Transie

Y’all: ew no that’s gross and fetishising a lump of fat??

Trans guys: I’m fascinated and adore this new lack of something that has been there my entire life!!

It’s not that I always have this constant drive to be female, or that it’s just a thing that randomly comes and goes. It’s more like a constant push in the direction of presenting more femininely.

So if I’m clean shaven, I’m gonna want to put together a nice outfit to go with how nice and smooth my face and legs look (and it might as well be a feminine outfit - that’s what nice looks like, yeah?). If you give me a nice outfit, I’ll want to do my nails and put on some makeup. If I’m in nail polish and makeup, I look pretty nice, and almost like a girl - if only my Adam’s apple was gone and I had some breasts, that’d really complete the look. At that point, I also start getting dysphoric about my shoulders. And if I’m going that far, I should really get facial feminization surgery, otherwise my face isn’t gonna fit with the rest of me. (I understand cute outfits and makeup aren’t every girl’s cup of tea, but this is just about my experience)

It isn’t that I always want to have breasts and rearrange my facial features. When I’m presenting 100% male, those things aren’t even on my mind, and honestly I don’t even want them. After all, if I have facial hair to worry about still, breasts aren’t gonna make me look like a girl; they’ll just make my gender presentation look kinda mixed. So gender dysphoria is kind of a sliding scale.

I say all this because I’ve never seen anyone else say anything like it, but I know I’m not the only trans person whose dysphoria gets worse when I get closer to my ideal presentation, and I wish I’d known about that when I was still trying to figure things out. I thought the reason I didn’t feel very dysphoric was because I wasn’t transgender - it turned out that I just hadn’t been allowed to present femininely enough to really feel how strong the dysphoria got as I moved along the sliding scale.

You need dysphoria to be trans

Pansexual is just spicy bi

Q***r is a slur, not a fucking identity

Maps are disgusting

The full acronym is LGBT. No plus, no q, no I or a or whatever the fuck

Non-binary is a matter of expression not identity.

Yaoi is nasty

So is DDLG and all its variants

You should never tell someone to die just because you don’t like/agree with them

He/him and they/them lesbians aren’t valid unless they have to pretend to be male to hide a relationship or are trans and closeted. Those are the only acceptable scenarios

TERFs are so gross

Ace/Aro people aren’t inherently LGBT

If it was, it would be easy to change from learning.

If it was, conversion therapy would work.

If it was, trans people wouldn’t have dysphoria.

If it was, everyone would be able to pick and choose what gender they wanted to be. (THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS)

If it was, that would mean being trans is a choice.

As well, and I’m not saying everyone is going to agree with me, fuck off if you don’t think straight people can be in your LGBTQ+ space. They could be Heteromantic Asexual, or Aromantic Heterosexual, a Heterosexual Transgender. You don’t know people, so don’t assume every straight person in your space is going to be there to antagonize you! As well, fuck the idea of straight cis people not being allowed to be in queer spaces! Many of them recognize this isn’t their space but go there to support their friends who it is their space! Maybe you’ve been seeing that cute girl at your school’s queer club and you’re too shy to talk to her unless you have someone there to support you like your best friend who may be straight!

pansexuals are bisexual. they’re included.

transgender is a modern term. dysphoric trans ppl prefer transsexual over transgender so bluehaired white kids who think wanting to wear different outfits makes them different genders don’t hijack the trans community from real trans ppl.

Hey guys, I know I’ve been unactive lately, but I’m asking for a quick favor that’ll take 2 minutes at most. Please go report this for hateful and abusive content. If you don’t believe that it’s hateful, watch it. Onision’s latest videos and tweets are pure, malicious transphobia. If you have any questions about why what he says is transphobic, I’m happy to tell you my opinion and what I think. But if you’ve got the time, please report this. This shouldn’t be seen.

Anti social ghost club

You’re my boo

BOObies

Black Cat

They used my respected name right off the bat. Called me Riley all the way through. Used he/him pronouns. Didn’t slip up once. Asked me and “What’s your legal name? I’m sorry I have to ask that.”

Then asked me “Now is it okay if I send things with Riley Roswell to your home?” not wanting to out me accidentally and then “Is it okay if I send stuff with planned parenthood labels on them or do you want me to be discreet about it?” knowing there are people who could get in trouble with family or partners or others for going there.

OH MY GOD I’M GOING TO CRY AND THEY DIDN’T JUDGE ME AT ALL

THEY WERE TOTALLY ACCEPTING AND ANSWERED ALL MY STUPID FUCKING BASIC QUESTIONS ABOUT HRT ABOUT WHAT THE APPT WAS GONNA BE LIKE

AND SHE WAS SO KIND AND SO UNDERSTANDING

AND SHE RESPECTED ME SO MUCH AND I WAS SO HAPPY

I CAN’T BELIEVE PEOPLE LIKE THAT EXIST IN OUR WORLD.

OH MY GOD.