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wtf... gay little elf..

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Cormorant fishing in Yangshuo near Guilin, Guangxi, China. Christian Vaisse

Cormorant fishing is an old tradition in which fishermen use trained cormorants to catch fish.

#birds #cormorants #badass

wow what a neutral and unbiased description (/s)

#babble and blather

theme for 7/14 was "a bit fruity don't you think?" (banana shirt and bunch of grapes earring)

#me #ootd #I look angry in the second one #it was towards the end of my shift so I was tired lol

things I don't want to do tomorrow

do therapy in the kitchen where the flies are

walk to/from the train for work in the Excessive Heat (TM)

I might be able to move my stuff into the living room for therapy but I don't think I can afford not to go to work :(

#babble and blather

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g4yr4t

just noticed that there are a ton of flies all over the overhead kitchen lamps and I'm freaking out

g4yr4t

I could make a trap with vinegar but then I'd have a bowl full of dead flies in the kitchen... which I guess is better than overhead lamps covered in flies but is still gross

#bugs text /#babble and blather #I have a flytrap thing but it's too small for all of them #and it's not attracting enough of them

thyrell

joe biden should do another stimulus check where the ira sends me a lox bagel. with cream cheese please

irs.

NPR has learned that the Department of Health and Human Services will not be finalizing its most aggressive attempt to end gender-affirming

Some ok news for once. Seems HHS is backing off their most recent attempt at a national care ban for trans kids due to the massive legal hurdles it would have faced. This does not mean other ongoing efforts to target care providers and orgs like WPATH aren't still ongoing and still a major concern, but it is good to see that we won't have to fight this specific battle (a proposed and now discarded rule that would have attempted to deny Medicaid and Medicare funding and coverage at any hospital that provides gender affirming care for youth)

#trans

what the fuck I didn't know it was nonbinary day... happy nonbinary day respect neopronouns or else!!!

#babble and blather #nonbinary #I'm a little annoyed that I didn't know it was nonbinary day until like half an hour before it ended (eastern time)#I could've been celebrating #jk. I still would've had to go to work.

cyanocittae

my friend keeps sending the groupchat voice notes of her eating bussy and calling it "asmr"..... bro go study for your physics exam 😭

cyanocittae

hi sorry uh. incredible miscommunication on my part lmfao.

my bad yall

#OMG

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g4yr4t

I understand, though, that it can be tricky, because you don't want to ask every person who "seems" trans their pronouns. besides which, after seven years of gender-affirming medical care, a lot of people just assume I am a cis man.

also there's no one-size-fits-all situation. there are certain people (including trans people) who would prefer that you assume their pronouns based on their presentation. I'm just not one of them, because no one's gonna get it right the first try. and I don't expect them to!!! it's just a pain to have to explain it all the time, and having to bring it up first is even more of a pain. there's no clear solution to this problem.

g4yr4t

part of the reason I switch up my presentation quite a bit is to signal to people that I am, in fact, nonbinary. but that's still a bit of a sticky wicket, because there are people of varying genders who have beards and dress in skirts, or wear dangly earrings with their button-downs, and change up their gendered presentation day-to-day. it's not easy to signal a nonbinary gender when you live within a gender binary lol. and even if people guess I'm nonbinary, there's no way (short of pronoun pins) to easily signify which pronouns I use.

idk it's all just really complicated and difficult!

g4yr4t

being nonbinary is hard. on account of. the binary.

#babble and blather

g4yr4t

I understand, though, that it can be tricky, because you don't want to ask every person who "seems" trans their pronouns. besides which, after seven years of gender-affirming medical care, a lot of people just assume I am a cis man.

also there's no one-size-fits-all situation. there are certain people (including trans people) who would prefer that you assume their pronouns based on their presentation. I'm just not one of them, because no one's gonna get it right the first try. and I don't expect them to!!! it's just a pain to have to explain it all the time, and having to bring it up first is even more of a pain. there's no clear solution to this problem.

g4yr4t

part of the reason I switch up my presentation quite a bit is to signal to people that I am, in fact, nonbinary. but that's still a bit of a sticky wicket, because there are people of varying genders who have beards and dress in skirts, or wear dangly earrings with their button-downs, and change up their gendered presentation day-to-day. it's not easy to signal a nonbinary gender when you live within a gender binary lol. and even if people guess I'm nonbinary, there's no way (short of pronoun pins) to easily signify which pronouns I use.

idk it's all just really complicated and difficult!

#babble and blather

I understand, though, that it can be tricky, because you don't want to ask every person who "seems" trans their pronouns. besides which, after seven years of gender-affirming medical care, a lot of people just assume I am a cis man.

also there's no one-size-fits-all situation. there are certain people (including trans people) who would prefer that you assume their pronouns based on their presentation. I'm just not one of them, because no one's gonna get it right the first try. and I don't expect them to!!! it's just a pain to have to explain it all the time, and having to bring it up first is even more of a pain. there's no clear solution to this problem.

#babble and blather

jumbled "tired of people assuming my pronouns" rant under the cut

kind of hate that no one asks my pronouns anymore because like. literally no one guesses correctly. but on the other hand I dislike pronoun circles bc I'm always the only person who uses neopronouns and I feel like no one knows what to do with that information. most people don't end up actually using the right ones anyway, either because they forget (which is understandable in a group setting, and is another part of the reason I'm not a big fan of pronoun circles), or because they don't try.

and like I understand that "ze/hir" is an unfamiliar set of pronouns for most people, but those have been my pronouns of choice for my entire adult life and there's a reason for that. if you've got questions, ask me. better yet, look it up first. "ze/hir" is actually a relatively old set of neopronouns, even if you, personally, have not heard of them. there's information about how to use them online. there's information about how to use a lot of neopronoun sets online.

I guess I would just prefer it if people asked me in a one-on-one context whenever possible, at least if we're going to be friends or seeing each other regularly. I don't exactly mind people calling me he/him or they/them if, like, I'm at work or something like that. or if they just haven't had an opportunity to ask yet. tho, still, people who hear me referred to as ze/hir by my close friends sometimes can't seem to pick up on the "hint"? and then just call me whatever they were gonna call me anyway.

basically, I wish people would use my actual pronouns. I understand that they/them has become something of a default in circles like mine, but that's also kind of why I don't use them. and if you hear someone using neopronouns for another person you know, maybe assume that that is an intentional choice and follow suit. and if someone you know uses a set of pronouns you're unfamiliar with (even if they have other pronouns that they use as well!) either ask that person about how to use them or try looking it up for yourself!

#babble and blather

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I write these words with a broken heart. To those who read this and choose to ignore it, you can simply scroll past, but I am living through the most difficult moments of my life. My husband is slowly dying before my eyes. Due to a severe head and jaw injury, he has been unable to eat or drink for over a week, his weight has dropped to just 39 kilograms, and he is suffering from severe, life-threatening malnutrition.

qamar2026

The doctors confirmed he needs urgent surgery, but we can't afford the operation and treatment. I feel helpless watching him weaken day by day, while time is running out.💔

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