do something this week to be more gender non conforming or more trans. big or small. get started in the process for getting hormones. stop wearing a bra / free your nipples. make an appointment to get that gender affirming surgery you’ve been thinking about. message that tattoo shop for that tattoo you’ve been wanting. go to the thrift store and buy a clothing or accessory item from the gendered side you don’t usually wear. wear more bold makeup or stop wearing makeup. grow your hair long or cut it short. try some new pronouns or stop using the ones you’ve been letting people use for you just to try to be easier for them. i dunno, do the thing that you kinda want to do but you’re not sure about but you keep thinking about. do it. you’re waiting for something but now it’s time. you can do it. it’ll feel good. even if it’s just to find out it doesn’t quite work for you, now you’ve tried it, and you’ve learned, and you’ve experienced a new thing, another step in the exploration of your life. it’ll feel good to try something new. try it!

imo the way you feel about groups it's fully socially acceptable to hate (like children or polyamorous people, among others) is the canary in the coal mine for underlying bigoted beliefs. if you're only supportive of marginalized groups when it's cool to do so, probably you don't actually care about marginalized groups, you care about other people thinking you care

there are 1 trillion people in the notes of this post saying "yeah! i mean i hate kids but they should have rights!" you hate kids? you mean you hate all members of an oppressed group solely for their membership in this group? right. why do you hate them? because they can't take care of themselves and need help? because they don't understand social norms and can be "annoying" and disrespect boundaries as a result? because they can be messy? because they don't understand things in the same way as you do? that's awesome. how do you feel about disabled people btw

these relationships are always increasing numbers as well. so obviously we need six eleven to mean somethimg

imagine if that's the date it finally happens