No one talks about how much bisexuals pushed gender ideology and pushed conversion therapy beliefs on us.
It wasn’t lesbians. It wasn’t gay men. It was bisexuals. Let me explain.
Bisexuals have nothing to lose when it comes to TRAism. Sure, sometimes trans identified people will say to them they should be attracted to trans identified people or else they’re bigots but homosexuals are, and will always be the main targets of trans individuals to hate on. Why is this? Because they think a lesbian or gay man being attracted to them will be the highest level of validation even though no lesbian will be attracted to a male and no gay man will be attracted to a female, it’s a sick fantasy they have.
Bisexuals don’t see the issue with trans identified people hating on us for our sexuality because they simply can’t relate. For them, genitals and sex doesn’t matter so surely it shouldn’t for homosexuals either. They can’t fathom that for homosexuals, biological sex matters, because they don’t understand from their perspective.
Therefore, most bisexuals don’t stand up for homosexuals. They call us bigots for not being attracted to the opposite sex. They validate trans identified individuals because they don’t see anything wrong with the way they act towards us.
Not only do they have nothing to lose (unless they’re women…but many women support misogynistic causes), but they have so much to gain. Gender ideology positions bisexuality as the one moral sexuality. So many bi people are so excited to get to wax poetic about how superior they are to everyone else for “not seeing gender” or for “not caring about genitals”, or how they care about “hearts not parts”. Unlike those horrible gays who only care about genitals and don’t even care about personality.
It also gives them an opportunity to punch down at homosexuals. Again, they’re viewed as the one moral sexuality, so now they get to take on an Educator role and lecture homosexuals about how horrible and transphobic we are, and how we should open our minds, hearts, and beds to the opposite sex. And they are so smug about this.
As far as the whole “but bi people are also told they’re transphobic if they don’t date trans people” argument goes…I’m sorry but it isn’t the same. When bi people are told this, they aren’t facing demands to change their natural sexuality. In their case, not wanting to date trans identified people really is a preference. One that should absolutely be respected, of course, but still a preference. In the case of homosexuals, it’s our biology. Lesbians cannot be attracted to males no matter how they identify, and gay men cannot be attracted to females no matter how they identify. When we’re told that not wanting to date the opposite sex is transphobic and that we should change, we’re facing homophobic conversion rhetoric.
Big of you all to make a wide call for biphobia and to spread the same kind of uninformed hatred and bigotry that has harmed us consistently throughout time, and then restrain the comments on that message. There are few things uglier than misguided self-satisfaction upon throwing people under the bus just because it feels nice to use whomever you don't understand as scapegoat, since your empathy cannot extend beyond your own libido.
You are not miraculously spared from being an intolerant imbecile just because you are gay. Persecution does not absolve the smugness of your wallowing in the prejudice you actively contribute to layer. You are not right because you feel like you should be. Bisexuality is not a preference, it is a sexual orientation. No one chooses who they desire and love. And there are many bisexual people out there with a deeper attraction to the same sex.
It's not because one is theoretically compatible with a partner that they should be forced into any kind of relationship meant to 'affirm' the other person's warped idea of self-worth. That works for everyone and everything. As a matter of fact, the awful discourse from activists who will demand other people to narrate them into existence is wrong in and of itself, not relatively depending on whether you happen to be personally involved. Gender ideology as it stands today is harmful for women of any persuasion. Gender stereotypes erected into so-called identities harm boys and girls alike.
You all pretend to stand separate from those militants you loathe when in reality you're two sides from the same terrible, postmodern coin. You can't analyse for shit, and you defend nobody: you content yourselves with redirecting bigotry, hoping it'll distract the bigots away from you. It won't. You're only giving them fodder for their cannons. You project. You miss, but you don't miss yourselves.
since your empathy cannot extend beyond your own libido
Thanks for proving the entire point of my post! Another bisexual that hates homosexuals because we can only love the same sex, aka fork found in kitchen 🍴
Possibly your reading comprehension leaves even more to be desired than your social aptitudes.












