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This is Emily Willis, an infamous rape on tape actress who suffered a cardiac arrest in a drug rehab facility. She suffered brain damage while unconscious and is now in “locked in syndrome”. She cannot walk or talk and probably never will. She is 26.

Naturally, men are asking if she will keep doing porn in this state. She cannot consent, at all. Her “doing porn” would be her getting raped, having it filmed, and then uploaded for other men to masturbate to. Some are even volunteering themselves to rape her.

Never ask me to ever give a single fuck about men’s rights while they’re saying this shit without shame on the internet. They're admitting they either masturbate to rape or would rape given the chance. This is the demon that the porn industry creates. Women and children, disabled or able bodied, dead or alive, have to suffer from this disgusting and inhumane industry. A porn actress dies, or is left permanently paralyzed, and all men say is “I wish I could fuck/rape her” “I’m going to masturbate to videos of her clearly suffering”. This just proves my theory that the ultimate male sexual fantasy is rape. And I’m supposed to care about Men’s Mental Health?

What they were saying to me was very clear. As long as any male, anywhere is suffering, women are selfish to mention that they are suffering, too.

I'm sure neither of those men realized the woman-hatred behind their feeling that everything and everyone should come before women. I pointed out quietly that in every country where children are starving, women are starving also. In every country where men are being tortured, women are being tortured also. I was insensitive enough to point out that Vietnam is also strewn with the blasted bodies of women, and that many, many of those bodies were not simply blown up, but were also sexually abused-raped, gang raped, used up in prostitution, tortured. No matter when or where or what men suffer, women's suffering is on some totally different, more exquisite, plane.

But no one wants to hear that women are suffering. Men's ordeals are recounted and described and depicted in every conceivable way in every medium on earth, and have been from earliest history. We are always asked and expected to look at and listen to and understand and sympathize with men's pain and suffering, and we have always done it, all of us, men and women. But women's agony at the hands of men must never be revealed. If women steadfastly and courageously began to tell the truth and would not stop, would not be co-opted, would not become afraid, the truth of our enslavement would be undeniable, and the jig would be up.

That this might indeed happen is terrifying to most people. It would stand the whole world on its head. This is why any time women say, "Look at what is happening to us!" someone invariably rises up on the spot (as patriarchy has trained us all so well to do) and shouts, in order to divert us, to frighten us, to remind us of our vulnerability and danger: "But what about men?"

I explained to the distraught man whose buddies lie in fragments all over the corpse of Vietnam: ''You are performing this function here tonight. May I interrupt this well-rehearsed performance to point out that we have given men 5000 years of undivided attention." (Is it any wonder they have remained spoiled little boys?) As Pauline Bart points out: "We are not allowed, even now, to speak of women's suffering without someone saying, 'and men, too,' although we have always spoken of men's suffering without adding 'and women, too!'" Patriarchy has worked hard to make women's experience appear so trivial and so invisible that it is inconceivable to most people that we warrant any attention at all. Otherwise, it would not be so maddening to them to have to listen for a whole hour to a speech about women, though they listen willingly day after day, year after year, to talks by and about men. For many hundreds of years they have heard about nothing but men: their wars, their ideas, their art, their politics, their science, their blah, blah, blah, ad nauseam."

homophobic violent men who kill feminine gender non conforming homosexual men who identify as women were not inspired by reading radical feminist substack think pieces or scrolling radfem tumblr tags. most of the trans women that are murdered are not the heterosexual agp lily tino types, it’s mainly the gay feminine skinny dylan mulvaney types. their killers are likely homophobic, and just plain old angry violent men, who kill these other types of men especially if they purchase sex from them or engage in romantic or sexual relationships with them. so just like many types of crimes perpetrated by men, the perpetrators are likely to be close to the victim. these men are not terfs, radfems, or even likely more “transphobic” than the general population. yes, they might become enraged at the sight of a man in a dress and makeup, but with no regard to whether that man identifies as a feminine gay man or a trans woman. they don’t care. but everything is a woman’s fault right?

None.

documented homicides of trans women by cis women appear to be virtually nonexistent

lesbian lifts suggesting to her followers that this account on instagram which doesn’t even talk about radical feminism or mention trans women by name, but simply dares to define lesbianism as female homosexuality spreads terf rhetoric and should be unfollowed. wow this lesbian lifts lady really is passionate about making sure dick is included in lesbianism.

anyway go follow the instagram account lesbian_herstory she posts some really good stuff on her stories, submissions from lesbians who feel the same way we all do

Now I think personally that thats insane because cis men are often repulsive in every way but I’m also a Lesbian so that tracks.

Last time I dated an ftm I was much in my head wishing I was dating a woman. He was a good friend, I wasn’t repulsed or disgusted. I just knew that I wanted someone I could call my wife someday, I wanted a girlfriend, I liked women Specifically. I Wanted women specifically. (After this I stopped identifying as bisexual)

Similarly I can tolerate dick, I am not actively repulsed by them if anything they are a body part that on their own is just mildly boring and tastes bad. I’ve had men weaponised theirs against me but I didn’t grow disgusted by that specifically as much penetration entirely is triggering and it doesn’t matter where or what. (This is also something people I’m not sexually involved with and it doesn’t matter for them at all Love to try and ‘fix’ about me. Yes! I’ve tried lube! Shut the fuck up!!!)

But why settle for something I can tolerate when I fucking love pussy. It’s great. It tastes good and feels good and I love pussy it makes me salivate god damn. I feel like a pervert it’s awesome. Bush is also something I am insane about never shave I will gladly cough up hair balls like a cat. Lmao.

It’s not just that even I love the way women smell (its not just perfume I swear men smell like piss. Like they just do. No one else gets me.) Like even after working out or whatever when in theory someone should be grosser women smell so nice and human and it’s comforting. I don’t like when someone smells overly of perfume or deodorant. I don’t like when someone male stays in my bed and the smell lingers and its gross and ruins my ability to feel at home in my bed.

My hard nos and triggers that I have to ‘navigate’ in my relationships are like. I am severely triggered by feeling facial hair or stubble when I kiss someone. I will have a panic attack and likely vomit. Every time I’ve dated someone mtf in the past it has a game of ‘I can’t talk about this without giving her dysphoria but I also cant keep not kissing her in this relationship’ until we break up or I tell her and she gets dysphoric and keeps telling me ‘Oh I’ve shaved’ and unless it’s early morning chances are I am playing is my day going to be ruined roulette.

Now I think personally that thats insane because cis men are often repulsive in every way but I’m also a Lesbian so that tracks.

reminds me of these sections (pp. 48, 151) of lundy bancroft’s why does he do that?

This was sitting unfinished for months but I got it together and completed it in time for pride.