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literally drinking a beer by the lake and still opened tumblr. some of us are beyond saving

the fact that Reylo discourse is now almost entirely 'is this ship toxic :)' always throws me off so much because I genuinely think the MUCH bigger issue with Reylo was that it pushed a black man to the side as Not Love Interest Material in favor of a white nazi. Like the issue is that shipping Reylo arrived transparently because people did not care about the black man – which I know, because the ship became popular before we even had The Last Jedi! When they'd barely interacted! If Kylo were black and Finn were white, Reylo would not be popular and it would never have become canon in any way, and I do think a refusal to grapple with that is honestly very embarrassing.

theyzy world so beautiful and real to me... like hazy and their handsome hot doctor wife and they hang out at comic book stores because they are both huge nerds that's how they really connected when dr lisa lastname popped wyatt's dislocated shoulder back in and they offhandedly mention how xena made it look a lot easier and lisa is like "i'm not a wag I'm a fucking doctor" and wyatt's like "i wouldn't want you to be a wag" and they are getting nonbinary with it and sure they play the roles when they're at team events and whatnot but they really love that they've both found someone they can be themselves with and not have to explain like "i'm not a man i'm not a woman I'm just like me" because the other person gets it. real 2 me.

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Every demographic of marginalised men on the planet expects the women they share a marginalisation with to simply shut up and tolerate the abuse they face from said men in the name of "not dividing the community". And yet every single time this comes up you get people batting as hard as they can for the supposedly liberatory right of men to tell women to shut up and telling you that you're only talking about it because they're [marginalisation you also experience]