Thanks man. I talked to my boyfriend about the threesome. Looks like we can’t work it out. He wants an open relationship and that is definitely not something I’m okay with. Kinda wished he made his preferences known years ago. Again thanks for your advice.
Come here, sit by me, and lean on my shoulder in spirit... ❤️
So he wasn't the one meant for you - that's okay.
Positives...
You know what you're about, and what you want from a man. If and when the time comes for the next man in your life, have the rules and boundaries conversation early and often - again, two people can't sing the same song, if one of them doesn't have a paper copy of the sheet music. The "often" part, as in repeatedly, every so often - not as an accusation of wrongdoing or foul play, but as a routine check-in. When you go to a restaurant, a good, proficient waiter or waitress won't just turn you loose once with your food - they check in. Does everything taste okay? How are we doing on drinks? Is your experience to standards? That exact concept is point blankly why a rules and boundaries conversation needs to be a routine, repeat thing in a relationship.
Being single is not a bad thing. Being on your own is a lot of fun.
You didn't move forward with someone who was not right for you.
Hugs, I wish you the best. ❤️ /forehead kiss... 😘
