain" is a good enough reason as any. why do you want to take meds? in pain. why do you wanna cancel? in pain. why didn't you want to talk? in pain. yeah don't be a jerk to everyone you meet and expect them to welcome that. but why were you being a jerk? in pain. it's a reasonable explanation. being in pain should be enough of an explanation. it should be considered an immediate problem that we try to fix as soon as possible instead of expecting the vast majority of people alive to just get on with it.

i don't want this to come across as condescending. but when i talk about the never ending crisis after crisis that disabled people face it is strange when people just link it to burnout. like yeah regularly overdoing it will lead to burnout. but it also leads to disability. ableds in permacrisis regularly become disabled as a result. disabled people regularly become more disabled as a result. being in a state of relentless deficit can and will burn you out. and it can make your health permanently worse. a lot of disabled people are disabled because their health got worse and just never recovered. and, as disabled people, we are painfully aware that there's only so far we can be pushed before the consequences become severe. not just burning out. not just having your health deteriorate again. serious health scares, losing large swaths of our abilities, shortening our life expectancy, mental health going to ruin, dying, becoming homeless... I'm not saying burnout is easy but I am asking people to consider that there is n bottom line. if we fall too far and slip through the net then we're done for, and disabled people who are barely managing and working in an unsustainable environment are painfully aware of this possibility

Talking to my traumatized friends like “take your time responding and don’t feel any need to cater to my opinion in this matter just tell me the truth about what you feel. Your feelings are valid. ” and it’s about like choosing where to go to lunch.