It may be an insane way to introduce oneself, but if someone was able to do it, certainly I will too. How, you may ask, well with this blog I will share my journey to becoming a bona fide socialite. A trustworthy, chic, intelligent and a one of a kind socialite. In a world where the dying art of being a socialite, I want to restore it by making this documentary of becoming one.
At the end of this year I will work on establishing a “profile” of myself with a significant lifestyle change by reaching different goals. As it is summer, many of you guys may relate to wanting the idea of becoming this new person before going back to your classroom. As I will start my first year in university, I will also post about my preparations and my thoughts before beginning this new chapter of my life.
Introducing my goals
I have always had a dream of learning a new language on my own, and this year I chose to learn Mandarin Chinese.
As this will be my 4th language my goal at the end of this year is to…
reach HSK 5 fluency
To become a socialite you have to make people want to invest in you, and what is the best way to get people to do that? Having capital, meaning having a business that makes relatively good money.
At the end of this year I want to…
have enough revenue, capital, recourses, and recognition for future investors to want to invest in my business.
To be a socialite I certainly have to look, act and be the part. Therefore my goals will be…
that I go through a mindset change, changing how I think, feel and react on different situations with others and with myself
glowing up physically by improving my health by working out and being active, and doing intense skin, body and hair care.
having better etiquette and immersing in different table manners across different cultural and social categories.
being more knowledgeable in areas like art, politics, culture, finance, technology, and science.
reading more, where my reading goal is to read 5 nonfiction books, 5 classical novels, and 5 essays.
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Call me shallow, but my goal is to move up to a higher social class and be affluent.
I know that I am not meant to live a life of mediocrity, and I will be so educated that I will belong to high society, rightfully so. Call me arrogant all you want, I don't care, I will do whatever it takes to make me reach that goal.
What I find so funny is how whenever a woman utters that she has the same ambitious goals as me, she is met with miserable spiteful people starting their indoctrination that she should "stop being delusional and start being realistic".
Realistic? It is realistic. If other people can do it, why can't she? Is it wrong that a woman wants a relaxed life with no financial burdens? No worries whether she has enough to pay bills and other living costs? Is it so wrong that a woman wants to have enough money to afford luxury for herself and invest in her future? Or do you believe that women = struggle through life.
I am sick and tired of living a life of worries, and many other woman do too. I may be young, but I have lived in a immigrant household and saw how my parents had to scrape through life. I don't want to live like that. I am ambitious, and I do have the courage to be "delusional" enough to make it. If other people with the same, and even worse background as me could do it, so can I.
Women. Do not let the shackles of patriarchy, self doubt, insecurity, anxiety and all negativity get you away from your goals. Act now, before you end up regretting for the rest of your life.
Starting medical school soon, so I am prepping (early I know) books, notebooks, stationery, and etc.
It is so stressing and just the constant pressure from my brain haunting me of everything that can go wrong takes me back to who I used to be.
I used to be this insecure, people pleasing, anxiety ridden, and needy person that would overthink and literally sweat, cry and vomit if I just suspected that someone was thinking differently from me.
I have grown and I am a new woman that realised that people don’t care. They’re too busy looking and trying to fix their own life problems, that if someone is deliberately trying to put you down and is always invested in your life shows that they’re bored and is, literally, a lowlife that puts their misery onto people that they know can do better than them.
So for my darlings that are starting university soon, and is super stressed and scared, things will be okay and you will have a wonderful time.
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For my darlings that are trying and are leveling up, while living in environments of toxicity, hate and hardships
I cheer for you and I feel you. However, if you truly wish to be the best version of yourself, the version of yourself that is kind, loving and caring to yourself, you cannot keep living in such environment. I know, easier said than done. "I can't, I have strict parents". "I can't, I don't have enough money/resources". "I can't because I am scared". You can, your solutions aren't creative enough (ouch, harsh). Okay you have strict parents and can't move out, get yourself into a good university with a good major far from where you live. Don't have enough money? Get yourself in a program that can provide you enough money and support that can get you away. It can be anything. Scholarships, loan even, anything! Done studying? Get yourself a job far away. Have a secret money stash where you can save money. There are hope, there are ways darling. Just know that if you keep yourself in that mentally draining cage, you will never be free and always end up on that evil circle of relapsing to your bad habits that have been bred to keep you sane under your constant mental distress.
As I was doing my daily Chinese immersion lessons I came across this phrase used among young Chinese women:
“给男人花钱，倒霉一辈子”
as some of you reading this may not know how to read Chinese, I can enlighten you that the direct translation of this phrase means:
"Spending money on men gives you bad luck for a lifetime",
however with the real meaning and use of young Chinese women being:
"Invest in a man, bankrupt your future"
This means that as a woman, never depend yourself, your hopes and dreams on a man by "giving" your assets to him as it will only ruin you and your future.
Which are your favorite hypergamy/socialite/soft life accounts for inspiration?
Hello beautiful! To be honest, I am pretty new to Tumblr and don’t know that many accounts. However, I have grown fond of @sosuigeneris. I love her posts and love how encouraging she is and an overall classy woman she is.
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So, I went on another walk today at a affluent area in the city centre, and guess what another observation I have to share.
Before I get into that, affluent people in my area loves to wear "quiet luxury", and I don't mean like what you hear on TikTok or Instagram. They have on designers most people don't know, and it is often local and tailored to literally fit into them. If you're a fashion nerd (something I would call myself) you would instantly recognize that the materials used on their clothes is not your typical polyester or cotton. I mean quality wool, vicuna, camel hair, silk organza, and the classic; cashmere. Also, believe it or not, they love a good pair of pearls. It is so discreet, and even though it is stereotypical, they just love pearls as I have seen many of them wear it. Another thing I noticed was how simple the clothes was. It was perfectly tailored, but not too much colour.
Another thing is smell. They all smell like Le Labo Lys 41! Maybe they really like the perfume, but it is way different than what I would expect they would smell. Maybe it would be Baccarat Rouge, but they like smells that are very light and with hints of floral. The perfume has to smell "fresh".
I was stumbling upon a Chinese blogger and she said “the most top-tier man is an average woman”, and it really sat with me.
What do you mean we praise and fawn over men that is literally the average expectation of our female friends. It just gives them the pass that they can stay mediocre because as long we praise them, women will always be expected to be godlike immortals and men can be the average woman.
The minute you open your mouth about your goals, is the minute you let others influence you to stay in your comfort zone to comfort others. We humans are social beings and one word can be enough to literally make you question everything. Therefore when you choose to go out of a the social sanctuary that has been unconsciously made by your social circle, you will be deemed as a threat and they will, conscious or unconscious, keep you in there.
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Whatever I don’t like and don’t change, then the dislike becomes an active choice.
If I can’t commit to something that I want, I don’t want it bad enough I just like the idea of it.
And pay attention to how I used “I” instead of the usual “you” for posts like these. As you read this l, you will affirm and realise that these pills were not for only me to swallow, but also for you.
