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Every time I see someone casually refer to someone else (often a complete fucking stranger they just read a story about) as a 'narcissist' I get this much closer to just biting people. I'm not interested in ultraconservative evangelical demon-possession cults. Stop doing their work for them.
Like surely there are other ways to call someone arrogant and selfish without yanking open the cover on the demon possession cult pipeline. Pick basically anything else. Like the phrase "arrogant and selfish".
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the way people online phrase things like "â¤ď¸ everyone should be allowed to pet puppies and eat ice cream if they want to 𼰠just as long as they aren't training those puppies to attack others on purpose or poisoning the ice cream or lying about it being puppies and ice cream when actually they've been petting bombs and eating guns this whole time, that would be bad â ď¸ stay safe đ¸"
they should invent a disproportionate emotional response that goes away when you understand it's disproportionate. they should invent a way to logic yourself out of emotions
the weed dispensaries should ask if you would like to round up your purchase to donate to PBS. and if you say yes you get to scan a QR code that gives you 30-day free access to the full run of antiques roadshow. this is how drugs can win the war on drugs again.
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Hey if you have a chronically ill friend who is housebound, I'd like to take this opportunity to remind you to make contact with them. See if you can visit them (offer to sit in their room with them, tell them they don't need to worry about how clean it is), offer to bring them a meal or help with tasks they can't do themself, offer to go with them to a doctor's appointment, if they can leave the house sometimes let them know that the next time they have the energy they're welcome to come lie on your couch.
Housebound people feel free to add your own input, my housebound friend was able to visit recently and I was reminded of how isolating it can be for her. I love you and you deserve to get to see people in ways that don't hurt you more than they have to.
It is so fucking frustrating to have ADHD and go "and I do this as a backup incase I forget-" and people fucking JUMP ON YOU for having a backup and tell you "just don't forget!", as if having Dogshit Memory Disorder is something I personally chose in order to inconvenience them, and it's triply annoying when they also have ADHD.
Planning for when you forget IS a responsible action.
Telling people not to forget is like saying "just don't get in a wreck!" when someone puts a seatbelt on. 1), it's useful for more than just the most dire situation possible, and 2), if people had control over that they would already be controlling it.
I hate the saying that "planning for failure is sign of a bad design" because contingencies are the most effective way to deal with problems
Things break for many reasons, but if you see your points of failure and plan accordingly, its just not a problem for long
Also, i think a lot of designs lack maintenance capacity, being able to just fix things wherever and whenever you are is just something that should be normal
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'Why does every nonbinary person want top surgery' I dunno maybe because having visible breasts immediately makes everyone assume you're female and only female, and therefore put you into a binary. Also why are you assuming every nonbinary person has breasts.
I think people who believe that should also put some thought into whether every nonbinary person with breasts actually wants top surgery, or whether they've just decided that the nonbinary people with breasts who want to keep them don't "count" as nonbinary.
#i know plenty of nonbinary people who want breasts or like their breasts#but they're viewed as either transtrenders or trans women in denial <- prev tags
The open letter penned to Channel 4 in advance of their documentary 'The Great ADHD Myth?'
SOURCE HERE
Open letter: The Great ADHD Myth?]
Dear Ms Dogra and Mr Katz,
We are writing about The Great ADHD Myth?, announced by Channel 4 on 29 July. We are writing before broadcast, deliberately and on the record, because we have been here before - and so has Channel 4.
A question mark is not a get-out-of-harm-free card. The last time Channel 4 reached for this style of title it gave us The Great Global Warming Swindle - a programme Ofcom found breached the Broadcasting Code. Twenty years on, global warming is not a myth, and neither is ADHD. The damage of a title like this is done in the listings, in the commentary, before a single frame is broadcast.
ADHD is not scientifically controversial. It is recognised by the World Health Organization, the NHS, NICE and every major medical body on earth. Physicians described it in 1798 - two centuries before the smartphone and 150 years before ultra-processed food. If modern life invented ADHD, it managed to do so remarkably far in advance. In 2021, eighty of the worldâs leading researchers from 27 countries published the International Consensus Statement on ADHD: more than 200 evidence-based conclusions drawn from studies of millions of people. Twin studies place ADHDâs heritability at around 74 per cent - among the highest of any psychiatric condition. Your programme sets a handful of contrarian voices against that mountain of evidence and calls it an open question. That is not balance. It is false equivalence.
You have already promised the answer. Your commissioning editor says the film takes âa science-led approachâ. Your executive producer, in the same press release, says it âpromises to make viewers think very differently about how we are medicating a generation of childrenâ. A science-led investigation cannot promise its conclusion in advance. And your presenter has already published his. In The Spectator in December 2024, Dr Pemberton wrote that ADHD âis now wildly over-diagnosed - and that this is actually dangerousâ; that âitâs easier to whack a label on a child - to medicalise their behaviour - than it is to confront parents with the idea that they might be at least in part to blameâ; and that âthe solution isnât Ritalin, itâs better parenting with less screen timeâ. In the same article he approvingly cited, by name, one of the two experts now quoted in your press release. Nineteen months later he tells us he âwanted to understand whyâ. The why was already in print, under his byline. We would also note that Dr Pemberton's published biographies describe his NHS specialism as eating disorders and addiction - not ADHD. This is not an open investigation. It is an argument, commissioned to a conclusion its own marketing has already promised.
Your own press release is materially misleading. It claims that boys aged 10-14 comprise âthe largest group being medicatedâ, citing a paper published in 2017 using data from five countries. The most recent NHS prescribing data for England shows that the largest group of people prescribed ADHD medication today are adults, not children. And among children, the higher diagnosis rate for boys reflects a different national scandal: the chronic underdiagnosis of girls.Â
The premise that Britain is casually âmedicating a generation of childrenâ is wrong: ADHD medication follows specialist assessment under NICE guidance, and the real national story is not over-medication but families waiting years for an NHS assessment. We would happily help you make that documentary.
This is not a parlour debate. People die. UCL-led research using UK health records shows that adults with diagnosed ADHD die on average around seven years earlier for men and nearly nine years earlier for women. Research funded by Irelandâs National Office of Suicide Prevention found that 20 per cent of adults with ADHD had attempted suicide, and a further 61 per cent had experienced suicidal ideation - leaving only 19 per cent untouched by either. The same research found that half had self-harmed, starting at an average age of thirteen. Having ADHD is tough. Undermining the condition just makes it tougher. When a national broadcaster invites millions to file all of this under âmythâ, people cancel assessments, parents doubt their children, employers doubt their staff, and lives are put at risk.
We know this because we measured it last time. After the BBCâs Panorama programme on ADHD in 2023, we surveyed more than 2,200 people with ADHD: 90 per cent said stigma had increased because of the programme, and 84 per cent said it would stop people with symptoms from seeking an assessment. We will run the same research the night this programme airs, and we will put the results to Ofcom, to Parliament and to the public.
A child is at the centre of your experiment. Your press release describes a boy replacing his prescribed medication with lifestyle changes over several weeks, on camera, to see whether he can âcome off medication altogetherâ. Please tell us what independent medical-ethics oversight this experiment received, who held clinical responsibility for the child throughout, and what clinical oversight is in place for him long term. ADHD is a lifelong condition - a few weeks doesnât cover it. We commonly hear from people who chose to stop ADHD medication, were discharged, and then could not restart treatment without a new assessment - and a new NHS assessment can be years, in places more than a decade, away, with serious consequences in the meantime. If private services were used, what safeguards ensure the child can continue that care financially, with ongoing reviews and check-ins? And what safeguarding assessment was made of broadcasting the outcome to the nation?
One boy is not a study. ADHD medication is among the most studied treatments in child health: 133 randomised, double-blind controlled trials, covering around 18,000 people, underpin its use, and its measured benefit is among the largest in psychiatry. Against that, your film offers one child, observed for a few weeks, unblinded and uncontrolled, receiving several interventions at once - plus the undivided attention of a film crew and a celebrity doctor. A study of one isn't science - it's an anecdote. Science has known since the Hawthorne factory studies a century ago that being watched changes behaviour. And a good few weeks of filming tests nothing anyway: the test of ADHD treatment is the classroom, homework, exams, friendships and adolescence - the years after the cameras have gone.
Sport is support, not a substitute. Exercise, time outdoors, less screen time and creative activity are part of good ADHD care - NICE recommends them alongside medication, not instead of it, and no one champions them more than we do. They help a child live with ADHD; they do not switch it off. Medication is not right for every child. But for those who need it, research links treatment with better school performance, fewer accidents and injuries, and reduced suicide risk. If your experiment nudges even a fraction of parents into binning a prescription their child needs, the harm will be real, personal and quiet - and no broadcast apology will reach it.
Channel 4 knows better - it has told us so. This is the channel of the Paralympics, whose own commissioned research celebrates that its coverage âshifted public perceptions and challenged prejudice around disabilityâ. The channel with a published disability strategy and guidance on the portrayal of disability. The channel that eighteen months ago commissioned a landmark film championing children with dyslexia - another neurodevelopmental condition - as diverse thinkers failed by âan archaic education systemâ, commissioned by the same editor now presenting ADHD as a possible âmythâ. Ms Dogra, on your appointment you described Channel 4âs mission as âto challenge, to reflect and represent voices across the UKâ. Your press release for this film contains no ADHD voice at all: no one who lives with it, no mainstream ADHD clinician, no ADHD organisation. Which voices does this commission reflect?
We therefore ask Channel 4 to:
Review the title and promotional framing against Channel 4âs own Online Complaints Code, which requires that materially misleading information is not published, and is corrected where it has been (Practices 1.1 and 1.2).
Correct the press releaseâs out-of-date claim about who is being medicated.
Offer ADHD UK, and others who have written to you, a preview screening and a right of reply, within the programme or in accompanying coverage.
Make clear on screen where contributorsâ views sit relative to mainstream clinical consensus - and disclose the presenterâs previously published position on ADHD.
Set out the medical-ethics oversight of the filmed medication-withdrawal experiment.
Broadcast clear signposting to support, in line with Ofcom guidance on content dealing with suicide and self-harm.
Explain how this commission is consistent with Channel 4âs published disability strategy and its guidance on the portrayal of disability.
We are not asking Channel 4 to duck hard questions about ADHD. Waiting lists, service failure and the gulf between need and provision deserve every camera you can point at them. We are asking you to aim at the right target.
This letter is public. Should the broadcast repeat the failings of its promotion, we will have no choice but to refer the matter to Ofcom.
We would welcome a meeting at your earliest convenience, and in any event ask for a response either before broadcast or within ten working days, whichever is sooner.
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I hate that when youâre stressed enough your body just starts falling apart. I think it should realize youâre already stressed and donât need that and start functioning better actually