baby honey

3. agonizing over the present

I meant to make this meme ages ago when pride month was still on but yeah gé (pronounced gay) is the Irish for a goose.

this isn’t about mermay, really. you can grab the free png on my patreon. print it out if you can and remember her name.

You will always make a better impact helping people who need it than trying to hurt people you think deserve it.

Blend into a fine powder.

Buffy the Vampire Slayer 1.05 — Never kill A Boy on the First Date

and I don't know exactly what to do with this yet but I'm fascinated, in a really upsetting way, by the way some of these people seem to conceptualize romantic and/or sexual attraction as an act of violation that no one should do to people they like and care about. if nothing else it raises some really compelling questions about what they think actually goes on between people who have sex and/or romantic bonds with each other if that's not supposed to be something that happens between friends.

Saying this as gently as possible: if you have any of the above reactions to finding out that someone has romantic feelings for you, that's on you, not on them, and your reactions are both evidence of trauma and not something you should encourage in yourself. Please seek help and healing.