Just Vibin'

im realizing very fast that people do not in fact know that sometimes things in stories suck on purpose and it sucking is the point

individualism is killing us all you are not the main character of your own little movie you are literally just some guy

My one boring tip to anyone in their 20s is to resist the temptation to rot in your room every time you get a free moment. Dismiss any neuroses you have about going outside and "being perceived". Be a dictator about it, plan your hangouts like they are binding commitments. No excuses! Go to the bar with your friends. Be kinda hungover at work. Socializing is like exercise; even if you don't feel like you want to, you should still do it because it's good for you.

no dude it's so cool how attached you are to that character who is singled out and ostracized due to the external monstrousness that clashes with their internal spark of humanity. and i love how drawn you are to themes of horror and love, nature versus nurture, otherness, isolation, and the abject. i bet you have normal feelings about your own personhood

fucked that you can’t fix other people especially when you really care about them. Oh so im just supposed to be there for you while you suffer. like a useless cunt gargoyle

Lesbians, during this cultural backslide into conservatism and fascism, PLEASE BE MORE LESBIAN!! Have plenty of good lesbian sex, butches and studs be more masculine, fuck the “girly pop” masc shit (if it’s not your thing of course) trans mascs take the plunge and start T. Femmes flirt with and date more butches, have your name engraved on their carabiner.

trans women be more of a dyke, you don’t have to call yourself a fag! lesbians of all kinds, make friends with more lesbians! do not be afraid of expressing your interest and attraction! dress more strangely! be more offputting to the people who would try to shrink you! allow yourself you anger and rage! encourage the people around you (especially young girls) to be spunky and tough and boy-hating! do the things with your body that you want to do, whether it’s shaving your head or to stop cutting your hair altogether and grow it long, if it’s to shave your arms to make your tattoos look pretty or to stop shaving your legs, if it’s to not wear makeup anymore or to get wilder with your bold makeup, if it’s to work out more or take it easy and rest more, have more partners or just enjoy your own body. be more lesbian NOW

*while sewing*: you are a fabric. you can stay a fabric. you do not yearn to return to being string.

When I'm watching an older movie and the lead actor takes off his shirt and I can tell that the filmmakers actually let him drink water...good shit. We love a hydrated king.

Not to be all "Well, I never liked the bad thing", but that Wolverine vacuum-sealed muscle look never did anything for me, and it was kind of vindicating to learn that this look is achieved via extreme dehydration

if you want to dress gay but aren’t sure how, you need to focus more on finding clothes you actually like and that make you feel good when you look in the mirror. develop your style independently of what you think looks gayest and trust the homosexuality will follow. it goes where confidence and self acceptance are

It would kill half the 19-25 year olds online to realize "I can't help it I have trauma" is one of THE quintessential abuser excuses

Like there is a difference between "My trauma creates impulsive urges and has changed my instinctive reactions to be irrational, I need to relearn shit." vs "I'm traumatized so I Can't Help It and you're not allowed to expect better of me"

"there's no platonic explanation for this" some of y'all need better friends

"there's no platonic explanation for this" some of y'all need to be better friends