more than a melody

first off I’m so sorry this is literally so shitty like that is an absolute insane reaction for them to have. like it was two dates and maybe their feelings were extra hurt because of the drunk hook up but you said before that happened that you only wanted to be friends and you reiterated that afterwards?? it’s not even close to a situationship you didn’t lead them on for months you were clear with what you wanted and they can’t just automatically call you an ex lmao but I think they are subtweeting because they know you’ll see it and they want you to feel bad

you’re not toxic for explicitly stating what you want and it doesn’t make you an abuser either they’re just throwing these words at you to hurt you. I think it’s really good actually that you communicated what you wanted and then even took the time to communicate that you don’t like the ways you changed. a lot of people have piss poor communication skills and it leads to bigger problems but in this case it seems like they’re just upset with what you had to say and they’re lashing out which is terrible I’m sorry

I don’t know if you’ve completely cut them off to the point where they’re like blocked on social media etc but one thing I usually do is I mute people like on instagram and twitter and it turns into out of sight out of mind. I don’t know if they’d make a big deal of you all of a sudden unfollowing them and start blowing up your phone with another page of text so this is an easy solution to where you won’t see the lies they’re saying about you. you might be tempted to check like in the beginning I have been tempted to check on people I’ve muted to see if they’re saying anything but it honestly goes away like I’ve had some people on mute for ages and completely forgotten I’ve done it