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i am massively overdue for a very very good week where not a single bad thing happens and everything is easy

reblog to give prev a very good week where not a single bad thing happens and everything is easy

a big lesson for me was learning that most things are not as fragile as I’d believed. missing a class, or turning in a bad assignment, won’t instantly destroy your professor’s opinion of you. accidentally saying something harsh won’t make your friend want to end the friendship. it takes work to repair these things - it takes effort and research and sometimes a sincere apology - but you can do that because they’re not irreparably broken. what you’ve worked to build, in academia and in relationships and in life, is stronger and more enduring that your mind may teach you to believe. don’t let imagined fragility lead you to giving up

today i overheard a girl say "no, f*ck that. i will be lovely to everyone. maybe some people will remember they have a heart."

Neglecting your needs and desires will not make you easier to love

I’m too lazy for dating. Why can’t someone materialize out of nowhere and agree that we should spend the rest of our lives together

feels like every few weeks I have to relearn how to exist, that I do need to sit in the sun and move my body and not drink too much coffee and dress in clothes that make me feel good and talk to my friends and journal and get off my phone sometimes and eat vegetables and drink more tea and generally reclaim the space in my life for myself ya know

I aspire to be one of those people whose presence feels like a warm hug

Nothing feels real. I go through the motions each day, I exist. But that's all. I simply exist. I don't feel alive anymore.

deprograming the shame received for being a “bitch” when it was just boundaries, standards, and self-preservation being applied. take away the inner bitch to find myself being used, walked all over, and having the feelings of others put before my own. talked more about this on my patreon here.

it’s the smallest habits. how you spend your mornings. how you talk to yourself. what you read. what you watch. who you share your energy with. who has access to you. that will change your life.

So what’s the deal with that tasty little DILF on those Trivago commercials?

He’s tryna smash and get you a great deal on some hotels

fucking him raw and getting him pregnant in the same room he recommended

Hey

I’ve been saying this for YEARS!!!

*vaguely gestures entire life* I’m just.. not in the mood for this right now