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I’M FUCKING WHEEZING how am i supposed to live my life after reading this post knowing these people are out there somewhere

Every five years or so a trans woman has to roll a die to determine what weird personality modifier the stress of existing has made her develop

sometimes a trans woman will love you enough and feel comfortable enough around you to sing and you should feel so honored

"So does it count if" let's stop right there. All systems of classification are fake. We made them up. They are not capable of being correct or incorrect; they are only useful or not useful. The question you should be asking is not "does A technically fit into category B?", but rather, "does it have utility to draw our lines such that A fits into category B?"

It counts if it pisses you off specifically.

That's actually a lot better than most of the taxonomic quibbling on this site. Like, at least "does it piss this one specific guy off?" is a coherent metric of utility!

don't get me wrong i love "always knew i wasn't a boy/girl" narratives but how about we start writing about "knew about trans people but couldn't imagine being one because Surely I'm not special that way and instead just kinda bad at being a boy/girl"

official linguistics post

"why would a jeans company be posting white supremacist dogwhistles?" because white supremacy and capitalism are co-sustaining you stupid bitch

100 year old femdom kink book understands transmisogyny better than the average tumblr user

having a cyclical mental illness really does feel like being the world's most dogshit necromancer reanimating the same corpse every few months

the other thing that bothers me about some trans women using their own bad experiences with egg jokes to justify acting like a trans woman joking about her own friend is evil is that none of them seem to care about how all the people whos issue with egg jokes is that it "harms" cis men are a much bigger obstacle to transfems coming out. you dont really need to imagine how the "every queer community needs a pet cishet guy" crowd would react to their "pet cishet guy" coming out as a trans woman. all of the tme people going out in droves to basically say "id hate it if someone i thought of as a cis man was actually a trans woman" are a way bigger danger to closeted and questioning trans girls than egg jokes. if you cared about making safe spaces for people to question their gender youd be just as mad at that pet cishet guy shit.

I’m starting to sound like a nutcase at work because upper management keeps trying to implement AI programs and AI assistants and Chat GPT and my middle-of-the-road, don’t-infodump, don’t-engage response has been “I don’t like AI”, “I prefer to remain in control of my own tasks”, “I’d rather make my own mistakes”, and “I don’t trust any machine smarter than a toaster”

*sitting around stoned at midnight* there’s something almost transitory happening right now….. like we’re stuck between yesterday and tomorrow…

as soon as the internet decided depression and anxiety were the everyman mental illnesses and therefore not to be taken seriously we were all fucked tbh bc the fact that i have to feel embarrassed to admit i have debilitating anxiety because people will think im just an uwu dont call me out coward is ridiculous. its insane that i have to clarify that my depressive episodes are like life threatening and not whatever dipshit dumbed down idea of depression people seem to have like oh yeah i just wanna watch netflix and eat ice cream and not text people back. like bro i think im the devil

like maybe depression and anxiety are household names now but they do still kill people. like. theres a reason they fucking kill people.