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Over time, this came to mean that head coverings were associated with modesty and sexual purity. All Mohamed did was put God’s stamp of approval on an old practice.

Men don’t, and never have, been so aroused by hair that they are overwhelmed with lust.

What men want and have always wanted is two classes of women. One that is kept “pure” so he can be sure his ego is stroked and his offspring is definitely his; and the other is a class of women that are always available for sex whenever he likes.

For 6 THOUSAND YEARS men have done their best to order society this way. And in every civilization there has been a way to signal which type of woman you are. What makes men angry is not being able to immediately identify which woman is which kind. THAT is the purpose of hijab and all other similar markings.

Their goal is to help as many people as possible not offend, and help other people struggling with p*dophilic thoughts get into a psych treatment program, thus helping to lower the rates of CSA, and contributing to research on the nature of p*dophilia so we can understand it better.

You’re actively misgendering trans bloggers, putting down sex workers, and saying shit that’s wildly offensive, adding fuel to the trans panic fire while at the same time not even knowing the difference between gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia.

Ross Tucker is the scientific advisor for World Rugby and helped organise a 2 day workshop in London in 2020, where experts argued for and against including transwomen in women’s rugby where they considered science (sex differences in performance), medicine (how to lower testosterone and the impact of doing so), law and risk (human rights argument for trans inclusion and the consequences for injury and liability) and ethical and social issues (the losses to transwomen from exclusion and female players from trans inclusion).

This was weighed up by a group of nearly all women, all experts in their fields. Their review paper appeared in Sports Medicine, one of the most prestigious journals in the field.

It demonstrates that testosterone suppression has barely any impact on the sporting performance of people who have been through male puberty. Longitudinal studies find that transwomens lean body mass, muscle area and strength typically fall by less than 5% after one year of testosterone suppression, and very little more thereafter.

World Rugby also commissioned a biomechanics expert to explore the impact of introducing male bodies to women’s game on head and neck mechanics during tackles and found that the risk factors for head injuries increased by at least 20% to 30%.

[image: Mercedes Grabowski, aka August Ames]

For those of you who don’t know, August Ames was a 23-year-old porn actress who committed suicide in 2017 after being bullied and publicly shamed by her peers/colleagues in the adult film industry. The reason they were bullying her was because she found out a studio was planning to have her shoot a sex scene with a porn actor who was on her “no” list, so she refused to film the scene with him.

She was bullied for not consenting to sex with a specific person that she already had informed her agent and the studio that she didn’t want to work with. They scheduled her with him anyway, and she said no, end she was subsequently bullied and publicly shamed en masse. Another adult film actor (Jaxton Wheeler, male, 7 years her senior) posted publicly that “the world is waiting” for Ames “to swallow a cyanide pill.” The internet hate mob was made up of people Ames saw as her peers - and since they were all posting about her publicly - an army of porn fans also joined in. Even those who didn’t really care about the ins and outs of the adult industry were excited to have an opportunity to publicly abuse a woman who dared to say no.

She tried to stand up for her right to say no, but this just caused her critics to double down even harder on the public roasting. Finally she had enough. She tweeted “fuck y’all” and she hung herself. She was only 23 years old. Her real name was Mercedes Grabowski.

[image: Mercedes Grabowski]

Like I said at the beginning of this post, what messes me up is the way “sex positive” writers covered her death. Even in obituaries and memorial posts, many writers still try to debunk her reasoning for not wanting to have sex with the person she said no to. Consent is supposed to be sacrosanct. No one should ever be forced (or pressured in any way) to have sex with someone that they say no to. The fact that she said no to this man and then was still scheduled with him is a violation of her consent. The fact that her reason for not consenting was dissected and called “problematic” is also a violation of her consent. No means no. No always means no. Anything that tries to change a “no” into a “yes” is a violation freely given consent.

Yet publications covering her death sometimes spent HALF THE ARTICLE dissecting and “debunking” her reasoning behind not wanting to shoot a scene with the man she said no to.

What was her reasoning? I haven’t mentioned it in this post for one reason: it doesn’t matter. No means no. A person can refuse to consent to sex FOR ANY REASON. Disagreeing with that is rape logic. A person shouldn’t need to prove that they are declining consent for ideologically pure and completely “unproblematic” reasons. No means no! No only means no!

Rest In Peace, Mercedes Grabowski age 23, August 23rd 1994 - December 5th 2017. She was bullied, ostracized, publicly shamed, and called a bigot for daring to say “no” to sex with a specific partner who was already on her “no” list. Her consent was not respected, even in her death. The porn industry and its supporters has since pushed this incident under the rug and never talks about it. On the rare occasion that they do, they’ll spend at least half of the talk on criticizing the reasoning she gave behind saying “no” as if a simple “no” was not enough. “No” should always be enough.

[image: Mercedes Grabowski, aka August Ames, posing for a photograph with her brother who says he still receives disgusting anonymous messages about his sister, even long after her death.]

Things that ruin the sexuality of women:

1. Habitually forcing yourself to have sex you don’t want to have out of duty + obligation.

2. Habitually having sex with someone who is selfish and only cares about their pleasure.

3. Being treated like an object or treating yourself like an object (getting all your pleasure out of being desired, never thinking about what you desire/find physically attractive or what feels good to you)

4. Sexual abuse, rape, exploitation and being exposed to violent kinks.

5. Habitually having sex totally disconnected from emotional intimacy and care.

6. Having sex with someone who disrespects you, disregards your needs, emotionally neglects you or full blown abuses you on a daily basis.

7. Participating in sex work. Biggest kept secret is that women who have sex for work are prone to becoming sex repulsed.

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