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Assorted papercraft Harrows! I love this Gloom Mistress so much. 💀

It's always interesting to make several versions of a papercraft - I'm very picky about what papers I use, and tend to get hung up on which pattern combo will be "the best." That works fine for one-off artworks like commissions, but when making multiple versions of a piece, I can't do that! So I end up combining patterns I wouldn't normally have thought of, and getting to enjoy the unique feeling of each one.

he has the ultimate power

Just like in other areas of our lives, it's easy to be jealous of others when we create in fandom spaces and post online - the online aspect of fandom just offers more opportunities for it. Hits, kudos, comments, reblogs. Whatever unit of measurement you look at, there's always some number out there ready to tell you who's "better" and who's "worse" at whatever creative endeavor you engage in.

Except that none of those numbers actually gauge skill or quality.

When we're jealous of those numbers, what we actually wish we had isn't bigger numbers, it's attention. Reassurance. Excitement. Community. Whether the number is 5 or 5000, that's what it represents. We want those things and that other person has more of them, and so we end up jealous.

To manage that jealousy, we need to understand what we need and then find ways to get it. It might not come from posting on AO3, but maybe it comes from a local writer's group. Maybe there's someone in your life that you wish cared a little more about your "silly stories" and took you more seriously when you spoke about writing. Maybe what's missing isn't related to writing at all and it's more about having someone who cares about you and thinks you're important.

But numbers are just one thing to be jealous of. Perhaps the envy is instead because of another person's abilities. They come up with such interest plots! They have such fun ideas! They always have the perfect words, the singing phrases. For them it's easy, and for me it's just impossible!

Whether it's easy for them or not isn't what's making us envious, though. It's not about them and their abilities at all. It's about feeling like our own skills are lacking. The envy comes in because that person has what we want and don't yet have.

If we want to get past this type of envy, we need to refocus our energy away from being sad or angry or hopeless because another person is able to do something. Focus instead on celebrating the things we already do well. Take the time to notice improvements. Identify specific things we want to do better, and figure out how to learn. Remember, asking for help is always an option - and it might even lead to that feeling of community that might be lacking too.

she looks at you. you look at her. then she turns, and walks away.

When Threats Of Violence Don’t Fix It, Change Methods. With Style.

Commission 3 for @floofanflurr!! This is is from their fic How to Help a Human in 2 Easy Steps, which features UF!Papyrus rocking an FANTASTIC dress while being an amazing dad.