one day we shall saute the horrors

I have kind of a niche political view on tumblr, which is that I think misogyny is bad even when it’s just hurting women

and I don’t even think it needs to have a singular benefit for men for feminism and the abolition of patriarchy to be worthwhile

the delicate art of cracking someone's egg honestly has a lot of parallels to trying to help a friend who you think might be in an abusive relationship

the egg prime directive is stupid as fuck because yes, you don't just assume based on incomplete information that your friend is in an abusive relationship and then try to force them out of it, but you don't just fucking do nothing either. you have to employ finesse

As someone who was, prior to mid-2019, a hopeless fucking egg herself, and whose mental health improved dramatically once she came out, it is incumbent upon people to work out how to crack their friends' eggs. But it's different for every person, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution.

Less like cracking an egg and more like restoring a painting- You know that varnish has to come off because even if it's protected the artwork for 200 years, it's dusty and distorting what's under it now, and as you wipe away you might discover that some things you thought were original were later additions, and above all you have to work at the speed the painting wants you to work at, otherwise all you get is burnt canvas and a blur.

passing in public makes me feel like white shrek

shia labeouf DIE. brad pitt DIE. chris brown DIE. johnny depp DIE. cristiano ronaldo DIE. conor mcgregor DIE. die die die die die die die DIE. every single abuser DIE. if you support them DIE TWICE!

I’m putting in my too weak notice.

there’s a t-shirt that says “I survived a bad day and all I got was the rest of my life” and yeah I still think about it