๐ฉ ๐ชtransids: trans age (like teen to preteen idk)
๐ฉ ๐ชparas: anti-c zoo, pro leaning-c map, masochist, autobiasto, plusho, etc.
๐ฉ ๐ชdni: none, but i will block freely.
๐ฉ ๐ช intrests: tmc, drawing, baking, apothecary diaries, herbal medicine, The Time I Was Reincarnated As A Slime, ninah, anime in genral, polytoria, hail mary, iron lung.
byi:
im up for talking and SHORT debate but please be civil
i am very willing to answer your quetions about me as long as its no about any identifiable info and your kind
im not looking to date or do anything nsft / romantic. just here to makes friends
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flags for maps who are aroace! for instance, they may experience tertiary attractions to minors.
fun fact : the colors from the combined aroace flag and main map flag were utilized and mixed together in various ways to represent the unique attractions that aroace maps experience.
Being fine with adult/youth romance at a younger age than adult/youth sex is completely illogical and tells me you based this off of Vibes and not anything factual. Tell me, why on earth would it be better for an adult to have a long term romantic relationship with a young person, in which they know incredibly intimate and easily exploited things about the young person, than for an adult to hookup with a young person once?
I don't think either of these things are okay, but it's far easier for an adult to abuse a young person in a romantic relationship than during a one night stand. Contact discourse would be so much more tolerable if pro-contacts weren't hellbent on deciding things based off of emotion and vibes rather than logic
younger teens are at more risk of pregnancy complications at a younger age. and most predatory maps dont get with teens for just romance they get with them for sex, although are some who will thats a very small amount. also sex is more intimate and vulnerable then romantic relationships imo, a lot more can go wrong during sex than romantic relationships. so all in all its just safer for teens to wait and test the dating pool before doing anything more intimate like sex.
Not charged, just curious - why are you anti-c for zoo but pro-c for map? idk if ive seen that before and im a bit confused, especially since nonhuman animals of the two are more known to have sex regularly by the general public
im pro leaning for my map identity due to a relationship with an adult as a teen. i believe that teens (15+ for sex 12+ for romance) can be in relationships with adults if they are educated on gromming/manipulation, sex risk, and how to properly wield their consent. and i think if we get rid of rape culture and liberate the youth ( give them more resources/ power , better education, and to listen to them better) then minor adult relationships would be a very safe option a teen can chose! the reason why i dont think contact with animals is a good idea is that animals cant just be given power, to give animals more power we would have to completely uproot our society and start from scratch. our whole way of life is built on animals having no power in our society, hell they have less power than toddlers do. if a young child was assaulted/ abused they can tell an authority and the authority can understand the child when they describe what happened. an animal cant tell an authority what happed to them, so if the assault/ abuse is well hidden then the animal is fresh out of luck. if we want contact with animals to be even a fraction safe we need to find a way to communicate better with animals (if thats even possible) and we need to give them power. and thats if they can give proper consent.
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Minors are currently treated as 2nd class citizens
They are refused bodily autonomy and rights under the same excuse of "they're not smart enough" "they don't know what they are doing" "they're biologically not as smart as adults" as women and black people were.
They are refused access to things and are shunned from places and segregated from adults
It gets so bad that even adults who are from different generations are perpetuating the divide between eachother when we're all supposed to be a community
It makes me so upset that even this community often discriminates against minors
I think minors should be able to vote, to be able to make decisions for themselves, to be told what's going on, not just "oh they're not old enough for that"
I AM SERIOUSLY PISSED OFF
Minor should not be a legal class
A lot of issues that come from minors being allowed into adult spaces is purely fucking social and if there was no shame or "they shouldn't know this" "they shouldn't see this" attached to it and they were actually fucking told and treated like fucking people it would not be a god fucking damn issue
I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly
Iโm so glad you asked! Let me list off what Iโve got for you:
Books I personally recommend:
- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book,ย byย Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
If youโre having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. Theyโll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and arenโt into.
- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra
Where this book really shines isnโt actually in helping youย โmindfuckโ people, itโs in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. Itโs a great answer to the questionย โhow do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?โ
- Real Serviceย by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny
This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isnโt a better book on the subject. Itโs written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phraseย โif the Master doesnโt want it, it isnโt serviceโ will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.
- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali
This oneโs high on my reading list;ย Iโve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.
- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done
Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I havenโt personally read much of her work, but sheโs a well known sex educator and great at what she does.ย Sheโs known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.
- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex
This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you donโt need that, itโs no good. Just look through this worksheetโs wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of theย โhow do you want to feel?โ section.
Books I can kind of recommend:
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino
This book is weird. Thereโs a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of whatโs written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long.ย But thereโs some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldnโt have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesnโtย โenjoy.โ
- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English
Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shadesย bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Donโt read this if you donโt already know what youโre doing.
- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera
I love this book. Great book. Veryย focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you canโt read something and pick out what is and isnโt for you, donโt bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.
Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but theyโre all important parts of my library and Iโve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.
May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.
I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.
well yes, pedophilia being used as a synonym for predator is a big issue, what about the completely wrong use of the word grooming that keeps going around?
grooming is a specific type of abuse involving manipulating a vulnerable for your own gain, usually for sexual reasons. this term has nothing to do with age, though it IS usually targeted towards minors.
people love to use the term grooming as a catch-all for adult and minor relationships, when not every relationship is grooming. not everything involves that type of abuse, and it makes it so people also dont care for older grooming victims due it being something that โonly happens to childrenโ.
In fact, we, as a chronoadult, have been groomed by a chronominor due to our DID and their superior standing as a DID educator when we just found out we had the sickness. They told us it's fine to date them due to Alter age being different than body age, and coaxed and manipulated us into a romantic and sexual relationship.
Now we know it was wrong and we should've done more research and stood up for ourselves, but we absolutely hate it when people think grooming can only appear in regards to an adult doing it to a minor...
well yes, pedophilia being used as a synonym for predator is a big issue, what about the completely wrong use of the word grooming that keeps going around?
grooming is a specific type of abuse involving manipulating a vulnerable for your own gain, usually for sexual reasons. this term has nothing to do with age, though it IS usually targeted towards minors.
people love to use the term grooming as a catch-all for adult and minor relationships, when not every relationship is grooming. not everything involves that type of abuse, and it makes it so people also dont care for older grooming victims due it being something that โonly happens to childrenโ.
extremely important to remember that grooming is not a strictly sexual or romantic type of abuse, is not a synonym for child abuse/exploitation, and can happen to anyone, by anyone, at any stage in their life. it is manipulation and social isolation for the purpose of personal gain. awareness of what grooming really is helps protect you and others
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'larping' as a nazi and spreading / saying nazi rhetoric and talking about how much you hate jewish people and black people (regardless of whether its apart of the 'larp' or not) DOES make you a nazi i cant believe theres people thinking otherwise.
'larping' does not absolve you of the shit you said. you are a nazi if you are knowingly spreading nazi rhetoric and being a violent racist bigot.
can some of you guys lock the fuck in and stop downplaying really harmful and gross shit. how many times do people have to keep telling the rqc to STOP BEING SPINELESS for you to actually stop???
stop fucking acting like you care about people of color when this is how you react when we need to push out ideological nazis. you guys couldnt even handle pushing out a groomer oh my god!!
heres a mega-list post for anyone who needs to report something serious online via cybertip , these should be easy to access and shouldnt require too much of your personal information . other stuff like hotlines , prevention lines including resources regarding safety will be included . please archive this post .
this post is very long , look under cut . more information can be added in the future . look under the cut for all the links , and numbers .
forms
CyberTip Report
CyberTip Missing Kids & Exploitation Report
CyberTip Canada
FBI Electronic Tip Form
SacVallyHiTech File A Cybertip
hotlines
24/7 National Center For Missing & Exploited Children Hotline : 1-800-843-5678 // 1-800-THE-LOST
National Suicidal Hotline : 1-800-784-8433
Crisis Text Line : 741-741
Hopeline : 1-800-442-4673
Text : HOPELINE to 741741
National Hopeline Network Hotline : 1-800-784-2433
Suicide Prevention LifeLine : 988
TransLifeline : 1-877-565-8860
Trevor Project : 1-866-488-7386
Trevor Helpline : 1-800-850-8078
Nami Helpline : 1-800-950-6264
Thursdayโs Child , Teens & Young Adults Hotline : 1-800-872-5437
Self Harm Hotline : 1-800-366-8288
National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline : 1-800-656-4673
Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline : 1-800-422-4453
Poison Control United States Of America : 1-800-222-1222
Seriously have you people never heard that saying about nazi bars? "If Nazis frequent your bar, and you don't kick them out, more Nazis will come, the rest of your clientele leaves, and your bar will become a Nazi Bar. " Don't let this community become a fucking nazi bar.
COMMON NAZI / RACIST DOGWHISTLE, HERE IS THE GOOGLE DOC IF YOU PREFER THAT
OP IS A TRANSNAZI JEWISH RQ, DON'T USE THAT POST TO SHIT ON N.I.N
under the more
88 - means HH or Heil Hitler
14 / 14W - means the fourteen words. it refers to a slogan created by American neo-Nazi David Eden Lane. yes 14 can also be someone's age but always check!! THESE TWOS ARE OFTEN COMBINED INTO ONE (8814 or 88/14)
TJD / T[X]D - the first one means total Jewish death, it is often disguised in sentences as totally joyous day. in general, if you see T[LETTER]D it means "total [group of people] death".
๐ - sometimes, it can be used to show that a person is a white supremacist, it began as a hoax on 4chan but some white supremacist began using it. but it is a bit rarer
((( ))) - it has a name inside them, it's used to show that the person is Jewish
271k - refers to the conspiracy theory that "only 271k" people were killed in the holocaust. it is based on a misunderstanding and misinformation of archives
Celtic cross - it is often used by white supremacist and Nazis, but also can be used for another reason
Deus Vult - an islamophobic dogwhistle, it is used to signify the "necessity of another crusade to preserve Christianity, the white race and the western civilization".
goyslop (also why i want you to stop using slop) - it refers to food, based on the conspiracy theory that Jewish people are poisoning non Jewish people (goys) through "bad food"
globalist - it can refer to the conspiracy theory that Jewish people want to dominate the world
18 - although less used, it means AH, Adolf Hitler
311 - a way KKK members refer to the KKKanti-antifa - being against people who are anti fascist, as simple as that
Blut und Ehre / Blood and Honor - it is a phrase that was popularized by the Nazi Party
Day of the Rope - it is a white supremacist slogan referring to mass murders of โrace traitorsโ that occur in The Turner Diaries, a novel written by neo-Nazi William Pierce
white genocide - a conspiracy theory that claims the white race is being genocided.fasces - ancient Roman symbol for authority and government coopted by Mussoliniโs Fascist movement in Italy.
โItโs okay to be whiteโ โ a slogan that was popularized on the website 4chan in 2017 for trolling purposes and was soon adopted by white supremacists
โMuh Holocaustโ and similar sentences - anti-Semitic phrases popular used to convey the bigoted notion that Jews routinely bring up the Holocaust to gain attention or to deflect negative attention.
"no race mixing" and similar -white supremacists fear and hate the concept of multiracial couples, relationships or families, believing that such relationships โpolluteโ the โpureโ white race.
Pepe the Frog - popular internet meme used in a variety of contexts. In recent years it has also been appropriated by white supremacists who use it in racist, anti-Semitic or other hateful contexts.
โSieg Heilโ - German phrase that translates to โHail Victory.โ The Nazi Party in Germany adopted the phrase, which became one of its most widely used slogans.
โThe Goyim Knowโ - anti-Semitic phrase portraying the "ostensible reaction of Jews" when their supposedly "conspiratorial or manipulative misdeeds are revealed to the public". Often combined with โShut It Down.โ
White/All/Blue Lives Matter - both a white supremacist slogan adopted after the rise of the Black Lives Matter movement as well as a loose movement of white supremacists who hold events to popularize the phrase.
โYou Will Not Replace Usโ - white supremacist slogan referring to the common white supremacist belief that the white race is in danger of going extinct due to rising numbers of non-whites.
noticing/nooticing/noticer - antisemitic word used to show that the user is aware of a "conspiracy made by the Jew".
๐ง - used to mean Jew/JewishWP/White Power/White pride: white supremacist phrase, used to show to other you are a white supremacist without "the normal people knowing it"
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Portraying your "MAP" OC as a sexual predator who is non-commital, manipulative, objectifying, works at a childcare facility, and grooms/molests kids proudly is MAPmisia btw.
Normally, I wouldn't care, do wtv you want forever with fiction. But it's so obvious that you just haven't unpacked your anti-MAP paramisia when your other paraphile OCs get to have nuance and interests beyond sexual gratification and your MAP OC doesn't.
MAPs are paraphiles the same way necros are. MAPs are nuanced individuals with actual non-sexual interest and attractions the same way necros are. I know that. Do you know that?
If you want to have a sexual predator OC, go ahead. But the moment you create "paraphile" OCs and the only one without nuance is the MAP one, I know what kind of "freak" you are. A fake one.
You, a natalwhite transPOC, are not more oppressed than a natalPOC. Hey, are you listening? Hi. Hello. NatalPOC do not have any systemic or social privelege over you. Jingle jingle. Looky here. NatalPOC are actively being lynched in the US right now. NatalPOC are being killed by the medical industry right now. NatalPOC are being enslaved right now. Jingle jingle, looky here. You have to understand when natalPOC call you out on your biases and racism. You have to be okay with that. You have to learn. For their safety and their lives.
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