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I’m back and still always drawing her

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my knight keeps saying fuck it we ball before charging into battles and it's reallynot inspiring confidence in my heart
Stay safe, guys
Get immediate help 24/7/365. The Trevor Project's crisis counselors are just a text, chat, or phone call away. Completely confidential and f
it’s three taps anywhere on the screen on a smartphone!
This is important punks. Deadly important.
I’ve texted their hotline before. It was super helpful and even if it hadn’t been the amount of time you’re there can be enough to let your urges fade and stay safe.
Consider: it is the healthiest and most normal thing in the world to go to your close friends and loved ones with problems in your friendships and relationships. Not to gossip, not to talk shit, but I go "Hey, me and (x, not related to my current partners) are on the rocks right now, can I talk it out with you?" and then you get input, advice, you get to process your feelings through conversation, then you're probably more equipped to go back to the person and go "hey I've been thinking and processing, I feel xyz."
Two major thoughts here:
Don't let anyone convince you that this type of conversation should only exist in therapy. Your friends and loved ones are there for you. Its called a support system for a reason. Getting advice and comfort is entirely different from talking shit.
If someone gets upset with you for talking about your interpersonal problems with your friends, its worth examining that dynamic. Why are they so worried other people will find out how they're treating you? This isn't like 100% always a bad thing, but like. Consider if there's other parts of the relationship that feel controlled. Consider how listened to and respected you feel, how safe you feel, how independent and free to act you feel.

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yes friends let us blaze the marijuana! four hundred and twenty haha
Not shaving and not wearing make up are literally nonbehaviors. They’re a complete lack of action. But doing nothing is considered masculine because women are not allowed to just be. this goes double for trans women.
reblog this version because transmisogynists don’t know how to fuck off.
The “hrt will make you boy crazy” is just some genderplay kink, it’s harmless and fun for ppl who are into that kind of fetish
uh no
there are dozens of girls in my notes telling me how scared the idea of suddenly liking men made them. it's such a pervasive idea that im constantly seeing freshly out girls terrified and asking for advice because they desperately don't want it to happen.
I've never once seen it even be used in a kink context come to think of it, it's always some poor scared trans lesbian desperate for it not to be true and a bunch of people saying oh don't worry about it if it happens it happens men are actually great tehe.
If you need to hear this, you can be a trans woman and a lesbian, you are allowed to like women and it doesn't make you a predator or any less trans. i love you <3
it's fucking cruel actually.
how many trans women are bullied and abused by men growing up? and you turn around and tell those poor vulnerable girls that actually in order to be who you want to be you're gonna learn to love men. fuck you, do better.
I should draw rouge the bat. But in what circumstance
NASA took a pic of the dark side of the moon fyi
Yeah, isn’t that a cool picture? It’s the one someone showed me to point out what color the moon really is compared to the Earth! They both have the same amount of sunlight on them here.
The moon’s not white! It’s concrete-gray! It only looks so shiny when compared to the void of space!
I love learning things I didn’t expect to learn. Like when I learned that it’s called the “dark side” of the moon because it’s the side we don’t see, not because sunlight never hits it.
she's mooning us
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the moon

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sounds very similar to a radio story i heard in 2014 ago about credit card debt. the debt got sold to a collection company and a couple received a court summons. they knew they had taken on debt, but they were confused about who this new company was and where specifically the number they were supposed to owe came from.
they show up in court and just ask the lawyer for the collection company: can you prove where this number comes from? Do you have a contract showing that you purchased our debt? probably luckily for them, a reporter researching a book on the topic showed up and asked the same questions.
10 minutes later they get in front of the judge and the collection company drops the whole case and theyre free to go. story is below, it has a transcript in the link too
Ira talks to reporter Jake Halpern about a scene he saw take place in a Georgia courtroom where a couple uttered some magic words that seeme
https://twitter.com/BrianManookian/status/1674963884703088642
Link to the twitter thread for accessibility!
the lesbian computer from portal was right. given the circumstances ive been shockingly nice
insane like/reblog parity on this post btw
who ruined it
dw i fixed it
there's this video going around from youtuber Adam Something about how "the left pushed men into the arms of Andrew Tate by not having good dating advice for men" and it kicks off with a personal story where he says "when i was a young man and I'd ask 'how do I score a hot gf? 😏' the left responded 'uhm, the word score is actually very problematic!' and I said 'jeez sorry I asked' and then I went to the right, and (etc.)" and it's like...
look man. if you're going around saying "how do I score a hot gf", out loud, with your mouth, where people can hear you, then honestly "hey maybe reconsider how you talk and think about women" is actually really good dating advice that will help you cause saying that shit is gonna repulse women. maybe it's not what you wanted to hear but it's what you needed to hear.
I kinda agree that Adam's guide was a bit tone-deaf and silly, but it's still a concrete list of things to do to be less shitty when you are starting to date. Which in turn facilitates getting to know people you find attractive, and realizing that they are also people.
You're not going to get far if you start with language policing. Kids know almost nothing and fear rejection a lot, so we should try to figure out the actual meaning behind the poorly chosen words of the question instead of immediately chastizing them for asking it in the wrong way.
The question of "how do I score a hot gf" is likely to expand into "dating seems scary and vulnerable, I'd like to become romantically involved with a specific person but I have no social script to navigate by, and I don't want to blow my chances through some silly mistake" if you pry a little and ask a few follow-up questions. And we as adults are in fact capable of dealing with poorly worded and stupid-sounding questions without immediately turning to glib hostility. We just have to ask follow-up questions and be patient and kind.
We do not have to be patient and kind to misogynists who turn to the right when their misogyny is challenged
The follow-up questions are intended to determine if you are talking to someone who can still be steered to a better path, I'm just saying it's good praxis to hold your horses for a moment before getting confrontational when you come upon someone asking dumb shitty questions. They might actually be asking good questions in shitty and dumb ways due to a myriad of reasons.
You don't have to be endlessly patient of course. If they double down on the misogyny or whatever, feel free to tear em a new one!
"How do I score a hot gf" is kind of inherently incapable of being a good question because it, and the sentiment behind it, are rooted in men's feelings of ownership over women's bodies and the belief that having a girlfriend is something men are entitled to
I agree that these are some of the broad misogynistic currents underlying the question! Nonsensical expectations and demands towards women are things we are in no short supply of, and not being a toxic dick is a never-ending process of recognizing and discarding these ideas as they swim to the surface. What I'm getting at is that if one is talking to a young man who is asking this question, "how to score a hot gf" can be sort of a stock formulation of a much more complex ask. Sometimes the underlying question is unfortunately still going to be "how do I manipulate women into giving me things I want, preferably without anything in return" and that is reprehensible and deserving of ridicule and scorn. But other times, the underlying question is going to be "how do I approach this person I have a crush on, I can't seem to find a way to begin communicating (probably due to some unexamined assumptions and feelings rooted in the general misogyny of my environment), is there some sort of an etiquette that I could follow so this would be less scary? Also I don't want to act like that guy from the first hypothetical, he's a shithead."
In either case, to our 15-20yo boy/man asking the question, the "how to score a hot gf" formulation is a concise and plausibly deniable way to broach the subject. It doesn't bare vulnerability or unveil specific bad intentions, and it's plausibly explainable as ironic, so that their peers are less likely to make fun of them for asking it.
No, it’s not complicated. Young cis men are asking “why have I not automatically received the mommy bangmaid I am owed for having a dick and surviving until adulthood?” and the answer is “leave women the fuck alone since you’re incapable of basic empathy or recognizing humanity in women and girls.”
In lieu of constructing Killjoy's Incel Island, I still think it makes sense to figure out if a young person is using inflammatory rhetoric out of genuine buy-in into harmful ideas or out of cultural osmosis, and crafting my approach accordingly. To each their own, of course.
Folks will choose “being right” versus “being effective” almost every time, it seems.
I feel like I am genuinely losing brain cells watching people argue that we should ostracise teenagers for asking for life advice in less than perfect language, while simultaneously making up a whole parallel universe in which said less than perfect language means specific things no reasonable person would read into it. like, is "how do I score a hot gf" objectifying? yes, obviously. does it mean "I think I am entitled to the partner of my choice and for her to be my mommy and sex slave"? no, you literally just made that up and I'm starting think you're the one we should maroon on Killjoy Island
Rule 1: to be a person is to be capable of making mistakes.
Rule 1.a if it is possible to do something wrong, then it must therefore be explicitly possible to do something right.
Rule 2: we are all born ignorant, everything is learned.
Rule 3: the best way to encourage effort is to forgive failure.
...all of this, of course, is assigning blame to the left that might not belong there to begin with.
Here's the thing. The right absolutely loves to use "the left disagreed with us" as justification for anything. Express any opinion, and you'll get "This is why Trump won" or "this is why you lose elections" or "this is why you should be rounded up into camps and exterminated."
It's okay to tell budding misogynists not to be misogynistic. Really.
Yeah, but the point being made was specifically that if the person asking 'how do I get a hot gf' is a younger guy, HOW you tell him 'that's a misogynistic way to ask that' is going to impact how he hears it. The point being made was that if someone is young, they may well be educable.
That's just it. I think that's the point we were supposed to hear-- or more accurately talk about-- while internalizing the bit about "it's the left's fault."
I gave a specific example of this in a different thread/branch where a white supremacist arrested for assaulting a counter-protestor in Charlottesville tried to make it sound like he wasn't on the side of the white supremacists until those darn lefties attacked him for being a white male-- when the video of the attack, as well as his online history, paint an entirely different picture.
This particular method of propaganda does three things:
It recontexualizes deliberate actions into reactions-- in his case it turned "I deliberately choked a woman just to make a point" into "I was reacting to being screamed at and pepper-sprayed".
It plants the idea that challenging the behavior can make it worse.
It perpetuates the victim narrative that the right wears like body armor.
I'm not saying there's not a wrong way to confront pubescent misogyny-- or really, any -ism or phobia-- I'm just saying that anytime someone says "I was like this because people were mean to me", I think of Steven Balcaitis, or that politician who whined about how unfair it was that his friends no longer wanted to be associated with him just because he was exercising his constitutional right to speak about how we should dehumanize a vulnerable population, or Mike Pence at the Farmville debate responding to an accurate description of his political history with "Do you see how mean he's being to me?"
The goalpost for "how respectful and gentle should the left be" will always be moved to a point behind the current speaker, until we are quiet and invisible-- and then we will become the threat to their existence that is hiding under their noses, and the fact that we try to stay invisible will be vilified.
Incel culture is in particular built around the concept that the "male loneliness epidemic" is entirely the fault of the women who refuse to become their sexbots fresh off the puberty assembly line, and the very act of refusing to fuck them is an act of disrepect, sometimes even "disrespect deserving a violent response."
Or, and hear me out...
We need both tactics and a few in between as well.
We DO need people to hold the line. To refuse to be dragged to the right or silenced.
But we also need a few people out there willing to hand hold people to guide them to being better people.
And we need people who will gently scold and we need people who will go tough love and we need people who will react with disgust instead of anger and we need people who will react in ways I can't think of because I'm not the person to be doing those jobs.
There is NO ONE RIGHT WAY. The entire concept that there is one is one of the characteristics of white supremacy culture. Believing that anyone has the right to decide what's right for someone else is also on the list. So is thinking there's an objective way you need to respond to bigots (even baby bigots). Also the idea that no one should feel discomfort or pain as part of growth.
I will die on this hill:
We have to work with what we have and we have to do what works. And what works is different for every single human being.
If you find the idea of hand holding a baby misogynist revolting, then be one of the people holding the line. But you're not doing anything helpful by treating the hand holders like traitors.
If you can't stand the idea of pushing someone into the right wing and you have a firm grip on how you got to the left, then be a hand holder. It isn't a job for everyone. People who are willing to do the job need to stop insisting that people who aren't suited to the job take it on.
If you aren't open to the idea of EVERYONE being liberated and educated, you're not left wing. You're an authoritarian with gay rights and universal healthcare.
worst part of anxiety/ocd is that sometimes your fears actually do happen and you have to wag your finger at i like this still doesn't prove you're right asshole. it's like having a venom symbiote except you don't even get to have gay alien sex

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Jake Paul got his jaw broken, happy holidays everyone 😌🩵
Andrew Tate got his shit rocked, too!!! 🎉🥳🎊
Also!!
Let's not bury the lede.
Jake Paul had his jaw broken in two places. And based on the breakage, he is likely looking at a half-million dollar reconstruction.
Nah let’s not bury the fact that Anthony Joshua is the boxer who did it, he’s hot and said this: