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mhm! ---- showed me how to make it a couple of weeks ago. it's good, right?

...huh? oh, yeah, there's some alcohol, but it's soo little. it's basically juice!

it's alright, it's alr- hey! you don't need to be sorry, i promise, i promise, you haven't done anything wrong, it's alrightt. listen, i get it.. you're feeling overwhelmed, aren't you? poor dear... you're a bit of a lightweight, huh?

okay, up you go - you okay to walk if i'm bracing you? mhm. one step in front of another, ok? you're doing a good job. you're doing a good job.

here, we're at my nice, comfy bed. let's get you out of these clothes, they're kinda sweaty and gross... let's peel your shirt off, get these jeans down, isn't that better? just let yourself lie down, feel the cool sheets against your burning skin... isn't this comfy?

you don't need to be sorry, dear, it's alright. you're still woozy right now, don't blame yourself for anything. here, let me get into bed with you. i'll make sure you're safe the whole night, ok? you don't have to worry about anything right now. just let yourself sleep off the night...

you're very pretty..

Of course you’re not going to just give in immediately, he knows that, but that doesn’t mean he’s going to entertain the notion that you’re an adult

You’d cry a lot in the beginning and say things that made him a bit sad, “Let me go. I hate you, I don’t wanna be here, I wanna go home” but he knows you don’t really mean it. You’re just scared, new places are hard for little baby brains to handle “Oh I know baby, shh shh… Papa’s here, it’s okay bub” you wiggle and hit but he just holds you down in his lap and against his chest. “No no, we don’t hit baby, that’s not nice, okay?”

He doesnt act like your fighting and attempts to escape are at all intentional, you just dont know better. “Ah-ah! Don’t run away from Daddy please. If you wanna go outside, you have to ask nicely and hold papa’s hand.” “Let me go! Please I just wanna go home I don’t wanna be here! Let me go!” “I know you wanna see all the pretty flowers and birds, but you have to be a good boy. It’s dangerous if you wander off without me, bub”

Even through all the crying and screaming his voice is soft and he’s gentle. Overtime you just stop saying that stuff, he’s heard it a thousand times already anyways. There’s no need to pretend to be small, he’ll treat you as such anyways and it’s getting easier to feel yourself slip. Tired from crying as he holds you against him and you lean your head on his shoulder while he rocks you.

There’s not much to do, so you color and arrange your toys even if a few days earlier you said you’d rather stare at a wall than act like a baby. He doesn’t comment on any of those changes either, he just says how pretty your picture is when he comes to check on you. If you decide to not play tomorrow, embarrassed by him noticing, he just picks you up and sets you on his lap while he reads (out loud, of course, babies should be read to often).

You've never tried sake, either? Here, let me pour you some.

Oh, you have to try this prosecco. I know you'll love it!

Have you ever had brandy? You can't get drunk off of such a small amount, I promise.

This whiskey is simply divine; here, have a taste.

You're getting awfully giggly. No, no, you shouldn't stop. You're just having fun, is all. Have some of this cognac.

Whoa, there! You weren't supposed to drink it all, ha ha. And definitely not like a shot. Let's try it again, but this time, really savor it.

You're feeling kind of warm? Yeah, take your shirt off. It's just us here. Oh, yeah, let me give you a hand. No, you're not drunk. Just a little tired. It was a long week, wasn't it?

Now why don't you try some of this scotch. And remember: savor it. No taking it like a shot, ha ha.

Yeah, I can see you're having a good time. You look so sexy, you know? I never realized you had such deep cleavage. That bra really suits you. But maybe you'll feel better if we take it off.

There! Like coming home after a long day of work. Wow; if I may say so, you really do have a magnificent set of tits. Do you mind if I...

You liked that, did you? I can tell by the sounds you made. I bet you want me to do it again.

What? You think you're a little drunk? There's no way! If you were, you wouldn't be standing up right now, even with me holding onto your sexy little body like this. Sorry; I should probably tone it down, shouldn't I? I wouldn't want to make you uncomfortable. You want me to squeeze your titty again? If you say so, but I'll also have to...

Oh, you really like it when I kiss your neck like that. Of course, anything for you, baby...

The room is spinning? But you feel good, don't you? Yeah, I feel good, too...probably not as much as you, though. I can make you feel even better, though. If you want.

pornhub.com/men tied up and whimpering and suffering

The way I use it is as follows:

Green-> I can take more, i'm having a good time, keep doing what you're doing.

Yellow-> If you keep doing that, i'm going to have to call red soon. I'm getting near my limit but I CAN take more.

Red-> stop what you're doing and check in.

This allows for like, in a heavy impact scene i'll be hitting my boy and then he'll call yellow and I make a mental note. That's information. If I keep hitting him in that way, or in that place, or that hard, he's going to need to stop soon. Sometimes i DO stop and check in and see what's going on. Other times I keep going just to see how much he can take, then he calls red, and we take a breather.

I've never met anyone who offers up a Green without being checked in with. "Hey, can i get a color?" "green" "okay cool" and then I know that alls good.

Red works best as "stop and ask!" not as "stop and start aftercare, we're done." This way, if i'm doing something he can tolerate and he goes "red!" i go "whats up?" and he goes "Oh i just don't enjoy that" and I go "okay cool" and we continue the scene but now i have more information on how to help him enjoy it. Other times he goes "red" and i go "Whats up" and he goes "I'm feeling bad i wanna stop" and thats okay too. The key thing is I don't assume red is a hard stop.

When someone calls red I:

stop what i'm doing immediately

break body contact

Check in, ask why they called red, what they need

proceed accordingly.

Along side this, its so key to remember that you can have more than one safeword. In every day play my partner and I use the stoplight system as detailed here. But we also have a separate safeword that means "if you keep doing that, i'm going to need to go to the hospital." This lets you set up specific safe words. If you're someone who DOES sometimes need a safe word that means "stop everything and give me aftercare" you can pick a word to mean that.

Of course, it's not truly unique to hypnosis. You can simply not think about the fact that you're holding still and not fighting back at all while being spanked, being touched inappropriately in ways you hate, or while being dressed up in embarrassing outfits while others watch.

But, it's hard to reach the level of cognitive dissonance necessary to actively request such things. To beg for more between counts. To loudly say how much you like it and make dull eye contact where you moan and squeal. To twirl on command or even change your own clothes. Hypnosis provides both a framework for the process to reach the state and a narrative justification for how you got there.

In this way, it acts as a multiplier for other kinks. Letting you delve deeper into the contradictions of disavowal. This isn't you so it doesn't count. This doesn't feel like you so it doesn't count. It's all a show so it doesn't count.