euphoria

i found my group soon after that and i never saw that queen again but to this day i am convinced i met an angel.

needing accommodations

taking breaks

relying on other people

needing help

struggling with something more than others

your food

crying

panicking

going to therapy

taking medication

your sexuality/gender

taking up space

not going to every social event

The amount of friends you have (quality over quantity)

stimming

getting excited

liking "basic" things

liking "cringey" things (cringe culture is dead)

Having made / making mistakes

needing time to grow

not being able to meet all your goals imminently

feeling like you move slower than others

where you are living

not living an "aesthetic" live

struggling with social situations

Taika Waititi: Powerfully creative, Knows himself, Good humored, Takes his work and his relationships with other people seriously, Intentional as a creator

John Mulaney: Publicly supportive of his wife and other women in his life, Crafts humor without taking cheap shots at people, Supportive friend, Willing to laugh at himself yet confident

Andy Samberg: Uses platform and humor to publicly call out toxic masculinity and white privilege, Self-aware, Willing to cede the floor to others, Good friend

Will Smith: Very intentional about what type of actions he takes as a husband and father (if you haven’t watched him on The Red Table, you should), Good humored and professional, Dedicated to his craft putting in the hours and energy, Generous with his emotions and vulnerability, Responsive to others emotions and vulnerability

I read somewhere that one aspect of Toxic Masculinity is believing that being part of a “We” will erase the “I”; that selfhood is threatened by relationships with other people. It reads then that Healthy Masculinity (indeed, healthy people in general) create a “We” that enhances the “I”; that we can become more powerfully ourselves through relationships with other people. 

pls donate to my gofundme so I can kick dysphoria’s ass and be happy like this all the time:

https://www.gofundme.com/iv-fischer-facial-feminization-surgery&rcid=r01-15464805801-ef03dc45ac394761&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_m

Spending time with toxic people

Mindlessly scrolling through social media

Eating junk 24/7

Apologizing too much (over things you couldn’t control, over stuff you’re not sorry about)

Depriving your body of precious sleep/oversleeping

Comparing yourself to others

Following toxic people on social media

Being a people pleaser

Procrastinating (this is a hard one, I know)

Thinking you’re not good enough

Overworking yourself

Having no “you” time

Being caught up in past/future

Being jelaous and envious

Shopping without intention & buying things you don’t need

Stressing out over nothing

Beating yourself up instead of accepting your mistakes

Being mean to others just because your bad mood

Pushing yourself over the edge

Being in your comfort zone 24/7

Being addicted to drinking/smoking/gambling/whatever destructive