not actually olivia's child, but her sister's
has always insisted he was a boy from the time he could talk, screamed whenever he had to wear a dress
initially, the family treated it as a mental illness, but at the age of 7, one of his many psychs noted that if he was still acting this way when he'd been like that the whole time, it was unlikely to go away
his grandfather, at this, proclaimed that if the child wanted to be a boy, they should do it right
a story was invented about his pretransition self being ill and sent off to some place in the alps to recover, and him being the son of a reckless family member who ran off with the drummer of a band at the age of 17
his grandparents chose his name and changed his documents with a hefty donation
he was immediately instructed on how to be the right type of boy; how to dress, how to express emotion, what skills to learn
sent to a boys' boarding school where he started smoking at the age of 10
when he hit puberty, his family sought out specialists until they found one who would put him on experimental estrogen suppression, making him part of a study
another donation put him on testosterone from 15, and he experienced the classic 'testosterone made me gay' thing
this prompted a massive breakdown and suicide attempt, because if he was interested in men openly, he would have to become a woman, and he couldn't go back to that
when he was 18, he was told he would undergo bottom surgery; he didn't really want to, but that was the way things must be done according to his doctors, so he went through with it anyway
it was a gruelling process, taking over a year and involving multiple complications, and he spent much of his time in hospital doing mail-in university classes
by the time he started going to hampden in person, he was indistinguishable from a short, slightly effeminate cis man
sex was never about physical pleasure for him, whenever he experimented in school he was always giving, never receiving; after surgery, he expected it to be easier, but with very little sensation, there wasn't much fun to be had
but he wanted to be wanted, so badly that it didn't matter whether he was enjoying it, and besides, isn't sex the only thing real men want?
[at this point, there are multiple ways this story could go - canon, canon divergence with papenathy, canon with papenathy post-epilogue, any of the above with cis or trans richard and/or charles, but basically francis' epilogue situation remains the same. a real man would want to marry a woman, and after all that work the family had put into him becoming a man, he'd better act like one. take your pick for how it would end but just putting things out there for your consideration.]