don't manhandle the urchin

hey guys! as yall may know, i kinda fled my home state due to poor climate for being a queer person of color and also due to years of medical neglect. while the past year in my new home has allowed me to at least get treatment and diagnoses, it has not stopped the periodic full body downtime my body needs when i push it too hard!

after coming back from one leave, i find myself in immediate need of another with my body physically incapable of doing my minimum wage job.

i'm asking for any and all donations to help me secure my rent so that i can focus on being healthy and figuring out a work schedule that accommodates the multiple ways i'm disabled, which i am now having to fully come to terms with.

Some thoughts.

Kofi Tip jar

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this caused a lot of issues both in terms of fixing said space-time-continuum and in terms of nautical navigation, and after a long and heavy battle in the international maritime organization it was decided that the bureaucratic burden of dealing with this was to be upon Ireland, much to their dismay. the Irish Government then released an app for all sailors and seafarers so they could report titanic sightings during their journeys, even though they heavily dissuaded you from reporting them given the paperwork it caused.

anyway i woke up with a clear image of the app in my head and needed to recreate it for all of you:

hey guys! as yall may know, i kinda fled my home state due to poor climate for being a queer person of color and also due to years of medical neglect. while the past year in my new home has allowed me to at least get treatment and diagnoses, it has not stopped the periodic full body downtime my body needs when i push it too hard!

after coming back from one leave, i find myself in immediate need of another with my body physically incapable of doing my minimum wage job.

i'm asking for any and all donations to help me secure my rent so that i can focus on being healthy and figuring out a work schedule that accommodates the multiple ways i'm disabled, which i am now having to fully come to terms with.

a neophallus can get erect with an implant (this will either be a bendable rod or a device that inflates with saline at the press of a button, usually in the testicles)

both can feel sexual pleasure and experience orgasm

most neovaginas will be able to tolerate larger insertions with enough dilating/training

the nerves in neophalluses take a while to regrow but it is incredibly rare to experience no sexual nerve growth

both can look and feel "normal" if that's what you want, just take good care of your scars and look at your surgeons' results portfolio (and don't be afraid to be picky! its your genitals, you get to decide!)

in fact it's possible for many people to stealth and for their sexual partners to never know. even for phallo, some people with natal penises have erectile implants too, ED is common. neocaginas are often indistinguishable from natal vaginas

many surgeons are starting to offer preservation options for patients who want a more mixed look/don't want to lose what they have

you can have nothing and retain sexual function, even! it's called nerve-preserving nullification. similarly to other bottom surgeries, they use the most sensitive tissue (glans/clit) to create a subdermal pseudoclitoris

yes you can pee like normal. urethral reroute leaves a small hole at the perineum (taint)

all the advice about scars from OP applies here too!! take care of yourself well and it can heal well

hey guys! as yall may know, i kinda fled my home state due to poor climate for being a queer person of color and also due to years of medical neglect. while the past year in my new home has allowed me to at least get treatment and diagnoses, it has not stopped the periodic full body downtime my body needs when i push it too hard!

after coming back from one leave, i find myself in immediate need of another with my body physically incapable of doing my minimum wage job.

i'm asking for any and all donations to help me secure my rent so that i can focus on being healthy and figuring out a work schedule that accommodates the multiple ways i'm disabled, which i am now having to fully come to terms with.