✚ Lavender ✚

Here's my Strawpage. Much of, but not all, of this pinned is copy-paste.

Contains: intro & disclaimers, stances, dni, about me, blogs, credits Last updated: July 16, 2026

❤︎ INTRODUCTION & DISCLAIMERS

My account, as a whole, will contain graphic and sensitive content. Continue at your own discretion. Do not continue if morbid, taboo, or generally dark subjects and portrayals bother you.

I am a paraphile and make art to cope with it. Although not every drawing is inherently tied to that, it will be a present factor. I do not promote any real harm (particularly where consent is absent or impossible) but it will be a common theme in my posts. They are fantasy and not to be taken as an admission of guilt.

@fennecfangs - stances/opinions blog @fennibal - paraposting

I am likely to follow without liking any posts as I tend to lurk before committing. I have freshly (re)read your pinned if you have one to ensure the most up to date understanding of your blog, but if you don't want me interacting: block, don't report.

❤︎ STANCES

Summary: anti-censorship, pro-fic, pro-kink, pro-para, anti-contact, pro-consent & anti-abuse (pro-conabuse), pro-consang, anti forced recovery, pro youthlib, radqueer neutral/critical, pro contradictory labels (radinclus), anti terf and radfem

[EXTENDED STANCES/BELIEFS]

❤︎ BLOCKLIST

I know I can't stop anyone from interacting, but I am likely to block users for harassment or abuse apologism if noticed or persistent. The following list is extended examples of what I may block over.

❥ General: nazis (including N.I.N.), TERFs, transmedicalists, gen-ai supporters/users, anti-para, anti-consent, radnormal, xenosatanism, post-radqueer, certain ZETAs (esp. 4 square) ❥ Pro-contact for chrono-minors with considerable gap and/or theriform animals with bodily-humans ❥ Anyone aggressively anti-fiction or ship, particularly if you harass others over it

Age ≠ maturity so I don't have an age limit for interactions but discourage it from anyone -13 chrono. It's nothing against you; know your limits and keep yourself safe.

❤︎ ABOUT ME

Name: Lavender/Ven Age: 18+ chrono, 5-15 intra (ageflux permakid/teen) Gender: None (or whatever you make of it, I'm not strictly gender-void) Pronouns: It/that/thing (others are fine too but I prefer non-human terms) χ, 𝛎, 𐤑, β, σ, υ, δ, 𐤀 Married to Sweetie Belle (as much as kids can be)

I'm not very social and lurk more than anything. I don't necessarily mind interaction but I am unlikely to initiate if we're not already close, even if I find you interesting. I will respond to asks and comments, but unless we are mutuals or I am familiar with you in some way I am unlikely to respond to cold DMs.

❤︎ CREDITS

Pfp: self-drawn + Banner: PastelPollution Bloodbag divider + Drip divider + Heart divider + Pills divider + Pulse divider

I actually had a backstory (or context) in mind as I drew this ship, but I'm still settling on exactly what direction I want to take it.

I think Babs, as of her first introduction, would like Big Mac due to his quiet yet mature nature. He'd be someone she could latch onto in a similar way she did Diamond Tiara and Silver Spoon, but in a less (outwardly) toxic way. He's an adult who has himself figured out, which she would be very drawn to as she yearns to appear that way herself. Not to mention that him being one of few of words would relieve a lot of the worry around mentioning her lack of a cutie mark.

On that note, Babs would be uncomfortable around Applejack considering how important and direct she is, but I like to think that she grows quite close to Applebloom as she becomes more comfortable with herself. I sort of see Big Mac as Babs' way of reassuring herself, and Applebloom as Babs' way of truly embracing herself. She likes them both but for separate reasons in my mind.

On the flip side, I think Big Mac would like Babs because of her more intense personality to contrast his own. Maybe not agreeing with her most of the time, but still admiring her spunk. Honestly, most of my reasoning for Big Mac's interest is purely rooted in my headcanons. I like the idea of Big Mac being a closeted transfem and wishing to experience fillyhood through the fillies he is close to. I use he/him throughout this post mostly for the sake of differentiation, but also because he's still figuring it out and insists on that. Same thing for liking fillies in any other way than jealousy; he would never openly admit it but something is definitely there.

Big Mac would definitely be the "do I want to be her or be with her" type towards fillies, but the answer is easily both. Despite how big he is, I have the impression that he likes to feel small too and probably wishes that he were still a foal himself. But alas, he is not, and ends up leaning into predatory tendencies instead. Which is why Babs is so compatible when she's at her most insecure.

My own oc is more like... Red velvet cake themed with military stuff! :)

Thank you! It's interesting you say that, actually. I tend to have lists of things I associate with my characters or preferences they have, and blueberries are actually Lavender Bunch's favorite fruit! (She likes yogurt too, but I see her leaning more towards vanilla than blueberry for that.)

It's a lot more fun to create characters when you establish quirks like that, but I haven't had much of a chance to share them yet. It's really cool you were able to make that association by design alone, even though it was probably just the palette.

Thank you, I really appreciate it!

With the direction payment processors are going right now, I've been uncertain if I even can set up commissions due to the mere nature of my art. I would like to, but my hurdles are finding a site that will even host me (not to mention one that won't doxx me).

Oh, don't even get me started on how many ships and concept ideas I have. Just hope I get the chance to draw and post them all lol.

Hi, nice to meet you too! Thank you so much, it means a lot :)

I've generally been meaning to make an appreciation/mini announcement post, so I'm using your ask as an excuse to finally do that (sorry not sorry).

I was very nervous to post the art I have been because I'm not used to attaching myself to these themes so directly and openly. I had a small backlog saved up because I put it off out of this hesitance. However, the reception I've received on here was so much warmer than I had expected. Dozens of you have already gathered around for my art, much to my surprise. I only just started posting on here the other day, and in the first night alone my stats matched counts another art account took months to build up to (and many a notif to show for it). My account is still very small of course, but I'm overwhelmed by the support nonetheless.

So far I've only posted cuter art, but I feel it's worth mentioning that if you followed me you should be prepared for gore and the likes! Unethical imagines galore! If you're not excited about that, I'm probably not for you. I love drawing cute art, don't get me wrong, but I am not afraid to get my hands dirty either.

Anyway, I plan on building this account into something bigger and this is just the starting stage. While my Tumblr will have a focus on my art, I don't want to limit it to that exclusively. I'm very glad so many people enjoy it so I hope that everything else that I want to be on here is just as embraced.

Thank you all for your support.