Diary of an Asexual

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The absolute audacity to say 'let me know if I can improve'

Bitch, I literally @'d you explaining why I didn't agree with your stances on hip hop and rap music, why it was antiblack with examples and an explanation and why it was harmful to Black aspecs and Black allos and asked you to take accountability for your + your followers' antiblackness:

and you BRAGGED ABOUT IGNORING IT. YOU ADMITTED YOU DELIBERATELY IGNORED A POST FROM A BLACK ASEXUAL TRYING TO EDUCATE YOU:

'You thought i wouldnt see it' nigga it's a public post I made public purpose. I don't care if you see it or not. It's to give Black aspecs the heads up on your antiblackness and from the way you move, it's the right call. I'm not staying silent on antiblackness from other aspecs. I don't care about your comfort when you clearly don't care about the lives of Black aspecs.

'Kinder than some' You are not owed kindness when you're antiblack. Be fucking serious.

Hell, I wrote you the most basic antiblack racism 101 post, I didn't insult your character, i didn't curse you out, i didn't say i hated you or that you and your moots were bad people and you STILL didn't listen.

Being Australian is not a free pass to be antiblack. Antiblackness exists across the globe, it is not an American construct. I'm not an American Black person so stop using being an non usamerican as a fucking excuse. Even we did pretend no African or West Indian diaspora Black people existed down under, the treatment of aboriginees is abymsal in white Austrialian society. You're either even more ignorant than what you've already shown yourself to be or you're a worse liar than I thought.

You didn't simply say you didn't like sexual music, you went on a post by a aroace specifically explaining the antiblackness towards the genre and you inserted yourself and tried to justify it with your sex repulsion. You admitted to laughing in this users face for trying to explain antiblackness to you:

If you listened to my OG post instead of skipping it you would've seen that the OG context of the hip hop discourse wasn't about sex, it was about Black people of all sexualities being upset that white tumblr users were spreading antiblack rhetoric during the Kendrick-Drake beef. All saying that u dont like rap because it has sex in it and ur aspec does, is add to that stigma. THAT is what I tried to tell you.

I will never retract my statements because they're true. Your post encouraged your followers to mock me and you actively supported it:

And I'm not retracting my statement on your virtue signalling because you also confirmed it's true when you said this:

You admit, you blogged it to make yourself look good "as you should" meanwhile, you treated and still treat Black asexuals like absolute shit. Looks and smells like virtue signalling to me. You're not getting a damn retractation.

And what fucking apology? You made that post mocking me to your white audience then went silent. You never apologised to me last year. You in fact doubled down on what you said and ignored everyone who tried to talk to you about antiblack racism:

'Trust me if I was anti black you would know about'

Oh Black aspecs know alright.

Unless you're talking about what you've said recently, that's not an apology either. You refuse to admit that what you did was antiblack and you cosign asks from your followers being antiblack:

This is who you attract and actively condone. Shoutout to @in-a-mello-mood @rays-blogs and @arielthedaydreamer . I'm the silly dumb Black asexual btw!:

Your followers have called Black people morons, triggered, silly, dumb, using mental gymnastics, reduced a Black American music and culture down to 'dicks' and 'pussies', think it's 'bullshit' for Black aspecs to speak on antiblackness and have not only cosigned your antiblackness but are still, 1 YEAR LATER, mocking me as a Black asexual who spoke up about antiblack racism.

THIS is who you are and THIS what your community stands for. You can deny it as much as you want but this is what antiblackness is and this is why I call you and your followers antiblack. *I won't ever take that back because it's the truth.* A truth you continue to deny.

There is NOTHING you can do at this point that would make up for getting me attacked by your non Black followers including now, witnessing them spread disgusting white supremacist and ableist dogwhistles about Black people including Black American allorose people and most of all, LYING about this whole situation. You could've just apologised from the jump, but no, you didn't care. You enjoyed making fun of all the non Black people who tried to educate you, you enjoyed humiliating all the Black aspecs who tried to call you out and you enjoyed all those asks attacking Black allorose people. You're only doing this to play the victim for your own antiblackness and you know your white aspec bredren and non Black POC will defend you.

I Will Not Apologize

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"love is love" until it lives in separate beds

"love is love" until it is queer platonic

"love is love" until it does not comply with compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity

love IS love, for aspecs, for sex sepulsed folk and for platonic relationships

"love is love" apply to more than same-sex relationships in a world where romantic and sexual relationships are considered more valuable

1. Make sure to collect evidence of what happened on your end.

2. Contact Tumblr support and tell them you are requesting your data under the GDPR and that as part of the request you want them to state what specific personal data they collected justified the deletion of your account. If they refuse to do either, state that they are under a legal obligation to provide this data to you, that they should forward your request to and put you in contact with their "Data Protections Officer", and that if they do not comply, you will alert the relevant "Data Protection Authority".

3. If in step 2 they showed evidence of some kind of discrimination or did not furnish reasonable information, or you suspect they are lying, do the following: Find either the data protection authority (DPA) of your country of residence or that of Ireland (may be a better choice if your government discriminates against queer people) on the EU website, on the website of the DPA you should be able to find guidance on how to submit a complaint. Try to follow their guidelines but also make sure that in your complaint you state that: your account was unjustifiably deleted, what measures you took under step 2, and what Tumblr responded with.

One starts to explain the rules: