NOTE: Minors (anyone under 18), feel free to interact with my posts as much as you please. Iām just not open to random DMS or being friends/mutualsāwith all due respect, itās just a preference to be friends with those within or close to my age group (18-20s), thank you. šš¾
Here on my blog, you'll mainly see: Nostalgic posts, fictional writing posts, fandom posts.
And topics about mental health making it abundantly clear I'm a mentally tired person just trying to survive. But, also, support and information about it too.
No worries about running into potentionally triggering "life is hopeless" posts. Used to believe that, no longer do. Round of applause.
And finally, make yourself cozy!
Currently focused on: Rise of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. So, you might see a lot of posts about that at the moment.
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The āToddler Mobility Trainerā is fully modular and requires no tools to assemble, making it easy to replace and grow with its user.
"The average pediatric wheelchair can cost thousands of dollars. And when children grow and their needs evolve ā or a wheelchair gets damaged ā those costs multiply.
So, the team at MakeGood NOLA, a New Orleans-based adaptive design lab, has made something that can transform the world for disabled children.
āIntroducing the worldās first fully 3D-printed wheelchair,ā MakeGood founder and president Noam Platt started a recent social media video.
He wheels a small, almost toy-like lime-green wheelchair into the frame, complete with a matching harness, suitable for children ages 2 to 8.
āEverything from the body, to the wheels, to the tires, the seat, and even the straps, all were 3D printed on a regular Bambu Labs A1 machine,ā Platt continued.
This means the design is fully compatible with a regular 3D printer anyone can have in their home.
āWe designed this to be modular and easy to make,ā Platt continued. āReally, anyone with a 3D printer and some filament can download the files and print it.ā [Note: You can also use 3D printers for free or a small cost at some public libraries and maker spaces, opening up accessibility even further.]
Once the prototype is completely finished, it will be available as a fair-use download that anyone can use for free.
Pictured: The new 3D-printed chair by MakeGood. Photo courtesy of MakeGood NOLA
Platt said that because it has a modular design, the wheelchair can be put together without any tools or glue. And if any part of it breaks or is damaged, users can simply re-print the single piece they need.
āAs a wheelchair user I love everything about this,ā TikTok user @thisisharlie commented on Plattās video debuting the wheelchair.
āMine costs more than my car, I canāt imagine having to buy a new one every year or two as they outgrow it,ā @thisisharlie continued. āYouāre going to change the world.ā
For Platt, thatās always been the plan.
When he created MakeGood in 2021, the nonprofit design lab was thinking of the more than 1 billion people around the globe who live with disabilities.
āSince traditional design often overlooks diverse bodies and minds, it is crucial to reshape the built environment,ā MakeGood shares on its website. āThe challenges our communities face ā both physical and social ā are solvable.ā
MakeGood works with individuals to co-create their adaptive design solutions, centering the āNeed Knower,ā the disabled person or their primary caregivers, throughout the entire process.
Since the founding of MakeGood, 1,600 individualized adaptive devices have been delivered to families for free. Plattās team found a niche with this wheelchair, which they call the Toddler Mobility Trainer, or TMT.Ā
On its website, the organization says the wheelchairs were ādesigned with therapists from all over the worldā and offer āunmatched mobility and independence to young kids.ā
Children and parents agree.
āItās an A+,ā one parent said of an earlier prototype of the TMT in a report by CBS News. āItās helped [my son] become more mobile and be able to adapt into the other things that heās going to be offered. Itās helped his development.ā
At the start of the design process, Platt reached out to area hospitals to see if he could fill a need.
āPart of it is empowering clinicians that we can go beyond what is commercially available,ā Platt told CBS News. āWe can really create almost anything.ā
Now in the final stages of tweaking the TMT design to be ready for release, Platt is eager to get the wheelchair rolled out and into the homes of the children who need them most.
Pictured: A rendering of the 3D printed design, which will soon be available for download. Photo courtesy of MakeGood NOLA
āWe think this sort of 3D printing and design is going to be huge for accessibility, and for wheelchairs specifically,ā Platt said in his social media video.Ā
In the meantime, people can request a free chair from MakeGood.
āWe have a growing list of people whoāve requested these, and once we finish the design, weāll start filling those requests with custom-printed chairs, including things that you might need for your particular chair,ā Platt said in a follow-up video.
Because the chairs are easily 3D printed, they can come in any color and can be modified to include other accommodations, like a section to hold a breathing device or other aid. With years of customization and design experience under his belt, this new innovation is simply an extension of Plattās dedication to inclusive design.
In 2023, Platt told New Mobility: āI feel like every time I deliver one of these [assistive] devices, I get a hopeful feeling that the world has been changed a little bit for the better for the next generation.ā"
āChildren of Shatilaā (Lebanon, 1998) film by Mai Masri. In this scene the youth of the Palestinian refugee camp interview an elder with a video camera.
hey fellow autistic folk and adhders. this post isn't about you. this post is about all the other neurodivergence that is specifically Not autism or adhd. maybe the clearest post on the site about that actually. i'm autistic and have adhd too, but this post is specifically not about that. stop making it about your autism or your adhd.
it's about npd, bpd, psychosis, schizophrenia, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia, dysgraphia, epilepsy, DLD, did, osdd (and any other plurality/multiplicity), depression, brain damage, anxiety, tourettes, down syndrome, ptsd, and everything else. it's specifically about neurodivergence that ISNT autism or adhd.
Actually, no. You canāt cure Depression. Some types may be ācurable,ā but with cases such as MDD (the one I have), you canāt cure it. You can treat it, but itās far from curable. It will always be with me and will always be a disability.
i don't think there's a structural difference between "curable depression" and "incurable depression"
anyway anyone who has either can call themselves neurodivergent if they want to! it doesn't mean "your brain works differently forever and always" it just means your brain works differently from whatever is considered normal, which in itself is really vague and depends on a lot of things so. it doesn't really make sense to gatekeep this
Oh no, youāre totally right. I wasnāt trying to gatekeep. Just pointing out that not all depression is curable, as it sounded like darkvoid was a bit confused on it. (They explicitly said āyou canāt spend thousands in therapy and get rid of your down syndrome, but you can with depression.ā When that isnāt always the case, especially for certain types of depression).
So, not all depression you can get rid of, mine will be with me forever. And I think thatās important to point out/correct when the opportunity presents itself. A lot out there donāt take depression too seriously due to common misinformation on it, including thinking each type of depression is curable.
Again, I would know. Iāve had MDD since 11. Iāve gotten enough comments asking if Iāve ātried curing it yetā and often have to correct ātreating it, yes. But I canāt cure it like a cold.ā Or comments of ādo this and Iām sure youāll no longer have depression!ā
But no matter if anyone has curable or incurable depression; itās absolutely neurodivergence. Never said it wasnāt. šš¾ A person with, letās say, situational depression is still neurodivergent just like me. Even a person with postpartum depression is still experiencing being neurodivergent due to their brain differing from whatās considered the norm during that time.
hey fellow autistic folk and adhders. this post isn't about you. this post is about all the other neurodivergence that is specifically Not autism or adhd. maybe the clearest post on the site about that actually. i'm autistic and have adhd too, but this post is specifically not about that. stop making it about your autism or your adhd.
it's about npd, bpd, psychosis, schizophrenia, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia, dysgraphia, epilepsy, DLD, did, osdd (and any other plurality/multiplicity), depression, brain damage, anxiety, tourettes, down syndrome, ptsd, and everything else. it's specifically about neurodivergence that ISNT autism or adhd.
Actually, no. You canāt cure Depression. Some types may be ācurable,ā but with cases such as MDD (the one I have), you canāt cure it. You can treat it, but itās far from curable. It will always be with me and will always be a disability.
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Sometimes you see a post of someone saying dark fiction should be banned and then another person will respond to that saying "No, there's nothing wrong with dark fiction, as long as the bad things are portrayed as bad", and the thing is... I also don't agree with that.
I think what people don't realize when they say stuff like that is that those are literal Hay's Code guidelines. "Yes you can portray the bad thing, as long as it's explicitly said to be bad, and done by bad people, and all the bad people are punished for it".
Saying "dark themes can be portrayed, but only if they're portrayed as bad" is not advocating in favor of art, it's more advocating in favor of propaganda. The main purpose of art is not to be didactic, or to teach good morals or a guideline to tell people how to live their lives.
So yeah, characters can have shitty harmful opinions and never learn or be corrected in the narrative, villains might never be punished for their actions, the evil toxic romance might be portrayed as sexy, and no one will turn to the camera to tell you how the bad thing is bad and you shouldn't do it in real life.
Because just as we say that porn is fiction and not sex-ed, fiction in general shouldn't be taken as educational material and it should not need to be that, it's not its job. We are not gullible little kids, and I don't want to be treated like one. I'm old enough to know not to replicate something just because I saw it in a cartoon, let's tone down with the infantilization and paternalism please.
So here's what really gets me about what I'll generously call "the argument from harm reduction." We'll assume for the sake of argument that they genuinely do mean it when they say they want to eliminate "bad influences" in media, and we'll assume for the sake of argument that there is some measurable correlation between a person's actions and the media they like to consume.
(I know there's not, really, but just pretend for a second that "violent video games make people more violent" or similar is simply a true statement.)
There is a difference between paternalism and actually being a parent.
When you are a parent, you are responsible for the actions of a person who does not have the experience/knowledge to reasonably make informed decisions, and who may not be capable of differentiating between fantasy and reality. My 2-year-old niece, for example, is not currently capable of comprehending the consequences of stabbing someone with a sharp implement, because she's 2. The contextual knowledge very simply isn't present in her mushy toddler brain.
When you are exercising paternalistic moral authority, you are telling a Whole Ass Adult that you have the right to limit or remove their autonomy because you disagree with their preferences or opinions.
Regardless of what potential future actions you may or may not be exerting an influence over by doing so, you are literally curtailing someone's freedoms based on your personal opinion. That is never an acceptable course of action.
Hot Take: Paternalism is Bad, Actually
You should never, under any circumstances, treat a grown adult human as if they are a toddler that doesn't know any better.
If you watch the videotape, youāre gone in a week.
Thatās the deal. Thatās the legend. And itās true⦠kinda.
Listen. Iāve been trapped in this tape for a decade now. I donāt want this. I donāt like this. Who would?
But the curse is the curse is the curse. You find yourself in possession of the tape. You are tempted to watch the tape. Eventually, you cave and you pop it in the machine. Then I haunt the eff out of you for a week. Then you expire.
Dang, how I wish folks wouldnāt watch the tape.
The thing with ghosts, right? The thing is: we are deeply traumatised.
Like, I haunted a therapist once and we talked it over. (I mean, he didnāt really know we were talking it over. He thought he was having a series of very trippy, vaguely work-related dreams.)
People think ghosts trapped in cursed objects are all ālook at me, Iām trapped in the horror of my supernatural demise, so Iām gonna enact the horrors on the living worldā. And, like, I canāt speak to every spirit, right? Some of them might be like that.
But most of us? Our spooky PTSD response is flight or freeze or faun. Like, you run so fast from the end that you literally escape the reaper. Or you freeze so hard you form a calcified knot of nerve tissue in reality. Or you faun at the powers that be so convincingly they offer you a Real Bad Deal and you take it, because of course you do.
Even ghosts who hit the fight response⦠it mostly fades when the perceived threat is gone. Then youāre stuck in the aether, knowing someone has cast you as the monster in a bad slasher flick and theyāre gonna call action someday.
Sorry. Iām rambling. I do that. Look, I can get to the point if you really want, but you wonāt like it any more than I do.
Sure I canāt regale you with more tales from beyond the veil? Iāve got a bunch!
Okay. Fine. Lookā¦
Hereās the tea: the video tape only finds its way to folks who were gonna pass in seven days anyway. The chilling visions, witchy dreams and creeping terror? Thatās all just set dressing. Iām more of a ferryperson than a ghost, really. A psychopomp, to give it the fancy term.
The real kicker? The sting in the tail of every curse is a gift. By which I meanā¦
If you donāt watch the tape, then you wonāt pass on.
Still, everyone always watches the tape. Eventually.
Oh, I beg with them. I plead them. I promise to be a good roommate in their psyche and not take up too much space or get too much ectoplasm on the couch. But communication from beyond is complicated. Sometimes, I terrify them. Sometimes, I just make them curious. Sometimes, Iām just quiet and I pray and I try to fill their subconscious with quiet, fervent hope.
Some of them hold out a while. One woman lasted a whole six months.
I reckon if someone holds out long enough⦠maybe a year? Maybe more? Then the curse will be broken and we can both escape our fates.
That might just be wishful thinking, though.
In the meantime, I just try to be grateful for every day I go unwatched.
Every extra day I can give you is a blessing.
Hell. Why do I bother? I donāt know if you can even hear anything except chitteringā¦
Look, this post has been wildly more popular than I thought it deserved, apparently at least in part because "don't burden others; be independent" is far more ingrained in people than I realized. So here's the thing: society works when people help each other. Helping others gives people a chance to know each other, and gives them an investment in the people they help. Helping creates bonds. People enjoy helping, and you are doing a good by letting them help you if they so wish.
Offer help; accept help. You will be a part of creating a helping culture. Which, incidentally, weakens capitalism and the fractionation between people that benefits those who would use us.
Please use these terms correctly. Not doing so will deeply harm the people who actually have experienced trauma, gaslighting, triggers, and people who have NPD.
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when ur pushing 30 and renting an apartment and reckoning with your health and future prospects ppl drawing pokemon porn becomes a lot less pressing of an issue
This. If you've got enough time and energy to go Torquemada at things like movies, TCGs or the canon for shows of which you're not even part of the intended demographic, the fact is you're actually sheltered as all Hell.
"But I hyperfixate!", or so you might say. So do I at times, but putting food on the table and a roof over my head at 42 are both so imperative and time-consuming that my energy and willingness to subsume my entire sense of Self to some Thing or another reaches a net Zero value.
When your time window to go Feral Goblin shrinks down to two hours a day, you become amazingly selective about your entertainment choices.
And as someone said, āBut then people who use hobbies as an escape from their real life problems enter fandoms and have to deal with people bitching about pokemon porn instead of just relaxing and healing from everyday stress. I wish fandoms were less stressful for the people who are already dealing with a lot.ā
This. Absolutely this. I entered fandoms around the time I was eleven years old or younger, which was around the time I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and OCD. I was pulled out of public school due to these two mental mindfucks of an illness that caused me to almost āvisit the afterlife on my own termsā at that age, and I could go on for hours about the rest of the bullshit I had to deal with prior and after.
As well as what I still do. Having to stress about keeping a roof over my grandmother (with severe PTSD, at that) and (ill) older brotherās heads, helping keep the bills paid, keeping us fed, and damnāwhat basic care will I be denied this time because of Americaās shitty insurance?
And Iām only twenty years old.
I cannot stress enough the amount of turmoil it is knowing there are people around my age range or younger (god forbid, sometimes way older) who have enough free time and money to travel, to go out with a friend or two, etc.
Or hell, even arguing over the internet about if being into Pokemon P0rn makes you one of the most morally disgusting people on planet earth, if at all, or not.
This is not to sound as if Iām playing trauma olympics. Theyāre just examples, of which I clearly donāt mind sharing. And itās fine to have tiny, silly things in life that aggravate you or even straight up make you ask outloud āwhyāāhell, I do myself.
People who spread rumours that get way out of control in fandoms, people who have the attention span of chickens (which seems to be increasing each day) enough to comment āI aināt reading that essayā over a singular paragraph, and more.
But if youāre spending a good amount of time on What Is TikTok Calling Morally Wrong This Timeā¢ļø and get your latest $400 tattoo a couple of days later (and Iām not even overexaggerating there. Met a coworker in my age range exactly like this, in this specific pattern), then Iām either somehow a 40 year old woman already or something else is going on that has little to do with me.
BDSM is evil and irrational and nobody is actually into it. now if youāll excuse me i have to go eat sour candy advertised on the basis that it will hurt my mouth + get on a roller coaster to activate my flight or fight response + read a tragedy that makes me cry + watch a horror movie that will scare me + participate in combat sports for fun and entertainment
And on this point, you should still be doing aftercare for yourself after high-emotion activities that aren't sex.
Are you especially affected by horror movies? Having to watch a comedy after a horror movie to diffuse the tension is aftercare. Did you get so into a tragedy that you sobbed over it? Having to do things to comfort yourself afterwards, like tea and a hug, is aftercare.
Aftercare is settling your emotions after you've been on a brain chemical high so you don't crash into a brain chemical LOW, it's important! Have you ever gone to a concert or a convention and felt like shit when it was over? That's what that is.
Apparently this is a hot take but like if someone isn't mentally or emotionally capable of being the person you vent to then you should respect their boundaries.
Being responsible for making someone else feel better is genuinely hard to deal with. It's emotionally and mentally draining. Some people are capable of doing it, some people aren't.
I used to be someone who could listen. I used to be someone who enjoyed being the supporting friend that people could vent to. Until I got into a toxic friendship that involved that friend venting to me every single day, sometimes multiple times a day, to the point it was taking me away from things I actually enjoyed and school work until I literally wasn't doing anything accept comforting them. Now the thought of someone venting to me gives me so much anxiety and dread that it makes me sick.
"If you're not willing to listen to me vent then you're not my friend" is a selfish and shitty mentality and doesn't make people want to help you. The thing that makes it so great that people are willing to help is that they aren't obligated to do so. They do it because they want to. Let people have the option of wanting to help you. All you're saying is "my feelings are more important than your comfort" and that shit doesn't feel great to be on the receiving end of!
And I don't care if someone reading this is like "I, personally, would do anything for my friends, you're just a bad friend" or whatever. I literally don't care! Just because you're willing and capable of doing something doesn't mean other people are!
This right here is what I wish people were able to jam into their heads. I really donāt think they will until theyāve been on two sides of the coin.
Speaking as someone who used to be the toxic friend who would guilt my past friends when they voiced they were burnt out, and someone who used to be āthe therapist friend.ā
I was first the therapist friend who made herself so readily available 24/7, that even if I wasnāt in a good headspace myself in the least, I still listened to the problems and mental health of others. Even if I was having thoughts and urges of taking my own lifeāif they were too, then I listened. No matter how more awful it made my own already down the drain mental health.
One friend even sent images of their own fresh self harm wounds, because I never set a single boundary saying they couldnāt otherwise.
I set myself on fire to keep others warm.
I then soon developed the same highly dangerous and toxic behavior of āWow, youāre too burnt out and not in a good headspace enough to listen to what Iām suffering with? Thatās not a true friendā to new friends.
The people I deeply harmed with that behavior/mindset soon left my life.
And thank fuck for that. Because no one deserves to ever go through that shit.
At the end of the day, and I hate to sound harsh: But while community, trust, vulnerability, and honesty are direly important in friendshipsānone of them, no matter how close, can āfixā you.
And they, too, have struggles and scars of their ownāthat whatever youāre dumping onto them out of nowhere (keyword on āout of nowhereā) has a possibility of greatly and unintentionally worsening what theyāre dealing with. Be it they realize that or not (e.g: Thoughts and urges of taking my own life, let alone self harm, worsened much quicker due to hearing about it even when I was in a good headspace).
Iām more than thankful I developed the habit of not only simply asking, āhey, are you in a good headspace to hear about this at the moment?ā but also if a friend isnāt, then using the relatively healthy coping skills Iāve worked hard to find.
I can hold my own if need be now, and that isnāt an unhealthy thing at allāitās being self efficient/responsible of my own mental health.
Understanding that hey, at the end of the day, itās up to me. And I no longer always need another person to keep me from falling off the end of the thread.
Even licensed, good therapists cannot just erase your problems, let alone hold them off.
They can help you get by, listen, and teach good coping skillsābut at the end of the day, the battle is up to you. Youāre getting through and leading the pitch black tunnelāall your friends are doing is holding up a flashlight, giving some ideas, and helping with obstacles along the way.
Hopefully all of this makes sense.
And just to add on:
Please, for the love of a god I donāt even believe in, remember to ask any friends who just vented to you if theyād prefer you just sit and listen, comfort them, or give advice.
Iāve had a friend in my life who called himself āthe therapist friend,ā and after hearing me vent, started giving all this advice I didnāt ask for, which felt super condescending, as if I didnāt know what to do already. Then started psychoanalyzing meāas if I havenāt psychoanalyzed myself, let alone attended multiple therapists and psychiatrists, for years. Which made me feel dissected like a bug, and as if I was more like a client than a friend. And as if he genuinely believed he knew me better than I knew myself.
Both sides can be so, so harmful, in more ways than one. Iām more than happy someone actually spoke out about one of them, let alone on tumblr, where it seems to be plagued by the same toxic mindset and behavior I used to have. Itās mind boggling.
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Last Song: currently listening to ICU by Citizen Soldier (at the time of starting this post). before that it was Gone Too Soon by Daughtry. at the time of finishing and posting this, i am currently listening to Lucky One by Simple Plan
Favorite Color: dark purple. always dark purple. dark purple my beloved <3
Currently Reading: nothing atm because i haven't had the chance to make another trip to the library, but the last book i read was The Meaning of Birds by Jaye Robin Brown! Very sad but very good. I've also recently read Stars, Hide Your Fires by Jessica Mary Best, The Many Half-Lived Lives of Sam Sylvester by Maya MacGregor, and I Wish You All The Best by Mason Deaver! I very much enjoyed all 4 of them, but I will say that The Many Half-Lived Lives of Sam Sylvester was definitely my favorite :)
Currently Watching: rewatching Star Trek: Discovery with my dad (and introducing my mom to it at the same time), watching Only Murders in the Building with my mom for the first time, and my dad and I just recently finished watching Star Trek: Lower Decks. plus my mom and I are always in a perpetual rewatch of Legends of Tomorrow and/or Arrow (though they've been on pause a little bit lately). now I'm just waiting for The Walking Dead: Daryl Dixon: The Book of Carol to come back in late September lmao, among other shows
Last Movie: uhhhh I'm honestly not entirely sure. I think it might've been either Heart of Stone or Kingdom of the Planet of the Apes, but I could be wrong about that
Sweet, Spicy, or Savory: definitely savory. i do love salt lmao. i do still have a bit of a sweet tooth but nowhere near as much as i used to, and now it's mostly reserved for white chocolate and other vanilla-flavored things lmao
Relationship Status: i am so, so incredibly, painfully single and i do not see that changing anytime soon unfortunately
Current Obsessions: uhhh, i guess my usuals? Citizen Soldier, of course, Legends, The Walking Dead, Star Trek. those are like. the main ones, idk.
Tea or Coffee: neither. i can't stand to drink either of them, they both taste nasty to me ngl. just let me have apple juice and i'm set
Last Thing I Googled: uhhhh ngl i think it was 'savory definition' just to make sure my "i love salt" comment would make sense LMAO but before that it was the 4 books I've read recently to make sure I was getting the names of the authors correct
andddd idk if i actually have 9 people to tag but i'll do my best.
No pressure tags: @forthehonorofgrey @chocolatemilk25 @for-forever21 @lochjhessmonster @lola-andheruniverse @justpalsbeingals @marimacha-tonto @mari-the-alien and anyone else who wants to! (just pretend i tagged you lol)
Last Song: The Summer Ends by American Football. I've been putting together a "Coming of Age/Last Summer" vibes playlist to inspire me as I conceptualize this slice of life campaign I wanna run :>
Favorite Color: Pink and Green, 1000%. I love pink because it's cute, and I've come to really love green because of my whole alien motif. I don't quite love green as much as one of my friends, though, so I could never take that away from him hahah
Currently Reading: The Burning Bridge by John Flanagan. I finished the first book in this series, The Ranger's Apprentice, and thanks to it, I finally understand the ranger fantasy. I always had trouble understanding what "ranger" was supposed to evoke, only to find out that everything it's supposed to be is what my D&D 5e rogue character already is.
Currently Watching: Nothing yet, but I had just finished a rewatch of Dimension 20's Mentopolis. The summer campaign I'm going to run will be using the Kids on Bikes system, and Mentopolis was an amazing game that showcases it. Plus, I love Brennan Lee Mulligan <3
Last Movie: It's been a good while since I've sat down to watch a movie, so I think that would have to be The Menu. I was watching that as inspiration for the last campaign I ran which surrounded a cult :) The cult leader gave a speech to her townsfolk very reminiscent to how Chef Slowik talks to his kitchen.
Sweet, Spicy, or Savory: Sweet all the way. I love savory, and I can tolerate spicy, but ten times out of ten, I gotta pick something sweet, but not too sweet.
Current Obsessions: D&D and TTRPGs. I've been obsessed over that in general, but I've been itching to run a new game. I just wish schedules allowed it!
Tea or Coffee: Neither! I just don't like the taste of either, honestly. I haven't found a way of preparing coffee that doesn't taste bitter to me, and tea is not the most accessible thing for me. I'm a big hot chocolate fan, though :)
Last Thing I Googled: Technically? the IMDB page for The Menu lmao. Before I started this post? Some D&D 5e rules text for warlock invocations lmao
No pressure tags: I don't know too many people here, but i wanna send this to @mysmistree, @writingwithfolklore, and to Norm at @preservationofnormalcy :>
Last Song: Travelin' Man by Dead Poet Society--soo good. Recently also got into Convey and City of Skin and Bone goes so hard. They do not match at all the manuscript I'm working on atm though haha so my vibe meter has been all off.
Favorite Color: Pink <3 All things pink. I used to hate pink as a kid because it was too 'girly' (had a long 'not like other girls' phase because I didn't like boys, would turn out that I'm gay and very much like other girls) but have basically liked pink since I let that go as a teen.
Currently Reading: I just finished Six Crimson Cranes by Elizabeth Lim, was a super nice, kind of cozy? Kind of thrilling? Fantasy. Loved it. Now I'm probably onto an audio book as uni starts up again and I lose all my time to long bus rides.
Currently Watching: Also just finished The Bear, am on season 5 of the X Files, and am almost constantly rewatching Bob's Burgers when I need something light and easy.
Last Movie: I don't watch movies that often... Maybe Red Notice? But that was like months ago lol.
Sweet, Spicy, or Savory: Spicy everything <3 if a meal has the option or ability to be spicy I will make it so. I think everything is just a bit better when it's spicy.
Relationship Status: I move around too much to hold onto a relationship haha. Maybe better luck when I'm back from my abroad semester.
Current Obsessions: Is it narcissistic to say my own manuscript? I've been deep into writing and editing lately, I don't really think about anything else hah.
Tea or Coffee: Tea <3 especially matcha, or when I can afford it a London Fog. Coffee makes me anxious and weird, but tea doesn't so I'm a tea guy for life.
Last Thing I Googled: "Synonyms for disarm" I was writing a cover letter.
No pressure tags: I'm never good with knowing who to tag so let's say @bunchosnails @frostedlemonwriter @mrbexwrites @overdecorated-furniture @thewritinggrindstone @boxohobo @satinsolace and you all can let me know if you'd rather not be tagged in stuff!
Last Song: āStill a Childā by Lizzy Hilliard, I believe. I hardly listen to softer music such as this, I really need to be in a chill and relaxed mood enough to. This was also absolutely a song I heavily relate to, however!
Favorite Color: This is the question I always struggle on. Yellow? Green? Brown? Earthy colors? Depends on the shade, too.
Currently Reading: Honestly, with how busy Iāve been, I havenāt had the time to read. I also prefer reading from physical books, though havenāt had the money to buy any.
I badly want to read the manga āThe Girl From The Other Side,ā though. It sounds right up my alley: Found family, let alone a monster taking a parental role towards a little girlāand from my knowledge, zero romance. If there is any, Iām hoping itās in the background and hardly noticeable. (And obviously, not between the little girl and monster. My favorite book reviews channel, Rachel Reads, recommend it thoughāso Iām trusting it to not disappoint).
Currently Watching: Iām picky with shows and other media I watch. I also just donāt remember what Iāve watched recently. š
Last Movie: ^^^^^^
Sweet, Spicy, or Savory: As the person who tagged me said, spicy everything! Same here that if a meal has the option or ability to be spicy, I will make it so. Though sweet is absolutely second on the listāI have a major sweet tooth that Iāve been trying to control.
Relationship Status: Single. More than happy and content with that, as Iām Aromantic.
Current Obsessions: In general, hobby, or media wise? Because in general, Iād say Iāve been extra desperate and determined to finally gain full independence, gain good financial stability, and permanently get out of the hillbilly, highly conservative, empty and lifeless hellhole that is my hometown from birth. I yearn to not only do that, but travel and study abroad as wellāso, Iāve been doing almost nothing but work and saving up.
Iāve even apparently been āon the rollā enough that a relative told me I have a āone track mind.ā I donāt think theyāre wrong. And in the words of Marina: š¶ one track heart, if I fail, Iāll fall apart š¶
Tea or Coffee: Tea. Same as the one who tagged me; especially matcha.
Last Thing I Googled: "What do black hospital gowns mean,ā though with my hometown location name. I wanted to remember which certain colored gowns mean at a hospital I work at.
No pressure tags: I have no idea, so to anyone reading this (other than who tagged me, of course)āplease feel free to follow up this post!
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What Iāve really come to realize is that being Aromantic is queer as hell. Because while folks like this lovely, totally not ignorant person can surely accept gaysāanything outside of solely āLGBā? They explode like confetti! Aromanticism is a totally different type of āabnormal.ā
Then they resort back to the āabnormal/mentally ill/big issue/etc,ā the very same language used by people back in the day who couldnāt wrap their heads around two guys and girls dating.
When people encounter something theyāve never heard of, what is entirely outside of their own experienceāsometimes, instead of looking more into it and admitting while they still may not understand, they still accept it and appreciate that they learned something new about the human psycheāthey grow defensive and suddenly want you in a freakshow.
Because thereās absolutely no way that thing exists, right? If it does, and it isnāt their normal nor personal experience nor societyās version of whatās acceptable, then itās abnormal and whoever is that way needs to check their head. Right?
Even if itās something likeāwhile seems harmless and simple enough to comprehend in theoryāsomeone not being able to feel romantic attraction.