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me getting any new clothing: I will wear this for 5 weeks straight

The trick is to do it without shame. Literally anything could be cool if you just did it shamelessly

[image: "most people don't even try to get what they want because of the painful reckoning with their parents it entails."]

I just want to remind you that sometimes your life really doesn't begin until you are 26+... Romanticizing and obsessing over our youth is harmful. Growing up is beautiful. Discovering who you are and how you interact with the world is a gift. Maturing and learning what you truly want out of life and living in that purpose brings fulfillment and peace. Your life is not over in your early 20's because you haven't figured it out yet, it's just beginning.

i feel like some of y’all don’t understand that ADHD is a genuinely debilitating disorder