Gezelschapsvis

no one is talking about how stressful pride season is for gays who organise things. i have so many different events to promote and im losing track of what I've pushed in which groupchat and/or instagram account. And that's to say nothing of my wife, gay organiser georg, who has even more on and whomsts events i also need to push

one of my least favourite tumblrisms is the weird fervent belief in the virtuousness of physical violence. like the whole "um, clearly youve never been in a situation where you could get your ass kicked" in reponse to someone like, saying something rude. Like amiguita in a lot of places you can get your ass kicked for saying "i'm gay" or, like, anything with a foreign accent, there is actually no edifying or character-building trait to being in environments suffused with violent machismo! and it always has the implicit undertone of either a like, noble savage view of appalachians or just straight up racist stereotypes

we have to hold the line on misandry not being real. it's getting scary out there

that one mutual that has seen the skull