I fucking. love him.
[Video Description: A tiktok of a man replying to a comment by @/heatherblue50, that reads: I love parenting. I hope you consider it at some point in life. It really stretches you to grow as a person. Iβm sure Iβll adopt again.
The man says:
Iβm absolutely not going to consider parenting for the same reason that youβre talking about. Iβm not going to use a child as a way to stretch my ability to grow as a person. What a gross thing to do. What a gross thing to doβwhat a gross amount of pressure to put on a child. Nope, I am not going to have children because I know that I wouldnβt be a good father, well aware of it. Well aware of itβI barely take care of myself. Iβm not patient with myself, how am I gonna be patient with a child? And then when I make mistakes, have the luxury of saying, βWell, thereβs no way to be a perfect parent, I did the best I couldββI mean you could have done a lot better, you could have not had me. That would of beenβ*laughs* anyway. Iβm not going to consider it, I already considered it and Iβve come to a logicalβand the Earth is on fire! But anyway, Iβve come to a logical conclusion to not have children because Iβm incapable of doing so βcause I donβt have that type of patience. I know that I donβt. And Iβm not going to torture a child so that I can learn how to get it.
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