classicartemis

If you are LQBTQ+ and get asked about your sexuality, "that is a personal discussion I do not wish to have at this time." And it will never be that time if you think that person is not an ally. LGBTQ+ and all that know somone that is LGBTQ+, if someone asks you about another person's sexuality, gender, et cetera, "I don't know, I choose to love/care for them who they are as a whole, but, that might be a conversation that they consider private and do not suggest bringing it up unless they initiate a conversation."

If you are single and will try to remain so, here is a religious reason. 1 Corinthians 7:8 (NASB) "But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is good for them if they remain even as I." Basically, it is best if you are single to stay single.

Reminder for those that need it, if you feel any negative feelings this week about valentine's day a few ways to transmute your feelings:

- these people are celebrating the death of a person with confessions of love, feel free to remind people of this.

- this is mainly to feed the capatalistic machine, if you are not happy about this holiday, you don't have to be.

- discount candy is almost within reach, have patience, ourntime is almost near! Prepare thy waist bands!

My friends and I have all decided that we are poly in the way that we draw a lot of comfort and support from eachother. Sending each other titoks that prompt you to send to your feiends so that they can tell you what they think you are. But, starting the interaction with a fine little description for them, since you know it will make them feel seen. We have our "kids" that are little queers that need older queers in their life. We have our get togethers that are litterally just going to someone's house and chilling bc we are late 20- to mid 30-year-olds.

This does not stop men and women from thinking that they have a chance. They will push that they are allowed to flirt if they would like. They will countinue to shoot their shot with indirect and direct boundaries are tried to be placed. People use others to inquire about my relationship status, and even more than the previous scenarios.

When in certain situations I am happy to interact with people in settings where this might be inferred (e.g. the club). But, I should be able to feel safe in most public settings of not being hit on.

I honestly have grown tired of these things. So, I no longer act in a way where there is a possibility for misinterpretation and build firm boundaries.

Baby gay: yeah! And you two are married! You even have matching rings that she (me) bought you (other aro friend).

Friend: *looks down at her aro ring and back up* honey, this means the exact opposite of being in a relationship

Like, we're going to the pride parade? Holiday party? Friendcation together? V is incharge of planning, organizing, communicating, dividing any duties, and all follow up.

"We lost the lesbians!"

"We're over here!"

But I had no intention behind it besides just having a little amusement!