In the show, they completely ruined an aspect of the Daemyra dynamic that I loved in the book: the fact that Rhaenyra always placed her absolute trust in Daemonāwho, in turn, always sought Viserys's trust but never won it; the fact that Daemon was always a family man and Rhaenyra allowed him to be one; and the fact that he was always unfailingly loyal to her. In the show, they manufacture conflict between the only two people who never really had any between themselves. Yes, Daemyra were often kept apart in *Fire & Blood*ābut by Viserys on several occasions, and later by Mysaria (who exploited the paranoia Rhaenyra had developed due to repeated betrayals and bereavements)ānot by their own doing.
And that undermines the whole soulmate aspect that the show constantly emphasizes through their dialogue and direction. Ideally, they should be on the same wavelength.
In the book, Daemyra can also be viewed as soulmatesāeven though there is no dialogue or dramatization, given the historical-chronicle styleālargely due to the fact that...
- Daemon and Rhaenyra both endured forced marriages, from which they were only freed by the accidental deaths of their respective spouses. ā The fact that Viserys essentially allowed the Greens to target Daemon and Rhaenyra (Otto targeting Daemon, Alicent targeting Rhaenyra). ā The fact that Daemon alleviated the loneliness Rhaenyra felt upon his return from seven years of exileāsince Alicent and her faction had already begun isolating her and her ladies-in-waitingāleading them to immediately join forces against the Greens. ā The fact that Daemon and Rhaenyra both married the Velaryon siblings, Laena and Laenor. ā The fact that (as I mentioned) Rhaenyra gave Daemon the trust he had never received from Viserys (at least until she was consumed by paranoia late in the war, following all her losses and betrayals), while Daemon was Rhaenyraās first true ally; thus, they provided each other with exactly what the other needed most. ā The fact that Daemon and Rhaenyraās dragons mated and produced offspring. ā And finally, the fact that Daemon and Rhaenyra died on the same day, five months apart... and so on.
However, in the book, this interpretation of their relationship as soulmates worksāironicallyāmuch better than in the show. After all, beyond simply coming together and complementing one another, they are always on the same wavelength. Not to mention that their dragons have mirrored the love shared between them, andāabove allāthat their deaths are intrinsically linked, almost mirroring each other.
In my opinion, the show clearly botched the Daemyra relationship in several ways. The only thing that really saves it is the actors who are perfect:
Also, the way Syrax & Caraxes are shown:
And of course, the way Daemyra are often depicted as dragons in human form. That's was a fucking good idea:
Just imagine if *House of the Dragon* had stayed true to the source material for *The Dance of the Dragons*āspecifically the "Daemyra" dynamicāwhile incorporating all the dialogue and visual parallels the show invented to further emphasize their natural soulmate connection than the book already have. Add to that the direction portraying them as dragons in human form, and it would have been absolutely brilliant.