me: no live organism can continue to exist sanely under conditions of absolute reality

being transfem (free space)

saying children shouldn't be treated as property

advocating for change that would make it easier for children to avoid/escape abusive situations

roblox screenshot

watching onimai

watching bocchi the rock

watching anime in general

ditto for manga

or anything japanese really

doing ageplay (whether sexual or not)

not doing ageplay (but being friends with someone who does)

being accused of CSA

being a victim of CSA

being friends with a CSA victim

asking for proof in response to being accused of CSA

literally in the same sentence where the people accusing you of CSA are admitting themselves that no CSA actually happened

pointing out that reporting fictional material as CSAM is delaying help to CSA victims

providing sources that explicitly back up that claim

posting a nonsexual photo of a fully clothed adult woman

posting a nonsexual drawing of a fully clothed child

posting a sexual drawing of a fully clothed adult woman

posting a nonsexual drawing of a fully clothed adult woman

posting a photo of gachapon toys

reblogging a short fiction story about making a girl breakfast where sex explicitly does not happen

wearing diapers (for kink)

wearing diapers (for a disability)

having b-cups

having sex with a woman in her 20s

being sent multiple death threats

being sent actual real-life gore along with a racist, ableist, transmisogynist screed and detailed fantasy about you attempting and failing to kill yourself then getting sent to and raped to death in a men's prison

being gangstalked

writing fiction that does not mention or imply children at all

pointing out the transmisogynist moderation bias and userbase

in the replies of pretty much any post about a news article mentioning trans women

for appealing the explicit flag on a post without any nudity that the appeal on was accepted

for appealing being terminated for posting explicit content after appealing the explicit flag on a post without any nudity that the appeal on was accepted

for appealing being terminated for posting explicit content after not posting any explicit content at all or having a single post flagged as explicit

being against the death penalty

being a sex worker

being friends with a sex worker

being positive towards sex work

following a transfem

posting any art that is trans positive (e.g. klaufir)

the fucking trans comic

made a mutual aid post

replied 🫂 to someone's vent post

I'll explain how it often happens that trans women are marginalised and kicked out of groups for really minor infractions (or even for no infraction at all), and he'll often say something like "Thanks for the info, that's worth being on the look out for, if it comes up."

Then I'll bring the conversation back to the example of the specific trans woman in the local area who had a bad thing happen to her at a trans group, and it'll be straight back to "Oh, I don't think that can be right, she must've done something worse."

Martin and Bosco Day Button Giveaway

Life can feel a bit bleak in 2026, so I decided my Tumblr community could use a bit of fun. I'll be giving away Martin and Bosco Day buttons! The awesome design is by @stinkybrowndogs.

I'll be covering the shipping costs, so the final number of winners will depend on postage, which I'm still working out. I'm doing my best. XD

To Enter: Reblog this post. That's it. You do not need to follow me and be subjected to my weird posts.

The fine print:

One entry per blog.

Winners will be randomly selected on June 21, 2026 at noon (Toronto time).

If you're selected, I'll contact you through Tumblr Messages to arrange shipping.

Due to shipping costs, this giveaway is limited to residents of Canada and the United States. I apologize to my international friends!

If you're selected, you'll need to share your name and mailing address with me so I can mail your button.

I'm eternally delighted that Martin and Bosco have their own Tumblr holiday.