If you had bad sex with men as a woman and didn’t enjoy it/orgasm this doesn’t mean you are a lesbian. Lesbians won’t have sex with men as the very thought of it makes us sick. And no we don’t have to ‘try’ men to know this, we simply don’t have attraction to men and therefore wouldn’t get into bed with one. Consensual sex means a mutually agreed upon act with attraction between both parties.
Many women have bad sex with men. Men are notorious for not pleasing women right and putting their own pleasure first. You can still be attracted to a man’s looks but have bad sex with him.
