This Whole Thing Smacks Of Gender

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

It’s like. People can tell if you don’t really like or connect with them. If you aren’t truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you don’t really like that person that much.

NOAH CALDWELL GERVAIS CAME OUT AS TRANS WE FUCKING DID IT

Judith Butler and J Halberstam are exploring Second-Life together

your twenties are not "late" to start hrt. that is a normal time to start hrt. your thirties are also a normal time to start hrt. your seventies are pretty late to start hrt, but not too late. like, statistically, that's at the end of the curve. but if you are not dead, it is not too late for hrt.

i love you disbled trans girl. it is okay to ask for help. your friends DO want to help you. you are worth loving.

love your puppygirl

standing by the window peering through the blinds scratching my stubble as I malevolently assign pronouns to innocent people walking by. wear all the pastel athleisure in the world, long nailed boba drinker, you're a they/them now. that youth lazily wheeling down the hill on a mountain bike would look most fetching in the hall of chie/chier. and you, brickie in cement crusted overalls, loudly gargling along to top ten radio, yes that's right, yes, you too shall succumb to the authority of my queer gaze. through the power vested in me by an arcane and mysterious misunderstanding of death of the author, I call upon the interpretability of all things by the reconstitutive agency of the beholder and I forcefem you! yes, I name you she/her! woman! lady of grout and levels! mistress of the white trades van! which is kind of cute on you actually now that I think about it, maybe this one wasn't all me. the universe works in mysterious ways.