cant keep a good bot down

does anyone in vancouver have a couch i can crash on

urgent btw i have to be gone by the 22nd

does anyone in vancouver have a couch i can crash on

idk anon why does your version of transition revolve around the idea of sex as an immutable concept and gender as a vibes based free-for-all? thats a pretty bizarre way to define transition

Transandrophobia theory vs transfeminism can be boiled down to whether you value assigned genders or actual genders more.

thank god for breasts *remembers im atheist* thank science for breasts

it’s like endlessly infuriating when other systems try to do this “my headmate is a different race than me and also i have headmates with different genitals than me” shit. it displays a fundamental misunderstanding of plurality and what an alter even is. they are fractured, compartmentalized pieces of the psyche. plurality is compartmentalization! it is not spiritual! the people in your head are *part of you and each other* they are not ghosts or separate entities that we take on in our heads. they are pieces of us. everyone get more materialist about plurality, what it is, how it works, and why it exists ASAP please

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

you know being an asshole to someone is not a great way to get them to listen to you.

lol. lmao even. tone police her after not listening the first two times, that tracks

there it is! "a feminist was too much of a bitch to me so that's why i'm bot a feminist" give a big round of applause folks we got there

i literally just said i agree with the movement but dislike the community but reading is hard ig :/

what you said was "i hesitate to fully commit to feminism because some feminists are assholes" but reading your own words is hard ig :/

i hesitate to fully commit to the transfeminism community because ive seen extremely widespread opinions on both plural people and mixed people that are fucking apalling.

i just don't know how else to explain to you that someone who is a girl in a body that was afab is cis, definitionally. whether she's a headmate or not, it doesn't matter. "transgender woman" isn't a gender, it's a relationship to womanhood that is based in a lived experience, one that someone afab does not have. do you argue about letting white people talk about being "racialized" because they're plural too? do you hesitate to commit to antiracism because some people are just too mean about white people's headmates? i can't stress enough again that i am a plural transfem. but the headmates i have who are men are, shock horror, not trans men. because our body was not afab, and regardless if whether you're a fictive or a factive or an introject or what, you only have the lived experience of the body you live in. that's how being alive works. this doesn't have to be so hard.

Someone assigned female at birth cannot have a "transfem headmate" anymore than a white person can have a"black headmate"