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adulting tips from an adult who doesn’t adult good

how to disappear online

schools don’t teach you this

different knives and their uses

how to grow the fuck up | part 2

what to do when you’re alone on valentine’s day

another ‘adulting’ masterpost

ultimate getting a first apartment checklist

dealing with the worst case scenarios 

adulting life hacks

24 hacks for the cheapskates in all of us

guides to life (getting an apartment, writing a resume, protect house from break-ins etc)

open jar lids

ultimate guide for what to buy and when to buy

style essentials

11 ways to wear a scarf

11 ways to tie a necktie

things i never learnt in high school

writing adult emails

how to balance a checkbook

what to do if you suddenly find yourself homeless

6 tips for saving the most while shopping

money making hacks

how to make a skivvy roll

tips for living alone

life lessons for adulting

fashion reference

lose your wallet?

crisis hotlines

how to break out of zip ties

how to disappear completely

tips for self defense | really important

what should I do if I get robbed?

When the cops pull you over

big emergencies -  sinking ship |  stuck in an slevator |  falling on ice |  survive nature [stranded]

tape hands for a fight

things to keep in your car

covering up tattoos

heimlich maneuver for dogs

how to become an adult

how to unlock car with shoelace

30 things I learnt the year I turned twenty

guides to life

- marsha p. johnson repeatedly identified as a gay man and drag queen and survived into an era where the language did already exist if he chose to identify as transsexual. he explicitly stated that he was not transsexual and claimed that all transsexual people were also homosexual.

- sylvia rivera did identify as a transsexual woman (and made disparaging speeches about lesbians). she was not an ally to lesbians. lesbians and transwomen have not always been allies.

- neither of them were there when the stonewall riots began, according to marsha’s own testimony. sylvia was sleeping off a drug trip on a park bench, and by the time marsha arrived at stonewall, the riots were already in full swing.

- storme delarverie, a mixed black gender-nonconforming lesbian and drag king, may have been the one who incited the stonewall riots. she never identified as a transman despite surviving into an an era where the language was made accessible to do so. accounts differ as to who started the riots.

- stonewall was not a special haven for trans people and drag artists, it was just some bar where gay people met up. by all accounts, it wasn’t even a good bar.

- pride as a festival and parade was invented by gay men, lesbians, and bisexual people. fred sergeant is one of those gay men, and he has been beaten (in recent years, as an elderly man) by trans people and their allies due to his views on medical transition. non-homosexual trans people were unheard of in this era.

if you were mentally healthy, you wouldn’t be tortured by the existence of your body , and you wouldn’t feel the need to medically or cosmetically alter your otherwise healthy body . idk why it’s so hard for them to admit that yes dysphoria is a mental illness … maybe because it clashes with the “ being trans is innate and something you’re born as ” bs ?

also on a completely unrelated note

If any of these liberals had bothered to read, they would know that there exists many many communities indigenous to Africa whose languages don't have gendered pronouns, where clothing rules are different. Where men and women dressed the same, where the rules of nudity are different. Where men are effeminate. And in most, if not all of these communities, misogyny will still be rampant.

lesbians weren't mentioned, not even once. well except for calling homosexual lesbians TERFs.

the feminist discussion devolved into a TIM calling one of the speakers a "puritanical christian rhetoric spilling conservative" when she merely suggested that porn & sex work may be dangerous for women.

“we just want to pee with women!!!!”

anyone with a working brain already knew there’s no reason for them to be in our bathrooms unless they had disgusting motives behind it.

as foul and degenerate as this is, it’s not even shocking to me anymore.

humans can't do that meaningfully, surgery does not create a real vagina as an organ, dna does not alter, bones do not meaningfully alter, organs do not meaningfully alter

so tired of "there are more than two sexes blah blah intersex"

intersex are still male or female, one gamete or another (functional or not), SRY gene or lack of it

even more tired of "so you think infertile woman aren't woman you conservative, vagina obsessed"

talk about parroting rhetoric, come at us all the time with this stuff, pot calling the kettle black

come up with better stuff that isn't easily debunked and the worst ideology ever

"male or female BRAINS"

yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

FUCKIN YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

no BULLSHIT I KID YOU NOT! Look what I found while walking Home…..

OH MY GOD

OH MY F*CKIN GOD

THIS POST FUCKIN WORKS?!?!?! THIS IS PAST A COINCIDENCE NO WAY!??! NO FRIGGIN WAY!!! 

They say its impossible being trans could be influenced by a fetish or peer influence and that trans people should always be taken 100% seriously and yet Exhibit 184848476