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it makes me really sad that three years ago a study was conducted and they found that an incredible number of popular/leading menstruation brands have arsenic/lead/other heavy metals in their products, and no one raised a big enough fuss so the majority of period products-buying women don’t know that they’re exposed, against their will and without their knowledge, to dangerous substances. PERIOD PRODUCTS! the vagina absolutely and obviously absorbs this shit, and the manufacturers know this. to me the idea of lead and arsenic being in a tampon that is inserted into a vagina and kept inside for several hours is horror movie type shit. lead causes dementia! why does no one care? and it’s not only tampons; the study exposed chemicals in pads, liners, and they even found traces in period panties. so not only do these companies get away with this, it’s almost entirely impossible to find safe products with this in mind.
there are safe brands that exist. but think about how many women and girls menstruate in the world, and how many of them are using period products, and how many of them are being exposed to shit like lead and arsenic over the course of their menstruation experience.
Once when I was in undergrad, someone described something as “problematic” in class and our professor was like, “That’s cool, but ‘problematic’ doesn’t really mean anything. It means that the thing you’re describing has a problem, and in and of itself that’s not bad. Art, especially, should always have problems, or else it’s not interesting and not art, either. It sounds like you’re trying to say that this is bad, but you don’t want to say ‘bad.’ Is that right?”
So from then on whenever one of us called something problematic, he would make us talk it out until we could name the “bad” thing we were hinting at. In this particular class, 7/10 it was some type of oppression, and the remainder was like, “I’m uncomfortable because this is very new/confusing/pushing boundaries that made me feel safe.”
Once we stopped calling things “problematic” and stopping at that, class got way more interesting and... we all had to say, like, “that’s racist” or “that’s misogynistic” or “ew capitalism gross” out loud, which a lot of us had never done in a classroom before. Or we had to be like, “Uhhh... I’m not sure what’s so bad?” and confront our own beliefs and that was maybe even more useful.
Anyway. Whenever I see the word problematic, I can’t help but think of this professor being like, “Good starting point, now let’s get specific.” I think when we have to commit to saying “that’s ___” it requires a lot more careful thought about the truth and impact and complexities of whatever we’re claiming. Sometimes there really is some bullshit afoot, and also sometimes it’s art, and it should be full of problems, because that’s what art is.
Every time you catch yourself going, "Fuck, are humans just inherently evil and naturally inclined to selfishness and harm???" you HAVE to remember that that's literally a core ideal of Christianity.
So if it feels inescapable and like evidence of it is everywhere, whether at times or always, that might just because you're in a Western country where you're surrounded by Christians who believe that, fundamentally, in their worldview. And also they talk and make art about it all the time and run the vast majority of news outlets. And spent over a thousand years burning any art or texts that disagreed with them. Etc. etc.
If you're gonna come to as drastic and painful a conclusion as that, at least take the time first to make sure you're not working with biased evidence (surrounded by too many people and cultural products that believe original sin is real)
And if it turns out the feeling WAS partly the result of cultural Christianity, then hey, that's great news, because it means there's that much (and it really is SO MUCH) less evidence that humans inherently suck. Which is good, because we don't
ignore that cultural trauma, ask an archeologist / paleontologist.
how often do we find human remains / burials attributable to a peaceful death of old age, or at least to disease / wild animals? and attributable to human violence, i.e. with traces of weapon impacts?
to use an old quote, the last ape became the first human not when he picked up a stick to reach some fruit, but when he used that stick to bash another ape over the head and take away his fruit.
I disagree with pretty much all of that, actually. Modern archeology is only just in the process of pulling itself out of hundreds of years of racism, bias, colonialism, disproven assumptions, widespread graverobbing, and massive, blatant pseudoscience; many ideas and publications in the field that older than about 20 years are of highly questionable provenance.
I personally am much more convinced and compelled by newer theories that, if any piece of technology made us human, it was not the weapon - it was the carrier bag, the story, and/or fire. (But not fire with the primary purpose of violence, mind you - fire with the primary purpose of heat and food and sanitation)
Here's a quote on this from one of my absolute favorite thinkers and writers, Ursula K. Le Guin:
If you haven't got something to put it in, food will escape you-
even something as uncombative and unresourceful as an oat. You
put as many as you can into your stomach while they are handy, that
being the primary container; but what about tomorrow morning
when you wake up and it's cold and raining and wouldn't it be good
to have just a few handfuls of oats to chew on and give little Oom to
make her shut up, but how do you get more than one stomachful
and one handful home? So you get up and go to the damned soggy
oat patch in the rain, and wouldn't it be a good thing if you had
something to put Baby Oo Oo in so that you could pick the oats with
both hands? A leaf a gourd a shell a net a bag a sling a sack a bottle a pot a box a container. A holder. A recipient.
The first cultural device was probably a recipient. . . . Many
theorizers feel that the earliest cultural inventions must have
been a container to hold gathered products and some kind of
sling or net carrier.
So says Elizabeth Fisher in Women's Creation (McGraw-Hill, 1975).
But no, this cannot be. Where is that wonderful, big, long, hard thing, a bone, I believe, that the Ape Man first bashed somebody
with in the movie and then, grunting with ecstasy at having
achieved the first proper murder, flung up into the sky...? I don't know. I don 't even care. I'm not telling that story. We've heard it, we've all heard all about all the sticks and spears and swords, the things to bash and poke and hit with, the long, hard things, but we have not heard about the thing to put things in, the container for the thing contained. That is a new story. That is news...
It sometimes seems that that story is approaching its end. Lest
there be no more telling of stories at all , some of us out here in the
wild oats, amid the alien corn, think we'd better start telling another
one, which maybe people can go on with when the old one's fin-
ished. Maybe. The trouble is , we've all let ourselves become part of
the killer story, and so we may get finished along with it. Hence it is
with a certain feeling of urgency that I seek the nature, subject,
words of the other story, the untold one, the life story.
-via Ursula K. Le Guin, The Carrier Bag Theory of Fiction. Originally published 1986, new edition with forewords and commentaries published 2024.
Oh also if any technology did make us human, archeological evidence currently very strongly argues it was when we harnessed fire and invented cooking.
Fire is literally the reason our brains are larger than any other species of ape's, because harnessing fire meant we spent radically less energy spent on digestion - and those excess resources instead changed the evolution of the human brain.
Also fire is probably the reason we're not fully covered in hair anymore, evolutionarily - because we evolved in equatorial Africa, where not wearing a fur coat everywhere was an evolutionary advantage due to, you know, the temperature of it all. Once we could make our own heat to survive the cold nights and winters, less insulation was a huge evolutionary advance in equatorial regions especially
Cooking may be more than just a part of your daily routine, it may be what made your brain as powerful as it is
Wherever humans have gone in the world, they have carried with them two things, language and fire. As they traveled through tropical forests they hoarded the precious embers of old fires and sheltered them from downpours. When they settled the barren Arctic, they took with them the memory of fire, and recreated it in stoneware vessels filled with animal fat. Darwin himself considered these the two most significant achievements of humanity. It is, of course, impossible to imagine a human society that does not have language, but—given the right climate and an adequacy of raw wild food—could there be a primitive tribe that survives without cooking? In fact, no such people have ever been found. Nor will they be, according to a provocative theory by Harvard biologist Richard Wrangham, who believes that fire is needed to fuel the organ that makes possible all the other products of culture, language included: the human brain.
Every animal on earth is constrained by its energy budget; the calories obtained from food will stretch only so far. And for most human beings, most of the time, these calories are burned not at the gym, but invisibly, in powering the heart, the digestive system and especially the brain, in the silent work of moving molecules around within and among its 100 billion cells. A human body at rest devotes roughly one-fifth of its energy to the brain, regardless of whether it is thinking anything useful, or even thinking at all. Thus, the unprecedented increase in brain size that hominids embarked on around 1.8 million years ago had to be paid for with added calories either taken in or diverted from some other function in the body. Many anthropologists think the key breakthrough was adding meat to the diet. But Wrangham and his Harvard colleague Rachel Carmody think that’s only a part of what was going on in evolution at the time. What matters, they say, is not just how many calories you can put into your mouth, but what happens to the food once it gets there. How much useful energy does it provide, after subtracting the calories spent in chewing, swallowing and digesting? The real breakthrough, they argue, was cooking.
-via Smithsonian Magazine, June 2013. Emphasis mine. In the time since this article was published, what was considered a "provocative theory" in 2013 has become a matter of increasing scientific evidence and scientific consensus.
Richard Wrangham lays out his theory as a whole in his 2010 book Catching Fire: How Cooking Made Us Human.
For more current summaries on the history of fire, and scientific and archeological evidence for its role in human evolution:
Evolutionary fire ecology: An historical account and future directions.
August 2023. BioScience, volume 73, issue 8, pages 602–608. Permalink: https://doi.org/10.1093/biosci/biad059, paywall-free.
The discovery of fire by humans: a long and convoluted process.
By J. A. J. Gowlett. June 2016. Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B, volume 371, issue 1696, epage 20150164.
Permalink: doi.org/10.1098/rstb.2015.0164, paywall free.
Or, less scholarly:
It takes a lot of calories to power a human brain. Find out how cooking and gut microbes help us make the most of our food.
Humans are not defined by our capacity for violence.
Current archeological evidence suggests that humans are, if anything, defined by the hearthfire.
By cooking. By our ability to keep ourselves warm. By our ability to provide for ourselves and each other. By humanity's millennia-long quest to beat back the ravages of starvation and hunger.
By our millennia-long quest to make our lives, and the lives of those we love, more and more into something we can live
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Once more, due to annual popular demand, we like to share Rosa Parks’ pancake recipe on National Pancake Day. Jotted down on an envelope, it came to the Library along with the rest of her papers, a gift made possible by the generosity of the Howard G. Buffett Foundation in 2016.
Learn more about the Rosa Parks Collection: https://www.loc.gov/.../rosa.../about-this-collection/...
Here is the Library of Congress page for the recipe!
And the full transcription (text) of the envelope!
And the recipe itself:
Featherlite Pancakes
Sift together:
1 C flour
2 T B. Powder [presumably baking powder]
1/2 t salt
2 T sugar
Mix:
1 egg
1 1/4 C Milk
1/3 C peanut butter melted
1 T shorting or oil
Combine with dry ingredients
Cook at 275° on griddle
Something I keep seeing in Obsession discourse especially when it comes to criticizing Bear and calling him a rapist, is a lot of people say that it wasn’t premeditated. He didn’t know that the Willow would actually work. His intentions were not bad.
Most sexual abusers don’t carefully calculate their plans. He doesn’t have to be some evil mastermind from the start to be a rapist, he simply saw a vulnerable woman in an alternated mind state and took advantage. It’s a crime of opportunity.
There is something sooo deeply American going on with Seattle Children’s Hospital that I think would brick the minds of everyone outside of the United States.
The CHILDRENS hospital has to restrict helipad landings because of noise complaints from the wealthy home owners living next to it. Only the most urgent patients can land directly at the hospital. While the other kids have to land a mile away and are taken to the hospital via ambulance. Which is an unnecessary risk to the child’s life and also makes the families pay for the helicopter AND ambulance.
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I HAAAATTE when people say “I don’t care what someone has in their pants”. It implies that homosexuals (and heterosexuals) CARE about genitals. I don’t CARE about vaginas, I’m not a freelance amateur gynecologist. I just have found that throughout my entire life, I’ve only been sexually attracted to people with vaginas (this type of person used to be referred to as a woman). I’m not like “oohh I’m so attracted to this guy, buuuutt he has a penis which isn’t my preference”, I just am not attracted to men in the first place. I don’t CARE about if people have penises or vaginas, I am just not ATTRACTED to penis people. The word “care” makes it seem more like a dating preference rather than an immutable sexual orientation. like a straight girl might say “oohh he’s so hot but wait, what does he do for work because I care about what career my potential boyfriend has” or “ooh he looks so cute on instagram and he looks tall which is good bc height is important to me”. it isn’t like that, I literally physically cannot be attracted to males.
and saying that pansexuality is about “accepting everyone” is really backhanded too. There are plenty of very kind, warm, open-hearted, accepting homosexuals out there I’m sure, although I’m not one myself and can’t profess to know many. But I’m sure they exist! accepting people is not the same as accepting them into your bed or finding them sexually attractive
it's kind of amazing how well men have managed to team up and fuck shit up and like, develop genuine strategies to protect their shared class interest and mutual loyalties at any cost, given how little they seem to genuinely like each other. i'll give them that. if there is one thing we can learn from them it is not like, toxicity and domination strategies and violence and cruelty and superiority complexes imo, it's not liking each other (as we inevitably will) but doing our best to be a united front regardless
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I'm looking through some anti genital preference posts made by trans people right now and I'm genuinely baffled. These people love fetishes and kinks, right? They think it's completely okay to have any kind of fetish, and that no fetish is inherently bad? Right??? And yet they're going on and on about how being a homosexual is a genital fetish and that's it evil and disgusting. It makes no fucking sense lmao
If you look at nearly every study quantifying social oppression- rates of suicidal thoughts or attempts, rates of being subjected to conversion therapy, rates of rape and domestic violence, rates of avoidance of medical care due to discrimination, I could go on- trans men are among the worst off in the entire queer community.
But unfortunately, one study that failed to prove statistical significance suggested that trans men who are employed full-time might make a whopping ten cents an hour more than trans women who are employed full-time, so you see, my hands are tied and I have no choice but to declare trans men a privileged class within the LGBT community. What do you expect me to do? Acknowledge the flaws within that one study on full-time wages? Acknowledge that even without flaws, the study would still be only one measure of social oppression experienced within the queer community and thus it might be worth looking at other ways transmascs are disadvantaged? That's crazy talk! This one study in front of me is the only one that matters!
In a study of 27,000+ trans people - almost 20x the number in the above oft-quoted study - of all employment statuses, it was found that in the US, trans men make less than trans women unless both trans people in question transitioned as children.
This paper uses the 2015 United States Transgender Survey of 27,715 transgender respondents to study the relationship between minority gende
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