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I should rephrase my original comment.

I dont think Tom directly told Nolan to cast Z.

My guess is Nolan was already thinking about casting Z in the part.

What I think probably happened is Nolan asked Tom about Z and if she'd be interested in the role and Tom probably hyped Z up and said absolutely, she'd be great and put in a word for her.

So no, I don't think Tom literally told Nolan to cast Z, but I'm sure during that meeting with Nolan, Tom absolutely hyped Z up and sealed the deal for Nolan to cast her and that's why Tom knew Zs team would be getting a call about her casting.

Also, this isn't unusual in Hollywood for actors to suggest other actors for parts. It's a small town and nepotisim and WoM is the primary currency.

It's also not like Z doesn't have the clout or accolades to have gotten the part regardless of Tom's involvement. People are weird and want to make it seem like Z is some unknown, down on her luck actor who can't get cast without her husbands help. It's laughable.

Nolan was probably already rolling around with the idea of her in his head, and Tom might have helped solidify his choice. People don't need to be weird about this or turn it into something it's not.

I never said any of that stuff. I always said TZ would have a private wedding and we'd never see the dress or photos from the day.

I even went so far as to say I didn't think they'd get married in London because it'd be too easy for them to get papped.

I doubted Laws statement because it didn't seem possible for them to have married when they were both filming multiple projects simultaneously all year long. Also the way Law blurted it made no sense.

I am shocked Tom doesn't wear a ring, but not sure how that makes me a hypocrite as it has nothing to do with TZ making a spectacle of their wedding day and marriage.

I don't think you know what that word means and nothing you say has anything to do with my feelings for Taylor and how she's handling her wedding vs how TZ handled there's

Comodifying her relationship is exactly what this is and is what Taylor's been known for her entire career. Yet she screams misogyny and not fair and sics her fans on her exes if any of them were to dare speak out against her the way she writes about them in all of her songs, which have made her millions.

Again, I'm so glad TZ have mastered the skill of privacy and discretion. As big of stars as they are, we hear almost nary from them when they don't have anything to say.

Yup. There's plenty of celebs who live quiet, private lives and only pop out to be photographed when work dictates.

And there are definitely ways to have a private wedding ceremony if she wanted.

Yup. This is a deliberate choice to be seen and tell the world that she's finally married. And it will end as spectacularly as it began. With an expensive, over the top, soapy divorce filled with allegations and public spectacle pitting one side against the other with fan think pieces, dissertations and fan hashtags declaring sides.

They must have done it already and this is their big celebration but the fact that they are having a one thousand guest party in MSG is perplexing and so tacky!

She could have rented out a mansion on a hill somewhere and had a grand old party with none the wiser. Also. She doesn't have to invite every Tom, Dick and Harry to her wedding reception.

Again, TZ pulled off the ultimate incognito wedding and they are arguably two of the biggest movie stars to date.

They knew their wedding would cause a paparazzi storm, so they chose to keep things as low-key as possible by only inviting those closest to them- people that they knew they could trust with the secret.

And even if they do have a larger reception celebration later in the year, they're doing it in a location with strict paparazzi laws that has proven to be a very private retreat for them.

There are absolutely ways she could have done this and had it flown under the radar. Taylor wants to be seen.

She knows the world is watching her every move, so she decides to rent out one of the largest sport and concert venues in the busiest city in North America and she expects people to believe she never intended for it to leak.

I honestly don't care. I find it sad that for all of Taylors popularity, success, and wealth, she still seeks validation from the public in this way.

I refuse to believe Taylor and Travis wedding is actually happening at msg, that’s tacky on another level. ATP how much of the relationship is real or for public consumption instead?

As much as we are invested in their relationship especially on tumblr, we still don’t know more than 1% of their actual relationship. Like even basically we never even got a real number of how many years they been together from either of them 😭 not even in passing

Yup. TZ don't just talk the talk about having a private life, they have done everything in their power to make that a reality within the realm of possible considering their job and celebrity status.

You don't catch them on pap walks going to the most popular restaurants in the biggest cities, wearing the fanciest clothes for date nights. You hardly ever see them hanging out with friends.

Most of the time when they are photographed out and about it's fan photos, and the seldom times they do get papped, it's very obvious that they are just going about their day-to-day lives.

Unless those two are promoting something, they are hardly ever seen outside.

There are certain celebrities who want to be seen, so they make it a concerted effort to be seen. TZ are not those types of celebrities.

Taylor and Travis want a circus, otherwise they would have done things differently. No one will convince me this was the outcome they weren't expecting. They wanted this.

I don't believe it. If she wanted to have a private event, she could make that happen. I'm not a Swiftie by any means and don't follow her closely, but I know there are times where she can go completely into hiding. Anytime that girl is seen, it's because she wants to be seen.

She knew her wedding would be big news. You don't have a wedding at MSG unless you want it to be leaked. There's way too many people involved in coordinating that for it to be kept secret for long.

If she wanted a private ceremony, she has plenty of money to make that happen. But she doesn't, she wants a spectacle.

THANK GOD they did not make a spectacle out of it like Taylor and Travis are. I'm sorry, but I hope those two have an ironclad prenup cause no way do I think that marriage will last past 5 years.

I will always admire TZ for how they never made their relationship the focal point of their work. They treat their relationship like it's the most precious thing in their entire world, only for them.

It's why when we do get little nuggets of insight into their lives, we salivate over it, like we just unlocked a clue in a treasure hunt.

It also goes to prove that celebrities have all the power in the world to not be seen when they don't want to be seen.

Tom and Z seemingly got married in th middle of a work week, at a private venue, with only the smallest of family and friends. If Law had never spilled, we would still be assuming the wedding was pending.

Whatever Travis and Taylor are doing is for the birds. It's a conscientious choice to "leak" to the whole world your wedding venue, day, and time and turn it into a media circus like it's the next royal wedding.

If those two wanted privacy, they certainly could have found a way to make it happen. Any celeb whose wedding gets papped is because they wanted it to get papped (ahem, Dua and Caleb).

And yet you consistently hang on my every word and comment on everything I post when you could very easily just unfollow and block me.

You want me to commit suicide over a nonsensical blog. You send me racist asks and call me deragatory names over a dumb blog. I have blocked and reported you multiple times, yet you keep coming back, like a cockroach.

My blog is not the problem. Your obsession with me is.

Delete my blog from your following, block my name from your feed. The power lies in your fingerrips.

And when you've done that, get help, seriously.

You are an unwell person. Nothing I post is worth this much ire or dark energy for you to wish people dead.

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