same as it ever was

Well I don't like how it feels. I don't feel cleaner without body hair. I don't prefer not having body hair. But who will advocate for women like me, but me? For women who do like hair removal, they are advocated for every time they step out of the house and see 99% of the female population also conforming to that standard, or when they watch a movie and see all the shaved actresses, or view an advertisment, or open a magazine, or watch a music video, or scroll through social media, or walk down the streets without receiving insults and glares for having a completely normal bodily feature.

beloved does say that love ≠ sex but the context is that every single time fitz has to think about their relationship he alwaysss has to bring it back to sex as an excuse to be avoidant

when he says he loves fitz, he was not simultaneously saying "i expect sex from you," he was saying i love you. every time they get on the topic of their relationship fitz is always like "wtf you want to fuck me rn though???" and fool is like dude i just said "I love you"???

beloved would clearly be down for a sexual relationship with fitz but he respects that fitz is not okay with it yet, internalized homophobia or whatever but still he is just not ready for it and is not comfortable with the idea. so its kind of like "ok i get you dont want to have sex which is why i literally never asked you for that, but did you only love molly for sex? did you have sex with nighteyes because you loved him deeply?" (aka not saying "i wouldnt want it" but rather "i never needed it to love you")