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it's so draining going back and forth
It is good to be honest with people about this. Knowing there will be relapses is important. Fixing problems in one area will expose others.

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periodic reminder that the queer liberation library is an awesome non-regional library you can add on libby to access hundreds of queer titles. NO LIBRARY CARD NEEDED. i just found an audiobook for a pretty new release on there with no waitlist. also everyone use libby for your local library too NOW
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OMG - really?
really!!! we’ve got 501(c)3 status and everything! turning 2.5 years old next month <3
the place I work at remodeled these split gendered restrooms into “inclusive restrooms” and never told us what they meant while construction was ongoing. I need you to know every atom of potential criticism or whining that could’ve happened disappeared when people found out this meant we got 10 fully separate private bathrooms with sinks inside. I’ve not heard a single person crack a joke about the inclusive signage. this is the world TERFs are trying to steal from you
The linked article
so ive worked in childcare for a bit now. during the pandemic, the place i worked started a day program for kids whose parents needed to return to work. turns out the school district uses memorization and cueing, and when combined with online learning that read all the instructions to them, overwhelmingly the kids aged 5-9 just... couldnt read.
i brought in a bunch of my books from childhood, and we started having one-on-one reading lessons with the littles. then i went out and bought about fifty more books secondhand. first step was covering the pictures so the kids couldnt guess what the words said and had to actually TRY reading them first. second step was making a list of new words for each kid so we could learn about those words, what they meant, and if the kids were old enough, some of the etymology behind them (because if you can recognize latin root words, it's easier to make connections for pronunciation later on eg. unicorn -> universe).
the kids HATED this. reading was previously the easiest class and now it was really, really hard. but reading class had also previously been the most boring class; their books were ten pictures with a single sentence on the opposite page. we got through it by taking turns reading books the kids picked out from my collection- they would read one sentence or paragraph, then i would read the whole page complete with funny voices, then it would be their turn again, etc. it turns out that if kids are motivated to hear the rest of a good story or a lot of information about a topic they love, they're more willing to struggle.
the kids improved so rapidly that i honestly almost cried a few times from how proud i was. one little girl (kindergarten aged) went from being unable to sound out the whole alphabet to reading goodnight moon by herself in two months :'>
all this, though, was NOT my job. my job was to keep the kids on task during their online schooling and prevent them from killing each other or starving. i am not a teacher. the school system was failing these kids to the degree that outside individual reading lessons were necessary, and school systems across the US are still doing this!
if you are a parent or teacher or childcare worker, PLEASE check to see what your kid is being taught. ask to see examples of lesson materials. raise concerns about the importance of phonics over any other reading strategy. join the pta, go to school board meetings, send emails- just make sure your kid is actually learning to read.
i would like to add that you don't need to have a child to ask these questions of your local school district. regardless of your status as a parent, it is all our responsibility to care about how children in our communities are being educated. not just because it objectively good to care about and engage with your community, but also because the children of today are the adults of tomorrow.
if this backwards way of teaching reading keeps up, then in the future it is going to create more issues, not only those kids but all of us. if you are in the US, i would encourage any adult to look into their local public school district. some school districts have curricula that can be accessed through their website. if what you find concerns you, then it's time to head to a school board meeting and bring it up.
it might feel weird or uncomfortable, but i assure you, you are as a much of a member of the community as anyone else. it is not weird to care about the community and the school district.
this is a problem that is already affecting all of us and it's only going to grow with time. but there are things we can all do regardless of our status as a parent, childcare worker, or teacher.
(p.s. i think sometimes these things are assumed to be the fault of a teacher, but it is almost always a school board issue. teacher's don't typically get to decide on the curriculum)
i don't know a ton about the right terminology for what we should be looking for within those curricula, but phonics is solid. beyond that, it would great if an any educators out there would weigh in with the correct term? method? of the looking and guessing that is pervasive in education at the moment, that would be fantastic. what are some reading curriculum red flags or green flags?
I have so many thoughts on this.
I can say, with the weight of professional experience as as a former English teacher, this is all so fucking true.
First off, American teacher education programs separate out reading as a certification from other subjects, so unless you enroll in an additional certification program beyond your primary age group and subject, you are literally not taught how to teach reading. Reading is also a separate specialty for teacher licensing, just like SPED or ELL. Being certified to teach reading is above and beyond the scope of standard secondary educators' training/legal certification. I don't know as much about elementary programs because that wasn't my major (I had no interest in being an elementary teacher), but the fact that it's not included at all in secondary teachers' programs is absolutely wild because if kids don't learn to read during elementary school, they wind up as junior high and high school students who aren't equipped to truly continue their education. And passing kids on to the next grade regardless of their preparedness is all too common until high school because elementary and junior high schools aren't required to hold them back for compliance, and holding kids back is wildly unpopular among parents and students alike. And on top of that, you have another crop of students coming up next year, so anyone you hold back only adds to your future workload.
Also, 3 Cueing isn't even the only garbage pedagogical method for teaching reading. My first teaching job was in a district that leaned heavily on the Oral Reading Fluency (ORF) model, which is assessed using an assessment tool called DIBELS. The tests are very short and easy to administer and the grading is done during the test, so the rollout is cheap and doesn't take a whole ton of time, and if you build your reading curriculum around the assessment (which many districts and schools do), your program will produce readers with lovely fluency (they can read the words off the page clearly and correctly, with appropriate pronunciation), but their comprehension is just non-existent. They have no fucking idea what they just read even though they successfully decoded the text with no problems. Well, some of them are able to comprehend, but usually those are kids who have parents who worked with them on learning to read outside of school, make reading a priority activity in their homes, and who are strong enough readers themselves to know how to work with their kids when they're practicing reading at home.
There's other bullshit out there, too. The education industry is just as susceptible to frauds and scams as any other industry. Mainly because it's an *Industry,* which means that it's not about reality, it's about what you can make money off of. The fact that poor reading literacy makes for a populace that's easier to control by both the state and by private companies is an added bonus.
But the basic literacy of our population isn't something that we should be leaving to the whims of private industry and their utter lack of respect for science if it's inconvenient to their bottom line. Our kids' educations are just as important to protect from the overreach of private interest as public health, free media, and civil liberties. The fact that nobody seems to really give a shit about it is just about the most American thing I can think of. As load-bearing to our society as baseball, indigenous genocide, chattel slavery, bombing children in the Middle East, and apple pie.
The linked article
so ive worked in childcare for a bit now. during the pandemic, the place i worked started a day program for kids whose parents needed to return to work. turns out the school district uses memorization and cueing, and when combined with online learning that read all the instructions to them, overwhelmingly the kids aged 5-9 just... couldnt read.
i brought in a bunch of my books from childhood, and we started having one-on-one reading lessons with the littles. then i went out and bought about fifty more books secondhand. first step was covering the pictures so the kids couldnt guess what the words said and had to actually TRY reading them first. second step was making a list of new words for each kid so we could learn about those words, what they meant, and if the kids were old enough, some of the etymology behind them (because if you can recognize latin root words, it's easier to make connections for pronunciation later on eg. unicorn -> universe).
the kids HATED this. reading was previously the easiest class and now it was really, really hard. but reading class had also previously been the most boring class; their books were ten pictures with a single sentence on the opposite page. we got through it by taking turns reading books the kids picked out from my collection- they would read one sentence or paragraph, then i would read the whole page complete with funny voices, then it would be their turn again, etc. it turns out that if kids are motivated to hear the rest of a good story or a lot of information about a topic they love, they're more willing to struggle.
the kids improved so rapidly that i honestly almost cried a few times from how proud i was. one little girl (kindergarten aged) went from being unable to sound out the whole alphabet to reading goodnight moon by herself in two months :'>
all this, though, was NOT my job. my job was to keep the kids on task during their online schooling and prevent them from killing each other or starving. i am not a teacher. the school system was failing these kids to the degree that outside individual reading lessons were necessary, and school systems across the US are still doing this!
if you are a parent or teacher or childcare worker, PLEASE check to see what your kid is being taught. ask to see examples of lesson materials. raise concerns about the importance of phonics over any other reading strategy. join the pta, go to school board meetings, send emails- just make sure your kid is actually learning to read.
i would like to add that you don't need to have a child to ask these questions of your local school district. regardless of your status as a parent, it is all our responsibility to care about how children in our communities are being educated. not just because it objectively good to care about and engage with your community, but also because the children of today are the adults of tomorrow.
if this backwards way of teaching reading keeps up, then in the future it is going to create more issues, not only those kids but all of us. if you are in the US, i would encourage any adult to look into their local public school district. some school districts have curricula that can be accessed through their website. if what you find concerns you, then it's time to head to a school board meeting and bring it up.
it might feel weird or uncomfortable, but i assure you, you are as a much of a member of the community as anyone else. it is not weird to care about the community and the school district.
this is a problem that is already affecting all of us and it's only going to grow with time. but there are things we can all do regardless of our status as a parent, childcare worker, or teacher.
(p.s. i think sometimes these things are assumed to be the fault of a teacher, but it is almost always a school board issue. teacher's don't typically get to decide on the curriculum)
i don't know a ton about the right terminology for what we should be looking for within those curricula, but phonics is solid. beyond that, it would great if an any educators out there would weigh in with the correct term? method? of the looking and guessing that is pervasive in education at the moment, that would be fantastic. what are some reading curriculum red flags or green flags?
I have had so many online fights where it seemed the other person didn't even fully read what I said. I assumed they were paid actors from other countries or more recently Ai chat bots. Now I am horrified to think they are U.S. citizens who could not read what I wrote. No wonder we cannot reach the people who support the Iran war and explain what is happening.

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diabetes pain
hi, does anyone else think that 400+ blood sugars and ketones is the worst sort of pain? Like worse than a knee to the crotch? Worse than undergoing a 4 hour surgery and a 3 inch scar. When I tell normal people about this they don't seem to understand and I want to see if anyone else agrees.
The claim is not new — the Miami Herald published its findings in summer 2025.
source for the congresswoman thing as well, because i hadn't heard about that:
The Trump administration has repeatedly attempted to restrict or thwart congressmembers’ access to ICE jails.
Commander's stroke
it is obvious that since the election the USA's commander in chief had a stroke. We do not see the same outgoing persona that debated Harris or Biden. This man no longer possess those mental faculties. Further, based on his skin it is clear he is on blood thinners. Please stop defending his actions and saying he has a plan. Further, don’t ridicule those that voted for him, they couldn't have known. If you doubt me listen to the state of the union and compare that to his 2016 speeches. Once you realize this is true, call your representative and get him removed from office.
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🚨BREAKING: OpenAI published a paper proving that ChatGPT will always make things up.
Not sometimes. Not until the next update. Always. They proved it with math.
Even with perfect training data and unlimited computing power, AI models will still confidently tell you things that are completely false. This isn't a bug they're working on. It's baked into how these systems work at a fundamental level.
And their own numbers are brutal. OpenAI's o1 reasoning model hallucinates 16% of the time. Their newer o3 model? 33%. Their newest o4-mini? 48%. Nearly half of what their most recent model tells you could be fabricated. The "smarter" models are actually getting worse at telling the truth.
Here's why it can't be fixed. Language models work by predicting the next word based on probability. When they hit something uncertain, they don't pause. They don't flag it. They guess. And they guess with complete confidence, because that's exactly what they were trained to do.
The researchers looked at the 10 biggest AI benchmarks used to measure how good these models are. 9 out of 10 give the same score for saying "I don't know" as for giving a completely wrong answer: zero points. The entire testing system literally punishes honesty and rewards guessing.
So the AI learned the optimal strategy: always guess. Never admit uncertainty. Sound confident even when you're making it up.
OpenAI's proposed fix? Have ChatGPT say "I don't know" when it's unsure. Their own math shows this would mean roughly 30% of your questions get no answer. Imagine asking ChatGPT something three times out of ten and getting "I'm not confident enough to respond." Users would leave overnight. So the fix exists, but it would kill the product.
This isn't just OpenAI's problem. DeepMind and Tsinghua University independently reached the same conclusion. Three of the world's top AI labs, working separately, all agree: this is permanent.
Every time ChatGPT gives you an answer, ask yourself: is this real, or is it just a confident guess?
A link to the paper for anyone interested.

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I love 'Foxes in Love'! I sent this one to my bf today.
everything surrounding the id laws that just passed in Kansas is fucking horrible
Hey Bri I hope you don't mind me sharing this on your post but in case anyone reading this is in Kansas or knows trans people in Kansas, Colorado is nearby and considered one of the safest states for trans & queer people. I know relocating is logistically expensive and challenging for many reasons, especially for people in a vulnerable situation, but if it is an option anyone is considering, there is a nonprofit here that may be able to help.
Steps These steps are intended to be a linear process to get you out of there and resettled here. But we get it, you’re a big kid and can do
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Law demanding IDs match ‘sex at birth’ also includes bathroom ban provision for trans people in public buildings
Some transgender Kansans are considering leaving the state after Republicans overrode a veto to pass the law.
"The legislature did not include a grace period."
Original post Feb 26, 2026. Factcheck Feb 27, 2026
Kansas has invalidated diver's licences of anyone who has had their gender/sex marker changed
There is no grace period, meaning as of yesterday, no-one with a changed gender marker is allowed to drive until they can get themselves to a dmv and switch back to a card with an incorrect marker.
To be looked at like a prey creature. To know I was in trouble for going with mom when told to stay. To have dad pick the lock on the bedroom door.
To have trust permanently lost. To have lost a father not to death but to anger. To still care for that man because of memories from before. Happy belated birthday to the dad I had before it all went sideways.

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It's time to re-educate the Soros Judges in the actual Law ...
Imagine being so delusional to think you know more about law than a Supreme Court justice who was a law school teacher for over a decade.
A man who believes good will always triumph cannot acknowledge the fear that those fighting evil have to face. He cannot acknowledge the change that needs to happen. He is gullible. He cannot believe that he might be on the wrong side, all he has to see is he is winning and believe himself in the right. It is better to believe the arc of history bends towards justice and good than believing that it will happen in this lifetime. Ironically most women over 50 know this.