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I understand, though, that it can be tricky, because you don't want to ask every person who "seems" trans their pronouns. besides which, after seven years of gender-affirming medical care, a lot of people just assume I am a cis man.

part of the reason I switch up my presentation quite a bit is to signal to people that I am, in fact, nonbinary. but that's still a bit of a sticky wicket, because there are people of varying genders who have beards and dress in skirts, or wear dangly earrings with their button-downs, and change up their gendered presentation day-to-day. it's not easy to signal a nonbinary gender when you live within a gender binary lol. and even if people guess I'm nonbinary, there's no way (short of pronoun pins) to easily signify which pronouns I use.

I understand, though, that it can be tricky, because you don't want to ask every person who "seems" trans their pronouns. besides which, after seven years of gender-affirming medical care, a lot of people just assume I am a cis man.

part of the reason I switch up my presentation quite a bit is to signal to people that I am, in fact, nonbinary. but that's still a bit of a sticky wicket, because there are people of varying genders who have beards and dress in skirts, or wear dangly earrings with their button-downs, and change up their gendered presentation day-to-day. it's not easy to signal a nonbinary gender when you live within a gender binary lol. and even if people guess I'm nonbinary, there's no way (short of pronoun pins) to easily signify which pronouns I use.

I write these words with a broken heart. To those who read this and choose to ignore it, you can simply scroll past, but I am living through the most difficult moments of my life. My husband is slowly dying before my eyes. Due to a severe head and jaw injury, he has been unable to eat or drink for over a week, his weight has dropped to just 39 kilograms, and he is suffering from severe, life-threatening malnutrition.

The doctors confirmed he needs urgent surgery, but we can't afford the operation and treatment. I feel helpless watching him weaken day by day, while time is running out.💔

So uh im a black trans lesbian and ive been trying to get a new job since the last one I had let me go for bullshit reasons, I was in a car crash in the work truck and wasnt the one driving but the guy who was didnt get canned, and I still havent found a new one yet and I need help paying rent since unemployment hasnt come in yet I need 1100$ by the 30th

125/1100